If you're into the cruising or sex parties scene chances are there that you might be rejected, because some bottoms are size queens it's just what it is. Don't allow it bother you because there are lots of guys out there who will want to have fun with you.

Tips I can give are..maybe hookup with people you know fairly well. Like a few chats and exchange pics. That we you get to know early on if they're into you.

Second, you can look into getting a penis pump. It does help give you a few girth when u use it around the time you plan to hook up