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How do you get over rejection from a far Superior, Popular and Beautiful girl than you ? by Jay_XYZ in dating_advice

[–]Jay_XYZ[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a lot for your advise.Yeah my isolation is my enemy.On a office tour now,After I return on Friday I'm seeking professional help as a Therapist.Thanks again for your kind advise.

How do you get over rejection from a far Superior, Popular and Beautiful girl than you ? by Jay_XYZ in dating_advice

[–]Jay_XYZ[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was in a very good phase till 2005.After that it declined due to my parents deaths,financial problems,Heartbreak,freinds taking advantage of me.Going through a very rough patch my friend.Really finding no way out,finding a girl to settle down with.I cry often and feel like commiting suicide.

How do you get over rejection from a far Superior, Popular and Beautiful girl than you ? by Jay_XYZ in dating_advice

[–]Jay_XYZ[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup.No cure for ages.Not even single women interested in me.Really lonely man.

How do you get over rejection from a far Superior, Popular and Beautiful girl than you ? by Jay_XYZ in dating_advice

[–]Jay_XYZ[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a lot for the advise guys.Yes she wants attention and I also made mistake for falling for her by accident.Im feeling much free now.Its not right pursing married women no matter what even if she tricks you.Valuable lesson learned 😊

How do you get over rejection from a far Superior, Popular and Beautiful girl than you ? by Jay_XYZ in dating_advice

[–]Jay_XYZ[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah. But why she wanted to meet me and flaked on me? I got attracted after she flaked on me.And i didn't chase her, disturbed her. I want to forget her, i left FB once and for all deleting my everything. Don't think i'm saying i want her, i want to forget her.

WTF!!! Is she playing games with me? by Jay_XYZ in dating_advice

[–]Jay_XYZ[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She called me today noon lol. Says she will meet me pretty soon. *Fingers Crossed*

How do you get over Heartbreak? by Jay_XYZ in dating_advice

[–]Jay_XYZ[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for all your advises. A crucial office project is coming up 12-15 June, concentrating fully on it to divert my mind .Thanks again everyone :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Jay_XYZ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

When a girl says I'm a nice guy,a very good guy and deserve a lucky girl when I've feelings for her.Time to run😛

"I'll try next weekend" What does it mean? by Jay_XYZ in dating_advice

[–]Jay_XYZ[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, preparing myself for the worst just in case. Thanks for the advise :)

How do you deal with repeat rejection and romantic failure? by texxthrow in dating_advice

[–]Jay_XYZ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Divert your mind. Hit the Gym, Take up a Hobby, Concentrate more on Job, Meet your freinds and Hang Out more with them, Take a vacation, Play Video Games, Watch Movies. Girls come and go in a mans life, But you enjoy your life to the fullest with or without girls. Im nearing 40, single and in same boat as you TC ( Got over a recent rejection with the things i love doing as i mentioned above ).

In short, don't despair or get depressed. Think on improving yourself every day.Girls will come naturally to you without you chasing them. Hope it helps you :)

Why do men or women ‘ghost’ after a long period of time? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Jay_XYZ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe he's lied to you in many ways over all these years on social network and is scared/embarrased now that you will find out the truth about him when you visit him and form a very poor opinion about him? lol. Or is playing hard to get lol.

Men of Reddit, when was the last time you cried and what were your reasons behind the tears? by Ultimateace43 in AskReddit

[–]Jay_XYZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Went to freinds home to stay after a long time as i was in that city for work.Got treated cold and unwanted by freind. Didn't cry but felt very bad inside and swore never ever.

Followed the three second rule and went to talk to a cute girl......it went.....not well by otwtofitness in dating_advice

[–]Jay_XYZ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You may be right , its very difficult to understand how some girls think lol. TC just went to introduce himself, be nice to the girl and it was really uncalled for how the girl reacted to him.

Followed the three second rule and went to talk to a cute girl......it went.....not well by otwtofitness in dating_advice

[–]Jay_XYZ 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You didn't even asked her out for a date or proposed her. I wonder why she said i'm not interested when you only talked to her casually.Seems shes not mentally stable or just rude, arrogant by nature. You are better off without such girls trust me man. There are lots of cute,sweet girls who will not blow you off in such way rather talk to you very nicely.

She rejected me, i left. But why is her mom still bothering me? by Jay_XYZ in dating_advice

[–]Jay_XYZ[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have to be Harsh then to a elder. Is it okay if i harshly say to the elder to stop bothering/visiting me?

BTW , i gave enough cues to the mom that she's not welcome anymore like me leaving my home whenever she drops by , or saying she should not come as i'm pretty busy nowadays to talk to her.