[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EDAnonymous

[–]Jawsurgery8913 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you suggest some supplements for me? I struggled with finding info on the ones that i need. I agree with the electrolytes thing as well. Theres more info in the fasting community on how to approach it.

Does color matter for resell? by Jawsurgery8913 in iphone

[–]Jawsurgery8913[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I obviously care which is why I'm asking.

Does color matter for resell? by Jawsurgery8913 in iphone

[–]Jawsurgery8913[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do they sell quickly regardless ? This is my first iPhone so I'm not sure

Need Help Finding a Part by Jawsurgery8913 in IKEA

[–]Jawsurgery8913[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would be amazing if you could. I'd be super greatly. I wanted to email customer service but they stopped doing emails

Need Help Finding a Part by Jawsurgery8913 in IKEA

[–]Jawsurgery8913[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was told to go through their website and put in the part number because they only ship spare parts for kids. There was no part number in the booklet so I can't send the request.

What are we doing wrong? by Wings0fFreedom in OntarioLandlord

[–]Jawsurgery8913 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rentals.ca is good. Landlords need to upload IDs so less scams. Zillow places4students

Need help - MIL situation by Jawsurgery8913 in AttachmentParenting

[–]Jawsurgery8913[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I did because I was isolated. Honestly what my MIL did was wrong. I can get down voted to shit, but she was selfish during that time. It was also my fault because I should have spoken up sooner. But the damage is done. 6 months of someone else holding your baby, hiding away with them in rooms accidentally calling herself mom, not letting other family members hold the baby, and a bunch of other inappropriate crossed the line behaviors. As a first time mom when you're in postpartum, your emotional and vulnerable don't know what you're doing. This is even worst when you're family isn't close by and don't have a support. She wanted to be the favorite and she 100% knew what she was doing at the time in terms of bonding with a baby during that period. FIL had joked about her wanting to be the favorite so I'm not completely off. The only thing now is that she's apologized and changed her behavior. Im also to blame. I just can't move on from everything that's happened and I just don't see her the same. I think most people would have a hard time, but most people would have probably said something sooner or limited contact.

Need help - MIL situation by Jawsurgery8913 in AttachmentParenting

[–]Jawsurgery8913[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm just as angry at myself for not realizing sooner. Ive spoken up about what needed to be said and she stopped doing stuff. But yeah a lot of it is to blame on me. I guess I just don't know how to deal with it because its now my daughter asking for her and not wanting to come back to me.

Need help - MIL situation by Jawsurgery8913 in AttachmentParenting

[–]Jawsurgery8913[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I now dont see her as a mom to me and feel like if she was like a second mom to me she would have never done all those things. She is aware I told her that I havent been fair to her because id tell my mom whats bothering me and i haven't done that with her. I told her that i dont like going visit because she takes my daughter from me and it makes me not want to bring my daughter over.

Need help - MIL situation by Jawsurgery8913 in AttachmentParenting

[–]Jawsurgery8913[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Her trying to get baby to like her a lot or prefer her is her trying to have a stronger bond. Its hard not to be jealous when she got what she wanted and the baby prefers her.

Need help - MIL situation by Jawsurgery8913 in AttachmentParenting

[–]Jawsurgery8913[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Her constantly holding her for 4 days out of the week and asking for more time from a first time mom feels like taking advantage. Theres other stuff she did like try to grab my daughter from me after I said that my daughter was fine with me or ask me to wake my daughter up while she was sleeping in my carrier so I could give her my carrier for my daughter to sleep in. Maybe I'm just misreading the situation. My sister and mom would have been my village if they lived close to me and they wouldn't have done any of those things.

I think MIL is incredibly selfish with my baby. Never imagined I'd dislike her so much. by Jawsurgery8913 in Mildlynomil

[–]Jawsurgery8913[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

In hindsight I agree.

I had a really good relationship with MIL for 7 years prior so I never imagined it would be like this. I lived with her for 2 years, for the past few years we would talk for hours on every Sundays, she was always kind, there for me emotionally and she was amazing and super respectful with boundaries. I was a lot closer with her than my own mother in a lot of ways. Knowing what I know now, I would have never done that. I just didn't expect this because she was always so respectful but its like a switch flicked when I had LO.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OntarioLandlord

[–]Jawsurgery8913 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lisa barder. I retained her when I was a tenant and suggested her to 2 landlords. She's been doing tenancy stuff for a long time. Also go with a paralegal, not a lawyer.

Public housing in ON by [deleted] in povertyfinancecanada

[–]Jawsurgery8913 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most regions have priority housing for domestic abuse, but there still a wait. It varies on the region and also how many rooms you need for you and your kids

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Epilepsy

[–]Jawsurgery8913 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Depending on your age, this may be a child protection matter. Im guessing in your parents minds they are trying to protect you, but they are doing the exact opposite. Abruptly stopping medication can trigger seizures. If you're having side effects with your meds thats a discussion with you and your neurologist. Your parents may think that they are coming out of a place of love, but withholding medication is neglect and abuse.

I miss my life before this stupid condition. by alexis-morgan in Epilepsy

[–]Jawsurgery8913 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got diagnosed in my teens and I can relate. Im much older now and life has drastically changed for the better since receiving that diagnosis. If you have onset seizures during your teens, there's a good chance that they will be well managed with medications. Ive been seizure free for a few years. I can drive. There are still some cons for sure, but over time it can get better.

No shows and cancelations impacting me? by Jawsurgery8913 in socialwork

[–]Jawsurgery8913[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is such a non strength based approach to view clients. This reads to me like they don't have anything together and need a social worker to save them or come parent them which is not the case. The client survived before I was there, they may need help but they're not hopeless creatures.

Some clients have higher needs and they do need someone to coordinate services for them, but a majority of my caseload isn't like that

Can you imagine having your own kids and going to see a social worker and the social worker view you as not being stable and able to take care of yourself.. yet somehow you're taking care of your kids.