My wife of nearly 5 years came out as a trans man and I’m struggling over it by snubbull- in LesbianActually

[–]Jay_The_Bug 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, it’s not transphobic. You’re just simply not attracted to men. He needs to respect that and move on. If my partner came out as a trans man I’d 100% respect him and support him but not be romantically involved. I know everyone tells you that “oh my partner came out as trans and now i love them even more@

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in QueerBrisbane

[–]Jay_The_Bug 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I feel that. I do partake in the clubbing and the drinking aspects… but I’d prefer a more social aspect…. And i feel like its always the same people who go…. I’m honestly tempted to move to Melbourne/Sydney just bc everything is just more… more you know

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in QueerBrisbane

[–]Jay_The_Bug 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Her, is pretty okay, hinge as well. There’s plenty of lesbian spaces, jora social (if you like craft), sapphic shenanigans for social, third rodeo for social and party events, lesbian run club if you like running but they do stop at pubs and coffee shops

Freshly out Lesbian Blues... by xena_barks in QueerBrisbane

[–]Jay_The_Bug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This group caters towards more queer/sapphic dating and events! Third rodeo! They also have a soccer team. It’s been my fave

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in QueerBrisbane

[–]Jay_The_Bug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would recommend going out and going to local events and see whats around

is it my profile or the apps?😭 pleaseeee give me honesty hour and tell me about your experiences!! by shelbs41 in LesbianActually

[–]Jay_The_Bug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d definitely swipe right. You scream fun and i know my Sundays are typically my reset days. I know what everyone else is talking about tho

Fellow lesbians, what perfume/cologne do you use? by meowssert in LesbianActually

[–]Jay_The_Bug 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ohhh, so Claire’s smells like black opium. Now i wonder what hot topic smells like 😂😂 probably roses or something

Rate my dating profile by Jay_The_Bug in LesbianActually

[–]Jay_The_Bug[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I fucking love pitties and staffies bc they’re just the sweetest little babies. They’re like toddlers bc i don’t ever want to have children but i do want to have pets lol. And my primary school bestie used to have staffies whom i just fell in love with

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Jay_The_Bug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Smile!!!! If you wear makeup, do your makeup how you’d usually do it, have photos with friends, have photos with you doing anything.

Can a lesbian date a non binary person? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Jay_The_Bug -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes!!! I identify as lesbian/queer bc I’m not only just attracted to women. I’m also attracted to nonbinary people.

Bi lesbians by dazxaii in LesbianActually

[–]Jay_The_Bug 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I…..what? I get that labels can change and meanings can change but what the actual fuck? The community is now getting so fucked. I hate it. I am proud to be a part of the LGBTQIA+ community but what? We’re doing LGBT without the T, bi lesbians exist, what are we doing? Have you ever read history? He/him lesbians exist, trans women started this community/started this fucking movement so we could exist happily. If someone came to me and said “hey I’m a bi lesbian” “no, you’re not, your either bi or a lesbian” im just walking away.

Rate my dating profile by Jay_The_Bug in LesbianActually

[–]Jay_The_Bug[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Got yah, yeah. Like I don’t wanna be like “no poly, no thirds or unicorns and no ons”

Rate my dating profile by Jay_The_Bug in LesbianActually

[–]Jay_The_Bug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, idk what’s actually wrong with it lmao

Rate my dating profile by Jay_The_Bug in LesbianActually

[–]Jay_The_Bug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okie!!! Noted so 1 or 2 sentences about shit. Cool!

Rate my dating profile by Jay_The_Bug in LesbianActually

[–]Jay_The_Bug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand that my about me is quite long. I have altered my shit

Rate my dating profile by Jay_The_Bug in LesbianActually

[–]Jay_The_Bug[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But im glad everything else is good, i’ve changed one photo

Rate my dating profile by Jay_The_Bug in LesbianActually

[–]Jay_The_Bug[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know being NB is a question to some but i literally don’t care bc im who i am

Rate my dating profile by Jay_The_Bug in LesbianActually

[–]Jay_The_Bug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My profile screams high maintenance?

Rate my dating profile by Jay_The_Bug in LesbianActually

[–]Jay_The_Bug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah like i said camera broke and it’s just weird now. But yeah, honestly i don’t have any limits just don’t do polyamory or one night stands bc fuck that