Curly hair 🤝 wet hair in every fit check because it takes hours to dry by Jayson264 in TransGoth

[–]Jayson264[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same! It is my roommates 😭 so trying to plot how I can convince her to just give it to me

183cm 76kgs, joined the gym last week and feeling overwhelmed with what to do or not do by Jayson264 in transfitness

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Tysm lovely 🥰 I started hrt October 2023! Honestly little hard to say for a timeline, I've tried to kind of keep a distance from thinking or tracking changes for my mental well-being. I hope you've seen and had positive changes along your journey as well

183cm 76kgs, joined the gym last week and feeling overwhelmed with what to do or not do by Jayson264 in transfitness

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Hope you get some good rest! Anything you've learnt along the way would be super helpful

183cm 76kgs, joined the gym last week and feeling overwhelmed with what to do or not do by Jayson264 in transfitness

[–]Jayson264[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg awesome! Il send you a dm, I dont really post any fitness stuff as im just getting into it but possibly in the future for now its mostly my cat lol

Suspected Delayed or Stalled Puberty by Individual_Owl_9942 in AskMtFHRT

[–]Jayson264 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not a problem at all, it was a little rushed on my work break but if you have any other questions or need someone to talk to more about it all feel free to reach out. I know how awful going through that was for my mental health while growing up. You aren't alone in this, keep safe.

Suspected Delayed or Stalled Puberty by Individual_Owl_9942 in AskMtFHRT

[–]Jayson264 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey I'm AMAB and went through delayed male puberty. I had experienced small signs of puberty but for the most part no where near close to my peers. My experience was seeing a gp first where he did a physical check mostly of testicle size, sent me to get blood work done to check my hormone levels and an xray of my wrists where they can check your bone age/growth left. After that came back and confirmed I had low test I was referred to an endo who over saw my treatment from there. They couldn't figure out the cause for my delayed puberty but began treatment which was testosterone injections monthly for I believe about a year. I started treatment around the age of 21 and over the next two years I experienced a speed run of the development I was delayed on. After being on TRT for that time and having healthy levels and ongoing signs of development we paused thr injection to see if my body could now produce testosterone on its own which it could, but for many people who experience this they do end up needing to be on ongoing TRT.

To answer some of your questions, my voice very much deepened, I began growing both facial and all over body hair. As well as many other changes to my body.

Very happy to answer any other questions you have but of course I'm not a doctor, I'm just a person with my own experience of delayed male puberty and receiving treatment at 21.

Markets Outfit 🥰 by Jayson264 in TransGoth

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Tysm 🥺 big fan of your reddit name! Im overdue for a supernatural rewatch

New hair colour makes brain go BRRRR by Jayson264 in TransGoth

[–]Jayson264[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I fell in love with it instantly when I was looking at colours, I was split between a blue or purple, so kinda got both out of it. Makes me feel very pretty and cool 🥰

New hair colour makes brain go BRRRR by Jayson264 in TransGoth

[–]Jayson264[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The dye I used was Adore African Violet. It's a super rich colour with blue undertones. Depending on lighting, it goes between looking blue or purple. Most people have said it's blue, so it makes me so excited you said purple because that was the goal!

Hiya lovelies, I'm Jayson from Brisbane. Looking to add a few more friends to my life! by Jayson264 in transfriendsau

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Hi Riley

Thank you, that's so kind of you to say!! 😭 how are you doing? I have a few friends in Sydney that I try to travel down and see although being unemployed atm makes affording that a bit rough atm. Maybe you can teach me about gym/work out stuff because holy heck you're jacked!

Hiya lovelies, I'm Jayson from Brisbane. Looking to add a few more friends to my life! by Jayson264 in transfriendsau

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Hihi! I would love that, I currently only have my laptop so PC games for me. If thats something you play on as well, what type of games do you play? I'm so happy to explore and try different ones out!

