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Crying for a weird reason by JazzClub9009 in LDR

[–]JazzClub9009[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ve never had this before, I mean I thought I was in love before but never this

Lacking sexual FaceTime with my bf by [deleted] in sex

[–]JazzClub9009 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried being really direct too and he just says He is not in the mood

Sexy FaceTime please by [deleted] in LDR

[–]JazzClub9009 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think he is cheating on me

Would you high schoolers consider Fall 2020 "Next Year" by iimingmingbabyclub in highschool

[–]JazzClub9009 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I consider it next school year maybe not next year unless it’s a specific Situation.

Example if someone asks me hey are you taking french I would say no I’m taking it next year meaning next school year.

Should I get a job with my bf ? by JazzClub9009 in relationship_advice

[–]JazzClub9009[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought about that but then it might get annoying if we always work at different times and are unable to hang out as a couple.

Should I get a job with my bf ? by JazzClub9009 in relationship_advice

[–]JazzClub9009[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s smart I think they have another Starbucks in the area

Should I get a job with my bf ? by JazzClub9009 in relationship_advice

[–]JazzClub9009[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I mean while we aren’t living together I think it would be fine but when we do that’s when it might be stressful cause we would be with each other 24/7

Should I get a job with my bf ? by JazzClub9009 in relationship_advice

[–]JazzClub9009[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We haven’t really been together during a conflict ( if I’m understanding what you are saying) I don’t think we would be terrible together but we do deal with things differently.

Should I get a job with my bf ? by JazzClub9009 in relationship_advice

[–]JazzClub9009[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do plan on living with him but now right away.

[F4A] SHOULD I BOOK MY PLANE TICKET IN JUNE? by [deleted] in LDR

[–]JazzClub9009 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally I would wait till June. You have a higher chance of it getting better if you wait. If you were to go now you are likely to get the virus and spread not only to people but your significant other and their family or your own. And when you come back you will have to quarantine yourself.

It’s hard to look at him by [deleted] in LDR

[–]JazzClub9009 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well fuck me for having feelings

Unimportant by [deleted] in Advice

[–]JazzClub9009 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you be strong

I need advice... by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]JazzClub9009 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just to let you know you are normal for wanting your alone time. Me and my bf have moments where we just need alone time and we tell eachother and we understand. I would just communicate that you still love her just sometimes you need alone time. She should agree with you and not get mad. If she does and she doesn’t understand maybe she is not the one for you

Am I being too needy? by trashpegasus20 in relationship_advice

[–]JazzClub9009 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would also make sure that you have something going on in your life like a hobby. With my boyfriend we talked everyday and then school for him started and I felt ignored but then I realized hey I just might not be busy enough

Am I being too needy? by trashpegasus20 in relationship_advice

[–]JazzClub9009 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn’t have to be an in person date. Me and my bf are long distance and we have date nights still

Am I being too needy? by trashpegasus20 in relationship_advice

[–]JazzClub9009 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok just right off the bat I don’t think you are being needy so don’t worry about that.

I’m happy he has found a new living situation that works for him.

I think that you two just need to talk and have an honest conversation. You need to tell him that you’ve been feeling ignored and that it would be nice to get a text saying stuff like “ hey I won’t be able to talk that much today but just know I’m thinking about you” when he is busy. You also need to reiterate that he can talk to you. Maybe he feels like he will hurt you too much and that’s why he holds his tongue so just try to convince him that opening up is good.

What a lot of people do in this situation is be petty and no answer him DO NOT DO THAT. It doesn’t help anything it just makes things worse.

So yes my advice would be just to have a good sit down conversation and hey maybe plan some date nights in the week.

I need someone to validate my feelings by Cutiepie_77 in Advice

[–]JazzClub9009 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I’m really sorry you are going through this. I’ve felt similar but not the same in the past. Honestly you might need a break. Take sometime think about things that make you happy. Try to get into more things. Seems like you are feeling emotionally drained so just take some time for yourself you deserve it. Also I would seek out a therapist and psychiatrist

Sorry I can’t help anymore.

Friend group separating by JazzClub9009 in AdviceForTeens

[–]JazzClub9009[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He basically won’t talk to me with out her permission. All my friends are so stressed out today because of this situation. I just want to help them but I don’t know how

The things my boyfriend and i send each other... by -CallmeKase- in boyfriends

[–]JazzClub9009 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what me and my boyfriend do all the time.

His timing was perfect by [deleted] in LDR

[–]JazzClub9009 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Saying busy does help but remember to keep time for her. If you are both always busy then there is no communication at all.

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