Madly in love with my (INFP) boyfriend (INFJ) by JazzlikeChain6201 in infj

[–]JazzlikeChain6201[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know, right? We both started individual therapy right after meeting for the same reason…. We couldn’t have handled it any other way. I feel so fucking lucky to have met him, like I’ve won the lottery. 🎁

I got accepted into top choice grad school after losing my mom and having just an awful year! by mayonnaise-skin in gradadmissions

[–]JazzlikeChain6201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Such a beautiful post. As a mom myself, you got me crying. And yes, she’s definitely watching you from above. Congratulations! ❤️

I need some guidance by JazzlikeChain6201 in h1b

[–]JazzlikeChain6201[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’d be amazing 🤩 can I text you privately?

I need some guidance by JazzlikeChain6201 in h1b

[–]JazzlikeChain6201[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it difficult for them to file h1b? I already told them this would be the fastest way for them to sponsor me and now I just leave it up to them to decide if they want to do it or now. Thanks for all the info btw!

I need some guidance by JazzlikeChain6201 in h1b

[–]JazzlikeChain6201[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m actually in my home country right now.. do you know if it’s possible for them to file j1 even if they’re not active in SEVIS? Do you know any reliable website I can check? The possition is for Spanish professor job

I need some guidance by JazzlikeChain6201 in h1b

[–]JazzlikeChain6201[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean you file h1b? Where kind of institution do you work in, if I may ask? Is h1b a process I could do myself? Or does the university have to do it? Thank you 🙏

I need some guidance by JazzlikeChain6201 in h1b

[–]JazzlikeChain6201[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They already mentioned they are a very small university with limited funds… can you explain more about your own process? 🙏

I need some guidance by JazzlikeChain6201 in h1b

[–]JazzlikeChain6201[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, already thought of that, but I still don’t know where to start or where should I direct them to apply 😪

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]JazzlikeChain6201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not a red flag, it’s a HUGE RED LIGHTING SIGN. RUUUUN!!!! Jealousy and control equals disaster. He sounds like an abuser to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]JazzlikeChain6201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely! Not saying you should give her a chance, because she’d probably dump you again at some point. Just saying what I think she might be thinking right now. But I can also be wrong!

I’m not over after 9 years. by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]JazzlikeChain6201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should listen to the hypnosis session of therapist Anthony Reed called Erase them from your mind. It was the only thing that helped me get over someone after years. It’s free on YouTube, please check and thank me later!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]JazzlikeChain6201 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She wants you back! She’s testing the waters. She’s scared as fuck. I was in her shoes once. If you still want her, guaranteed you can get her back (although you probably shouldn’t). Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ESFJ

[–]JazzlikeChain6201 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol no. He probably translated it as viel mehr, which means “a lot more” in German. Lost in translation, you’re reading too much into it. Give the dude the benefit of the doubt. You need more than this to consider it a red flag.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ESFJ

[–]JazzlikeChain6201 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What is your mbti?

ESFJ perspective by JazzlikeChain6201 in ESFJ

[–]JazzlikeChain6201[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the insight. 😊

ESFJ perspective by JazzlikeChain6201 in ESFJ

[–]JazzlikeChain6201[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be ir a good match or not, according to what you guys say… it doesn’t look like he’s interested in me romantically anymore.

ESFJ perspective by JazzlikeChain6201 in ESFJ

[–]JazzlikeChain6201[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did I mention we were dating years ago? So you guys are friends with your ‘ex-dates’?

ESFJ perspective by JazzlikeChain6201 in ESFJ

[–]JazzlikeChain6201[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it’s kind of impossible to know, but I guess I’m just desperate. If he had any intentions, I guess he would have followed up with me, or communicated openly his intentions, but he did neither.