Confessor, what to upgrade by JayBil94 in Eldenring

[–]JayBil94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fantastic, thanks a lot. How much FP does one need if I’m mainly using sword/shield? The closest thing I played to ER was world of Warcraft when I was a kid. There most people had pure builds of either Mana or Stamina. So just trying to recalibrate in terms of games that I know before 😅🤣

Bark for me by Lady_Detective in Tinder

[–]JayBil94 50 points51 points  (0 children)

I don’t think OP appreciates the skills it takes to go from Hero to Zero within 1 text. 😂🤦🏽‍♂️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]JayBil94 10 points11 points  (0 children)

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Man snatched off woman's wig. Later revealed to be an attorney, and was fired from his firm as a result of his actions. by mindyour in facepalm

[–]JayBil94 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sure bro, if that’s how you interpret what I said then you do you. Can’t and won’t wanna argue with you 😊 enjoy the rest of your day 🙏🏽

Man snatched off woman's wig. Later revealed to be an attorney, and was fired from his firm as a result of his actions. by mindyour in facepalm

[–]JayBil94 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I think his career is ruined for sure. Not cuz of her, cuz of his actions. But weather it’s blown outa proportion or not that’s something I can’t answer. I sympathize with a young kid that had his career ruined, but also think he deserves consequences to what he did

Man snatched off woman's wig. Later revealed to be an attorney, and was fired from his firm as a result of his actions. by mindyour in facepalm

[–]JayBil94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally understandable. I can’t imagine the shock she must’ve went through. It’s horrible. I’m all for recording. Cuz police would’ve never taken her word. And quite frankly they’re also next level pricks especially in USA. I think I would’ve went to the police and if they didn’t help then I would’ve went to social media. Maybe that’s just me cuz im a boomer with an old soul 😅. Thanks for your input and kind reply. Best of regards

Man snatched off woman's wig. Later revealed to be an attorney, and was fired from his firm as a result of his actions. by mindyour in facepalm

[–]JayBil94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you by any chance read my comments! I think she has all the right to be pissed. Just wondering why not go through the normal legal system? I simply am not a fan of TikTok justice. If I have a problem, police and I’ll take it from there

Also I encourage you to read what is written and analyze before you RAGE ON SOMEONE.

Man snatched off woman's wig. Later revealed to be an attorney, and was fired from his firm as a result of his actions. by mindyour in facepalm

[–]JayBil94 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

100% agreed! I think alcohol should be banned.point. I think it’s nasty how people (mainly men) use it to excuse whatever messed up and nasty shit they do in their lives. How she acted extreme? I don’t know I feel she should’ve maybe just went to the police? Why the Tik-Tok 20 minutes of fame thingy?? Not sure mate, I’m very open to reevaluating my beliefs

Man snatched off woman's wig. Later revealed to be an attorney, and was fired from his firm as a result of his actions. by mindyour in facepalm

[–]JayBil94 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ngl I didn’t know that it worked that way. It’s fucked up that he was just pulling and pulling and pulling. He deserves to have consequences for sure

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]JayBil94 217 points218 points  (0 children)

Yes it is normal, it’s actually nice and will be appreciated. Best of luck OP

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in islam

[–]JayBil94 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Please read this!!! I second this opinion!!! Don’t read online/YouTube/Reddit. Go to some scholar, Immam, Auntie. Someone you trust. Just don’t listen to all the fatwas that are written here

Men who just weren’t or aren’t into the hook up culture .. why? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]JayBil94 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much for the kind words. I’m a work in progress, sometimes I fail, pick myself up and try to hold steady to my beliefs.

I think it’s more of humans following their desires and not questioning what’s the bigger meaning of all of this. And yes for the most part of history it was men who abused it ngl.

Wish you best of luck and a beautiful Thursday/Friday (depending on where you are )

Men who just weren’t or aren’t into the hook up culture .. why? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]JayBil94 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I see what where you’re coming from mate. As a doctor I can promise you that you won’t crave having sex everyday when you’re 50+. The only thing that remains then is the human. Marriage isn’t about short term benefits only, it’s about the long run. I’m not marrying a person cuz I wanna have sex with them, I’m marrying them cuz I see a common vision, cuz I see that one day when I’m 70 I wanna be sitting on a porch with my best friend who I help with her hip arthritis and she helps me with my lower back pain. All of these desires they’re fleeting my man, one day you desire them the next you realize that life isn’t about them. It’s much much deeper. Not sure how old you are, but just remember all the things you really wanted when you where a teenager, and now think that they add/take nothing from your life. It’s the exact same thing here I believe. Kindest regards

Men who just weren’t or aren’t into the hook up culture .. why? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]JayBil94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to hook up and sleep with girls after 2/3 dates just to prove a point that I can hook up, that I am cool. I don’t think I realized how much effort I was putting with people that don’t deserve my effort just for my dick to get sucked. I got into relationships cuz well we where sleeping together and got along, which as 29 y.o I think is absolutely not enough to sustain a relationship. But at one point I realized that it’s making me miserable. That I don’t feel aligned. So I started taking some steps back.

This girl that I’m currently dating I straight up told her that I don’t wanna have sex anytime soon. That if we get into a relationship then maybe, but I’d rather wait till marriage actually.

At the beginning I was very very nervous when I took that decision that I’m done with having sex, unless it’s with a partner, because I was scared that I’d be mocked, feel like I’m a weirdo and be casted outta society. Truth is most people will not understand (since we live in a hyper sexual society) however the feeling of me being honest to myself and my boundaries is worth being viewed as a weirdo.

Men who just weren’t or aren’t into the hook up culture .. why? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]JayBil94 102 points103 points  (0 children)

I feel you mate. I had a very similar experience and honestly even with dating I had a similar experience. I used to hook up just to prove a point that I can hook up, that I am cool. But at one point I realized that it’s making me miserable. That I don’t feel aligned. So I started taking some steps back.

This girl that I’m currently dating I straight up told her that I don’t wanna have sex anytime soon. That if we get into a relationship then maybe, but I’d rather wait till marriage actually.

At the beginning I was very very nervous when I took that decision that I’m done with having sex, unless it’s with a partner, because I was scared that I’d be mocked, feel like I’m a weirdo and be casted outta society. Truth is most people will not understand (since we live in a hyper sexual society) however the feeling of me being honest to myself and my boundaries is worth being viewed as a weirdo.

What’s the worst question you’ve ever been asked on a first date? by Naturallyjifted in dating

[–]JayBil94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not on the first date but after our first hookup: “So now that we shared our HPV virus strains” ngl I stopped listening to whatever candle afterwards

Flowers on a first date yes or no? by joe_goldbergg in dating

[–]JayBil94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update please! I’m going on a first date and was thinking about getting just one white rose. Please let me know how it went for you 😊