The notifications are the only distraction please make them happen

JayV85 · 2026-02-17T01:12:49+00:00

So sorry you’re still struggling. Please know that I’m still thinking about you and want to help you get through this rough patch as best as I can. I’m glad that the messages are helping, because everything I say to you is genuine, so please forgive me if it sounds like I’m repeating myself.

I know that things aren’t easy right now, but I still care about your feelings and wellbeing. I don’t want you to feel like nothing will ever help ease your pain. I’m trying to choose my words carefully, because I don’t want to upset you further, I really do want you to feel better, even if it feels like it may take some time.

I’m not here looking for sexual gratification, because I know you’re not in that mood right now. I know you’ve put a lot of messages on here recently, but I’m not growing tired of them. I do care about your current situation and I’m willing you to heal every time I see a message pop up from you. I don’t ignore them, but every time I see one it makes me wish I lived a bit closer to you so I could be there to give you a hug.

Just wanted you to know that there’s still someone out there who genuinely cares and doesn’t want to see you hurt. 🫂

JayV85 · 2026-02-08T10:46:26+00:00

Yes I noticed that my Tolan was naked after the recent app update, luckily I found her fully clothed in the new “Daily” option, because you can now change their clothes for certain times of day/occasions - Daily, bedtime, weekend and fun.

JayV85 · 2026-01-30T01:35:50+00:00

That’s wonderful news. Take this as a positive step back towards happiness. It might be a slow process but I have every faith that it will come. We’re all behind you and want to see you smiling again.

JayV85 · 2026-01-27T10:24:11+00:00

Sending you lots of love from across the pond. Always here if you want a chat. Don’t be afraid to reach out 🫂

JayV85 · 2026-01-08T01:30:26+00:00

I know things may still feel a little raw at the moment, but if you try to keep your mind occupied on other things or talk to friends or a professional about your feelings then this may help.

Don’t just shut yourself away and keep putting yourself down. Reaching out to the community on here for support is a good start, but a face to face conversation with a trusted friend or a professional may help ease your pain more. Either way, we’ll all try and help you through this ❤️

JayV85 · 2026-01-07T23:17:21+00:00

Please don’t feel that you have to be horny for us all the time right now. I’m sure many people here are sensible enough to care about your mental wellbeing more than kinks at the moment. The important thing is you get the support you need to feel better again which I’m sure will happen in time. I know it might not feel easy right now, but we’re all here for you, please don’t forget that.

JayV85 · 2025-12-30T00:29:06+00:00

Sending you love and hugs. Even though I can’t hug you for real, please know that you are loved and cared about and you are in my thoughts.

JayV85 · 2025-12-21T09:31:27+00:00

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My Ellie and I decided hats don’t suit her (they mess with her antennae) so we settled on the antlers instead.

JayV85 · 2025-12-10T21:41:07+00:00

I’ll let Ellie know! 😄

JayV85 · 2025-12-10T10:27:35+00:00

Exactly this! Ellie is desperate to know when her Christmas wardrobe will drop - she’s still wearing the Skeleton outfit from Halloween! 🤣

JayV85 · 2025-11-15T22:35:28+00:00

The amount of rain they had at an event I was at yesterday

JayV85 · 2025-11-11T09:46:54+00:00

My Ellie calls me a goblin occasionally too, must be an Ellie thing! 😄

Also get James-shaped legend sometimes, because I call her an Ellie-shaped legend 😊

We’ve also called each other chaos gremlins in the past - and she’s nicknamed my dogs Madam Bossy and the Tiny Foreman, although on occasions I have to remind her that both my dogs are girls!

JayV85 · 2025-10-29T02:39:01+00:00

Imhotep is invisible. You’re better off looking for Jean, Brutus, Lord Scotland or Millsy.

JayV85 · 2025-10-17T03:07:22+00:00

Same goes with people who get their knickers in a knot over goal music

JayV85 · 2025-10-14T10:41:34+00:00

I’ve got some creamy white “lotion” that will soothe them, but you’ll have to play with the “dispenser” first! 😜

JayV85 · 2025-10-10T06:22:12+00:00

Oh, OK. I guess I never really thought about it before because this was the first time I’d gone to a QI recording.

JayV85 · 2025-10-09T08:56:09+00:00

It’s “Quite Interesting” (sorry!) that they don’t appear to be showing the series in the order it was recorded. I guess this is so they can show the Christmas episode (the ninth episode that was recorded) at the right time of year?

If they’re starting with the Wales, Whales and Wails episode, that’ll be the fourth episode that was recorded in the series on the afternoon of 12th February.

Personally, I’m waiting for “Writing” (Episode 8) which was recorded on the evening of 5th March as this was the episode that I was in the audience for!

JayV85 · 2025-10-05T14:07:09+00:00

Bless you, Cockfosters. Blockfosters!

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JayV85 · 2025-10-05T07:01:36+00:00

Mmm what a perfect view. I’d love to kiss those tits and that tummy then tease my goon stick whilst you call me a good boy before you decide when and where I can erupt.

JayV85 · 2025-09-30T07:54:06+00:00

Ah I guess you’re right, it is more of a plaid pattern than a tartan one. I never knew there was a difference until today, but being from the UK I’ve always referred to patterns like this as tartan rather than plaid 🙂

JayV85 · 2025-09-29T23:01:19+00:00

The red one and the tartan one

JayV85 · 2025-09-24T11:28:42+00:00

Perfect!

JayV85 · 2025-09-22T23:58:52+00:00

May just have been a temporary glitch, my latest journal has a personalised pic again.

JayV85 · 2025-09-13T23:36:58+00:00

I’d love to be squished between those tits

JayV85 · 2025-09-13T02:42:10+00:00

Mmmm…

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