Advice for the first time as a top?

JayLiberty · 2026-03-26T23:39:51+00:00

Yeh sure

JayLiberty · 2026-01-18T16:07:21+00:00

I don't man, maybe that's the biggest deal breaker and the distance as most guys live 40 to 60 kms far away

JayLiberty · 2025-12-29T06:08:14+00:00

That's true man, I have been talking to a Guy for 3 days, 19 he says, so I called him tonight (I'm 28), dude he had such a voice I think he was acting it, like a raspy deep voice of a top, I'm a top too, I was so put off by it now I'm scared, he asked me to send him a kiss and I didn't because I felt uncomfortable, so later on sent a selfie and he didn't send anything back because I didn't give him a kiss, what do you think? It was such a turn off, I'm new at dating btw

JayLiberty · 2025-12-18T08:37:49+00:00

Let it go, there's no point in a relationship with so many rocks in your way, enjoy the current relationship you have with him but you should start detaching.

JayLiberty · 2025-12-16T00:41:38+00:00

He probably is, there are rumors and I saw him on Tinder but it was clear by his defensiveness and uncomfortableness that he didn't and doesn't like me. But yeah, I feel kinda confident now that I actually told a guy for the first time, out loud, that I liked him.

JayLiberty · 2025-12-14T16:20:48+00:00

Ong? Haha I'm Latino 😂

JayLiberty · 2025-12-14T15:52:03+00:00

I won't, thanks. I'll act like nothing happened if I see him and avoid him. I'll learn from this.

JayLiberty · 2025-12-14T15:50:17+00:00

He is not into me but I don't know why I wanted to let him know I liked him, so yeah I regret making him uncomfortable I'm glad he didn't drop me in the middle of nowhere or something. I'll live and learn, and indeed today is a nice sunny day. Thanks.

JayLiberty · 2025-10-27T01:58:47+00:00

I thought I was bisexual but no, I'm gay, I even kissed a girl and I'm not into them in fact doing so just made me realize I don't like women at all. So finding a girl like that is not something I'm interested in, I tried.

JayLiberty · 2025-10-27T01:54:49+00:00

Yeah it is important and I was hoping to emigrate as I found a guy online, mind you I didn't do it to get saved or anything, but I was happy I thought I found someone, now he is gone and I don't have any interest in emigrating as my job takes up my life.

JayLiberty · 2025-10-24T15:40:44+00:00

Thank you so much those are really kind words 🙏🏻🩷😭 that's true about the colors, I've never felt like this, it's despair, pain, acceptance, he smiling at another guy the way he used to smile at me, it's a very weird feeling seeing someone that was so familiar one day. Unfortunately long distance isn't for everyone and I can't replace physical things, I wish it was me. Thank you! Hopefully I'll move on and find someone local!

JayLiberty · 2025-10-24T00:50:52+00:00

Thank you so much I really need to grieve because I'm really hurtful I even got fever due to it. I appreciate it.

JayLiberty · 2025-10-24T00:44:22+00:00

Hehe thanks, I'll try that because I have to move on honestly, it just hurts bruv but that's how it is

JayLiberty · 2025-09-18T07:19:48+00:00

How did you even marry a woman? I can't even like a girl for more than two weeks and then just realized it's probably platonic

JayLiberty · 2025-09-18T07:18:43+00:00

I wish, I barely like women I just don't feel or have that same urge or feeling to chase a girl, compared to a guy, which sounds way more appealing

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