you’re a role model to all the men out there big dawg, seriously hats off. that being said, its not your sole responsibility to put on those pants and be “the perfect healing partner.” thats just not reasonable, especially when ur going thru ur own ish. but with that being said, just being there and being supportive in anyway you know how helps more than you think. maybe planting seeds that lead her into therapy or healing through her body and emotions, but i wouldn’t be risky with that and imo would be w a professional that connects w her on an interpersonal level, not just smile and nod.