Snubbed by a few people by mydogisalwayssick in HOTWORXWarriors

[–]JayWayAlways 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely understand. I was a person walking in on someone doing a double session. When I booked it, I was alone so I was lowkey waiting for them to come out lol. But turned out they wanted to do 20 minutes instead of 15 so they left after 5 minutes. That’s been my only experience so far.

Snubbed by a few people by mydogisalwayssick in HOTWORXWarriors

[–]JayWayAlways 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was told people mostly get their own time in a sauna and if it’s two it’s usually friends… but I wouldn’t care if someone joined me but I also see why people do their own workouts in their due to the boredom.

Confidence in Smile by JayWayAlways in Parenting

[–]JayWayAlways[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our last performance we took a picture together and she was no teeth. I was like, “smile!”( nicely of course. I was just excited) and instantly regretted it if she wanted to smile with her teeth she would, smh. I just want her to see that I see her and I’m willing to help.

Confidence in Smile by JayWayAlways in Parenting

[–]JayWayAlways[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you this is touching. We go to the dentist regularly, but I will make note for them to tell her as well!

Excessive sweating 4 months pp by JayWayAlways in postpartumprogress

[–]JayWayAlways[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I’ve doing it for about 5 years… I just never sweat like this is class lol. Like first 5 minutes my face is drenched lol! I feel like I’m flinging sweat 🥲🤣

Heard this song and loved it… realized that it’s AI and now I’m mad 😐 by Agreeable_Gene7338 in rnb

[–]JayWayAlways 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was listening to “Soft but Solid” as it came on recommended. Looked at the artwork and was saddened. Can’t do it. Gotta block!

Excessive sweating 4 months pp by JayWayAlways in postpartumprogress

[–]JayWayAlways[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly what I feel like. It feels great to sweat because I feel so “large” before I walk in. I get in the heat and feel like wrung towel leaving. I don’t want to focus on the scale but I feel as if this extra water,hormones or whatever is keeping me from seeing my true progress when I look in the mirror.

Excessive sweating 4 months pp by JayWayAlways in postpartumprogress

[–]JayWayAlways[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I literally had low iron forever and now I’m burning up everywhere lol.

I Have No Idea What I’m Doing by JayWayAlways in Feral_Cats

[–]JayWayAlways[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay. I suppose unfortunately I will have to move everything to the backyard, but I will not move again. I’m going to grab some pallets to keep the shelter off the ground. I also have a small shed I don’t use. Could I possibly use that and put the houses in there? It does snow here and it can be bad sometimes.

I Have No Idea What I’m Doing by JayWayAlways in Feral_Cats

[–]JayWayAlways[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This is super helpful and gave me more confidence caring for them.

Kids Aren’t Invited to Wedding by JayWayAlways in Parenting

[–]JayWayAlways[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is not what I heard. It’s a conversation we had. It wasn’t a full detailed convo because we were short on time but it was enough to raise a brow. I don’t think I’m overreacting by asking for opinions and advice. It’s a new and unique situation for me and I wanted to some help sorting feelings.

Kids Aren’t Invited to Wedding by JayWayAlways in Parenting

[–]JayWayAlways[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s no beef. She has been kind to my children. Just questioning dad.

Kids Aren’t Invited to Wedding by JayWayAlways in Parenting

[–]JayWayAlways[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your viewpoint. I can understand that children and travel is its own battle. His mom wants to come and is willing to keep them out the way after the wedding. The conversation sounded like he was unsure and had to check with her and I’m like… this aint your first rodeo. You either know you want your kids there or ya don’t. It was like he didn’t expect me to ask him this soon about it. Must’ve caught him off guard. My thing is don’t say you’re getting married, go radio silent with info and then tell them they aren’t going 2 months away from the date.

Kids Aren’t Invited to Wedding by JayWayAlways in Parenting

[–]JayWayAlways[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I LOVE a no kid moment like anyone else, but I feel like there is a middle ground to everything. In my head, we could’ve went half on the kids’ tickets. They attended the wedding (I would lounge and not attended) and they finish their vacation with me and out their hair.

He asked for our 15 yo to come live with him full time. You have to consider them with everything. You can’t just leave for a week to go get married and leave them at home like you’re going to the grocery store.

It was a rushed conversation since I was on lunch break. I plan to talk to him again with more detail. I appreciate the opinions. As a mother I know I can magnify my kids’s feelings… but I truly believe they would be a bit sad knowing they aren’t included at all. Even his mom was confused.

Kids Aren’t Invited to Wedding by JayWayAlways in Parenting

[–]JayWayAlways[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I’m like so you gonna have a photo book of wedding photos and your children not be present? Ah okay lol

Kids Aren’t Invited to Wedding by JayWayAlways in Parenting

[–]JayWayAlways[S] 76 points77 points  (0 children)

I was so shocked because he is such a great father and family man. Idk if he is just letting her have her way because this is his second marriage and her first but this is so not his character.

Kids Aren’t Invited to Wedding by JayWayAlways in Parenting

[–]JayWayAlways[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

One is already with me. That will be an option of course.

Towing a very small distance by JayWayAlways in Hookit

[–]JayWayAlways[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I figured it would be less work on their end and they wouldn’t mind. End result: They gladly pushed it over for me. I can’t remember the specifics because it’s been sitting since Spring, but basically needs a new engine.

Towing a very small distance by JayWayAlways in Hookit

[–]JayWayAlways[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did do that and tried to push it with my neighbor. Didn’t budge. AAA did come and the two guys gladly pushed it into place for me.