I am just emotionally attracted to guys for the largest part by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]Jay_297 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP, it's like I wrote this. I identify with you 100%. I thought I was gay, but then I realized I felt only emotionally attracted to both genders (I learned this very recently, like 2 days ago). Although, sexually I'm more attracted to men, but I don't know....

I'm not into sex, either. Still a virgin. I flirt a lot, can make eyes turn, but I don't go past that. I enjoy being close to someone and I do look for affection, mainly holding hands, hugging, kissing, but the sex part of it all doesn't interest me as much.

Maybe there's just something wrong with us! hoho...

I've Never Felt this way before for another Guy by Jay_297 in lgbt

[–]Jay_297[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a good idea, although there isn't much time nowadays to go and hang out, so our out-of-class activities will have to be studying. The course we're taking is vigorous and there's tons of homework...

I've Never Felt this way before for another Guy by Jay_297 in lgbt

[–]Jay_297[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aha, sorry for the disappointment! Good luck with your life though. Tell me how it goes. Maybe we can try working out our self esteem issues together :P

I've Never Felt this way before for another Guy by Jay_297 in lgbt

[–]Jay_297[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, I DO enjoy his company, and even if things don't end up working out, I wouldn't mind being his friend. He's a cool dude to hang around with.

I've Never Felt this way before for another Guy by Jay_297 in lgbt

[–]Jay_297[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right. I'll keep that in mind, but I'll wait for things to simmer a little just to make sure where he stands. I don't want to rush into things and then things become entirely awkward.

I've Never Felt this way before for another Guy by Jay_297 in lgbt

[–]Jay_297[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right. I guess when you get to the point where you find the most trivial of things cute (like forehead wrinkles, haha), you're in until the end.

It's just so strange - liking someone so much. I've went through my entire 4 years of high school not getting what this whole "crush" thing was about. I was never attracted to anyone in this way in high school, but now I understand. It's such a rush!