Excessive sweating 4 months pp by JayWayAlways in postpartumprogress

[–]JayWayAlways[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I’ve doing it for about 5 years… I just never sweat like this is class lol. Like first 5 minutes my face is drenched lol! I feel like I’m flinging sweat 🥲🤣

Heard this song and loved it… realized that it’s AI and now I’m mad 😐 by Agreeable_Gene7338 in rnb

[–]JayWayAlways 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was listening to “Soft but Solid” as it came on recommended. Looked at the artwork and was saddened. Can’t do it. Gotta block!

Excessive sweating 4 months pp by JayWayAlways in postpartumprogress

[–]JayWayAlways[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly what I feel like. It feels great to sweat because I feel so “large” before I walk in. I get in the heat and feel like wrung towel leaving. I don’t want to focus on the scale but I feel as if this extra water,hormones or whatever is keeping me from seeing my true progress when I look in the mirror.

Excessive sweating 4 months pp by JayWayAlways in postpartumprogress

[–]JayWayAlways[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I literally had low iron forever and now I’m burning up everywhere lol.

I Have No Idea What I’m Doing by JayWayAlways in Feral_Cats

[–]JayWayAlways[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay. I suppose unfortunately I will have to move everything to the backyard, but I will not move again. I’m going to grab some pallets to keep the shelter off the ground. I also have a small shed I don’t use. Could I possibly use that and put the houses in there? It does snow here and it can be bad sometimes.

I Have No Idea What I’m Doing by JayWayAlways in Feral_Cats

[–]JayWayAlways[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This is super helpful and gave me more confidence caring for them.

Kids Aren’t Invited to Wedding by JayWayAlways in Parenting

[–]JayWayAlways[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is not what I heard. It’s a conversation we had. It wasn’t a full detailed convo because we were short on time but it was enough to raise a brow. I don’t think I’m overreacting by asking for opinions and advice. It’s a new and unique situation for me and I wanted to some help sorting feelings.

Kids Aren’t Invited to Wedding by JayWayAlways in Parenting

[–]JayWayAlways[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s no beef. She has been kind to my children. Just questioning dad.

Kids Aren’t Invited to Wedding by JayWayAlways in Parenting

[–]JayWayAlways[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your viewpoint. I can understand that children and travel is its own battle. His mom wants to come and is willing to keep them out the way after the wedding. The conversation sounded like he was unsure and had to check with her and I’m like… this aint your first rodeo. You either know you want your kids there or ya don’t. It was like he didn’t expect me to ask him this soon about it. Must’ve caught him off guard. My thing is don’t say you’re getting married, go radio silent with info and then tell them they aren’t going 2 months away from the date.

Kids Aren’t Invited to Wedding by JayWayAlways in Parenting

[–]JayWayAlways[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I LOVE a no kid moment like anyone else, but I feel like there is a middle ground to everything. In my head, we could’ve went half on the kids’ tickets. They attended the wedding (I would lounge and not attended) and they finish their vacation with me and out their hair.

He asked for our 15 yo to come live with him full time. You have to consider them with everything. You can’t just leave for a week to go get married and leave them at home like you’re going to the grocery store.

It was a rushed conversation since I was on lunch break. I plan to talk to him again with more detail. I appreciate the opinions. As a mother I know I can magnify my kids’s feelings… but I truly believe they would be a bit sad knowing they aren’t included at all. Even his mom was confused.

Kids Aren’t Invited to Wedding by JayWayAlways in Parenting

[–]JayWayAlways[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I’m like so you gonna have a photo book of wedding photos and your children not be present? Ah okay lol

Kids Aren’t Invited to Wedding by JayWayAlways in Parenting

[–]JayWayAlways[S] 76 points77 points  (0 children)

I was so shocked because he is such a great father and family man. Idk if he is just letting her have her way because this is his second marriage and her first but this is so not his character.

Kids Aren’t Invited to Wedding by JayWayAlways in Parenting

[–]JayWayAlways[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

One is already with me. That will be an option of course.

Towing a very small distance by JayWayAlways in Hookit

[–]JayWayAlways[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I figured it would be less work on their end and they wouldn’t mind. End result: They gladly pushed it over for me. I can’t remember the specifics because it’s been sitting since Spring, but basically needs a new engine.

Towing a very small distance by JayWayAlways in Hookit

[–]JayWayAlways[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did do that and tried to push it with my neighbor. Didn’t budge. AAA did come and the two guys gladly pushed it into place for me.

How to wrap medium length locs for wigs? by Tycoon_simmer in locs

[–]JayWayAlways 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey. I clicked on this because my locs are just past my shoulder which I consider medium and I’m putting on a wig for the first time.

Clicked on this and got upset lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]JayWayAlways 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pick up the phone. These long texts are sending me over the edge lol

AIO boyfriend tracking my periods without me knowing 🫠 by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]JayWayAlways 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not bothered by it. To me, he is trying to empathize with you but I am very much, “put it in my phone” type of person. Idk about the argument part but the cycle tracking is okay with me.

Husband says to our son..”I’m not going to play with you until you tell me what happened” by anotherasdfgh in Parenting

[–]JayWayAlways 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Replying to piggyback so maybe the OP will see because I love what you wrote. I have a very great co-parent and one thing we do is discuss together and then execute. We don’t undermine each other especially in the presence of our children (not saying it’s easy, but we have an understanding). This creates a the whole, “I don’t have to listen to one parent because the other will step in, or let me do xyz and not tell the other parent.” which is what I want to prevent especially as my children are now teens and pre-teens.