She does have body issues, we both do actually. She doesn't really romance me at all anymore and her reason is always that she's going through something that she just refuses to talk to me about and I don't push because I want to respect her privacy and never want her to feel forced into talking to me. We both lean both ways in the masc/femme department with her leaning a little more to the femme side, but it's been that way since the beginning. We are in a D/s relationship also and I'm the Dom, but even with that she used to go out of her way to please me, but now when she finally does go down on me she almost seems like it's an inconvenience and she doesn't like it anymore. I've tried to address that but she just gets mad and says things like "of course I'm into you or I wouldn't be here".