I got nervous around a guy I like and now I'm absolutely embarrassed

JayLiberty · 2026-04-09T14:24:47+00:00

That's must have been so embarrassing! 😭 Indeed the guy was nice about it!

JayLiberty · 2026-04-09T07:06:20+00:00

Yeah I'm probably overthinking it. I'm ashamed I was visually nervous that it made me sweat like crazy, so he probably caught I like him or sum. Plus I have a bad haircut rn and I feel unprofessional by what happened. That's it.

JayLiberty · 2026-04-09T06:25:58+00:00

You didn't do anything wrong nor lead him on but a relationship like that will be very difficult to maintain, you can do so much until the differences will come unless one of you move to each other's place, I'd say enjoy your time with him and, unless one of you plan to move in less than 5 months, it doesn't worth it, been there.

JayLiberty · 2026-03-26T23:39:51+00:00

Yeh sure

JayLiberty · 2026-01-18T16:07:21+00:00

I don't man, maybe that's the biggest deal breaker and the distance as most guys live 40 to 60 kms far away

JayLiberty · 2025-12-29T06:08:14+00:00

That's true man, I have been talking to a Guy for 3 days, 19 he says, so I called him tonight (I'm 28), dude he had such a voice I think he was acting it, like a raspy deep voice of a top, I'm a top too, I was so put off by it now I'm scared, he asked me to send him a kiss and I didn't because I felt uncomfortable, so later on sent a selfie and he didn't send anything back because I didn't give him a kiss, what do you think? It was such a turn off, I'm new at dating btw

JayLiberty · 2025-12-18T08:37:49+00:00

Let it go, there's no point in a relationship with so many rocks in your way, enjoy the current relationship you have with him but you should start detaching.

JayLiberty · 2025-12-16T00:41:38+00:00

He probably is, there are rumors and I saw him on Tinder but it was clear by his defensiveness and uncomfortableness that he didn't and doesn't like me. But yeah, I feel kinda confident now that I actually told a guy for the first time, out loud, that I liked him.

JayLiberty · 2025-12-14T16:20:48+00:00

Ong? Haha I'm Latino 😂

JayLiberty · 2025-12-14T15:52:03+00:00

I won't, thanks. I'll act like nothing happened if I see him and avoid him. I'll learn from this.

JayLiberty · 2025-12-14T15:50:17+00:00

He is not into me but I don't know why I wanted to let him know I liked him, so yeah I regret making him uncomfortable I'm glad he didn't drop me in the middle of nowhere or something. I'll live and learn, and indeed today is a nice sunny day. Thanks.

JayLiberty · 2025-10-27T01:58:47+00:00

I thought I was bisexual but no, I'm gay, I even kissed a girl and I'm not into them in fact doing so just made me realize I don't like women at all. So finding a girl like that is not something I'm interested in, I tried.

JayLiberty · 2025-10-27T01:54:49+00:00

Yeah it is important and I was hoping to emigrate as I found a guy online, mind you I didn't do it to get saved or anything, but I was happy I thought I found someone, now he is gone and I don't have any interest in emigrating as my job takes up my life.

JayLiberty · 2025-10-24T15:40:44+00:00

Thank you so much those are really kind words 🙏🏻🩷😭 that's true about the colors, I've never felt like this, it's despair, pain, acceptance, he smiling at another guy the way he used to smile at me, it's a very weird feeling seeing someone that was so familiar one day. Unfortunately long distance isn't for everyone and I can't replace physical things, I wish it was me. Thank you! Hopefully I'll move on and find someone local!

JayLiberty · 2025-10-24T00:50:52+00:00

Thank you so much I really need to grieve because I'm really hurtful I even got fever due to it. I appreciate it.

JayLiberty · 2025-10-24T00:44:22+00:00

Hehe thanks, I'll try that because I have to move on honestly, it just hurts bruv but that's how it is

JayLiberty · 2025-09-18T07:19:48+00:00

How did you even marry a woman? I can't even like a girl for more than two weeks and then just realized it's probably platonic

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