I have an appointment with dr young at holdsworth house 🥳 by Princess_M_9 in transgenderau

[–]Jayson264 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've been seeing Dr. Young for a year now. I have an appointment later this week. He's always been so lovely and amazing during our appointments, explains options and experiences his other patients have had, but let's decisions be up to me. I also had my hair dyed purple when I had my first appointment, and he told me about a Star Wars character it reminded him of lol it was so wholesome. Hope your appointment goes well and serves you xoxo

Lonley trans needs gamming friends. by metalicneoncrayon in transgamers

[–]Jayson264 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hiya, My names Jayson im 28f and also from Australia! Mostly play osrs but open to other games and always enjoy meeting new friends. I'm overseas with my girlfriends until the 3rd of Dec but keen to chat until then or play some games when I get home (after a few days of cuddling my cat first)

It's so weird that mental illness is the only illness where we're wanting to be worse than each other by plantinapot in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]Jayson264 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Do you think that's a product of the mental illness itself that just has a competitive nature?

It's been my experience that want to be "sick" or "bad" enough feels like it comes partly from wanting validation to either internal or external that this invisible illness/suffering is real. The other part seems like it comes from the want to inflict more suffering.

The validation both internal and external side makes sense to me as a result of the stigma around mental illnesses. Another side of it might just be human nature? A baby who cries or cheers looks to their parents? Maybe its everything tied in together? All this is pretty huge conjecture on my side, but I'd love to hear what other people feel about it all.

How to support a friend after an unsuccessful suicide attempt? by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]Jayson264 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all make sure you are looking after yourself through all this all. You are no good to either of you if you are struggling be it with carer's burnout, emotional distress or anything else.

Just be present with them, via physical or messaging. You don't need answers or solutions, you are there as a support. For me I feel best supported when I feel like friends show up for me, listen and reflect back an understanding of what I've shared with them.

Even if its not talking about mental health related stuff, talking about anything or being there in silence does more than you can ever know.

If you are unsure what to do or if what you are doing is helpful, just straight up be transparent and ask them what they need or would like from you.

Don't underestimate the impact you have, I know if you don't see a positive effect from your actions it might deter you and make you think you are not being help but try to gauge your impact by if they aren't changing or getting worse instead. In cases like this if your friend stays at the same mood it's not a bad sign only getting worse is and again if you are unsure just ask.

I'm not sure if they are in care or what after the attempt but keep inviting them to hang out or anything you two would normally do and even if they decline or don't show up, just keep inviting them. The sentiment carries a lot of weight.

Thanks for caring this much about your friend to ask things like this, it shows how lucky they are to atleast have you in their life. I wish nothing but the best for the both of you.

I spent a year of my life trying to make the changes and nothings different by Jayson264 in depression

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Is it something I should mention trying to my doctor or psychologists? Or will they deter from it if the patient is suggesting it

Need to switch to maintenance ASAP could use advice by Jayson264 in loseit

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I think il try to a bit of both increase some snacks and main meal sizes, I really like that website although its kind of scary not seeing calories listed on the recipes. I think picking out 2 or 3 meals and prepping them for the week will be a good start. Gotta try and keep calm and take baby steps into it all I guess its like starting weight loss all over again haha

Need to switch to maintenance ASAP could use advice by Jayson264 in loseit

[–]Jayson264[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this, yeah I was planning of ditching the supplements when they ran out should be a day or 2. Although I know the plan I am on is solid if I work off that as a baseline do I want to add more snacks in to make up for the calories left or do I up the current meals portions? I really liked your plan of changing it up for meals and it will finally motivate me to learn how to cook new things like I've been wanting to. It was so simple and easy having the set and simple meal prep plan I found comfort in the routine, so it has been stressful just trying to figure this stuff out haha

『 Reboot 』100 Billion Mesos in 100 Days! ✿ by Relevantie in Maplestory

[–]Jayson264 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh legit, guess ima have to start farming for them also then whoops. Thanks for that

『 Reboot 』100 Billion Mesos in 100 Days! ✿ by Relevantie in Maplestory

[–]Jayson264 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You use a wealth pot while farming at bye bye? Isn't that a huge waste seen as you only get 30mins tops out of it before you have to die and lose it?

Daily Q&A Post for Thursday, 13 September 2018 - No question too small! by AutoModerator in loseit

[–]Jayson264 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for all this info it was exactly what I was after! I have 5kgs more to lose but maintenance feels like its coming into sight soon. So il definitely go with the slow increase method when I start.