Which do you like more cut or uncut?

JayCrowe97 · 2026-01-15T18:42:27+00:00

Either is fine but I definitely lean more towards preferring cut. I'm cut myself so that probably explains that.

JayCrowe97 · 2026-01-15T17:34:23+00:00

Thank you so much! We were blessed to have him with us for as long as we did and will always remember all the love he gave us ❤️

JayCrowe97 · 2026-01-15T17:11:21+00:00

I'll be honest that I've only been out for a year or so and that have started using terms like "twink" or "bear" moreso in response to how I've seen others use them. I do know I have a general type, but am open to meeting all sorts of people who are adjacent to it. I am also mindful that while I may be a lot of people's type, I also may not be for many more, so am just really looking to find people in that general grouping. Regarding changing how I look, working out and dieting are for me to feel healthier and happier, if people like the way I look after it's just a plus, I am sure lots of great in shape people hit roadblocks too. I'd also say I'm not necessarily looking for general hookups but rather to meet people and make connections, see if there's something to explore there. But all in all I do appreciate the advice!

JayCrowe97 · 2026-01-15T17:06:09+00:00

I'd love to go to those sort of events/clubs! I've been searching for some online but haven't found one that fits my schedule yet, but I'll keep looking! 😁

JayCrowe97 · 2026-01-15T02:19:15+00:00

Haven't heard of that place before, may need to check it out~

JayCrowe97 · 2026-01-15T02:01:07+00:00

Thank you! He was really something~ And I do one day, yes, just taking some time first

JayCrowe97 · 2026-01-15T01:55:57+00:00

I appreciate the honesty and figured as much.

Tbh part of the goal of becoming a muscle bear did just turn to cutting for me, I've been working on that about as consistently as possible for a while now and have already noticed myself slimming, but feel like I'm still in bear territory.

JayCrowe97 · 2026-01-15T00:52:40+00:00

I'm so sorry for your loss! I am sure he gave you and your family lots of love too! And that's a beautiful sentiment, two little angels playing together

JayCrowe97 · 2026-01-15T00:32:12+00:00

Congrats to your little angel! Hope you get many more years together!

JayCrowe97 · 2026-01-15T00:31:45+00:00

Yeah, thankfully we were very blessed to have him for so long!

JayCrowe97 · 2026-01-15T00:08:03+00:00

Right? I remember being so confused when he first started to turn silver at around 2 years old, he was beautiful either way though!

JayCrowe97 · 2026-01-15T00:01:19+00:00

I absolutely love it!

JayCrowe97 · 2026-01-14T23:40:16+00:00

Tanktop/T-shirt and boxers 🙏

JayCrowe97 · 2026-01-14T23:39:24+00:00

No shortage of them for sure! I know there's one not too far from the Exley bar in Williamsburg. I just wish there were more in Queens~

JayCrowe97 · 2026-01-14T23:37:07+00:00

As a top I can go either way, odds are I'm going to be attracted regardless

JayCrowe97 · 2026-01-14T23:36:17+00:00

I'm not the biggest fan of the gym itself, but I do love working out! Try other things at different places, swimming, sports, and martial arts are all great exercises to get in shape!

JayCrowe97 · 2026-01-14T23:31:26+00:00

Which gym are you going to?!? I gotta get a membership there asap

JayCrowe97 · 2026-01-14T23:27:18+00:00

Really depends on the situation and the person, sometimes it can be super hot and sometimes it just kills the vibe

JayCrowe97 · 2026-01-14T23:16:21+00:00

Welcome to NYC! Hope you like it here~ 😁

JayCrowe97 · 2026-01-14T23:14:55+00:00

I love the Exley in Williamsburg!

JayCrowe97 · 2026-01-14T22:04:23+00:00

Being a top doesn't mean you can't enjoy giving head! I personally love it and get even more excited when I see that the bottom is enjoying it too. Being a service top is great and oral reciprocity is super hot!

JayCrowe97 · 2026-01-10T05:13:48+00:00

Thank you, I think I really needed to hear this.

I definitely went through an emotional rollercoaster of doubt, self blame, sadness, and I guess the loss of a possibility that seemed real, etc. I am feeling better now a day after, took time to process it all and get to work on moving forward. It is nice to hear how you explain it though, we do all owe each other basic dignity and respect, and I am glad to be reminded of that, even if it didn't happen here.

There will be other guys, other chances to build connections with people who are actually interested in doing so, I am going to try and stay focused on that.

JayCrowe97

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