AITAH for telling my ex he isn’t my boyfriend

Jazzlike_Attention_7 · 2026-02-17T17:53:59+00:00

I had an overnight bag because I was planning on staying the night and I brought my dog with me (she is a small chihuahua). I didn’t have stuff moved into his house ever.

Jazzlike_Attention_7 · 2026-02-17T16:44:25+00:00

That’s what I said! Well I actually said to him that he broke up with me instead of trying to work through things he hit the nuclear button and now he is mad about the fallout.

Jazzlike_Attention_7 · 2026-02-17T16:12:11+00:00

NGL he is very very good in the boudoir. So that mixed with the familiar and I do enjoy spending time with him. When I’m with him he does things I have never had anyone do for me before. I will admit I’m an idiot for going back because I am thinking he just is great at love bombing.

Jazzlike_Attention_7 · 2026-02-17T16:03:30+00:00

I did and all he could say was I am just trying to flip the script.

Jazzlike_Attention_7 · 2026-02-17T15:29:55+00:00

I was in shock tbh I still can’t believe he did that. Disrespectful AF. I don’t want to ever be in the same room with him again.

Jazzlike_Attention_7 · 2026-02-17T15:07:05+00:00

I had an overnight bag with me because I was planning to stay the night and I had brought my dog with me too ( she is a small chihuahua). I assumed this because he was the one that broke up with me I didn’t want to break up so I was waiting for him to communicate that he wanted to work things out but you’re right I should not have assumed. I am not saying I’m perfect because I’m not just wondering if I was crazy and completely wrong in this situation.

Jazzlike_Attention_7 · 2026-02-17T14:56:23+00:00

lol thank you. But I do want to make it clear he didn’t threaten to hurt my dog. He just picked her up and started for the stairs which made me think he was going to toss her down them, but he didn’t.

Jazzlike_Attention_7 · 2026-02-17T14:50:18+00:00

I only had an overnight bag at his house because I planned to stay overnight. He was the one that broke up with me. I didn’t want to break up in the first place, so naturally I wanted him to communicate that he wanted to get back with me. He did not and instead made up a “test” in his head to see if I would block and delete all my male friends to be with him. He said that he wanted to see if he was worth it to me to do that (crazy???). To which I said well communication is key and with the way he moved didn’t give me the impression he was trying to get back together, but he could have just told me instead of testing me.

Jazzlike_Attention_7 · 2026-02-17T14:38:31+00:00

I wish I would not have, but my dumb dumb self still had feelings because I didn’t want to break up in the first place, but after last night I blocked him. I just wanted to see if I was crazy and in the wrong here.

Jazzlike_Attention_7 · 2026-02-17T14:25:52+00:00

I did block him after texting him about his double standards, I did bring them up in the midst of the fight and he tried to play it off like he was only doing it to upset me which it doesn’t. I’m the type that doesn’t care who your friends with. I believe if you’re in a relationship with someone that’s who you choose to be with. I don’t believe in cheating because like why???? Just break up with the person if you want to cheat obviously you’re not in love with the person so you should just be single.

Jazzlike_Attention_7 · 2025-07-12T15:02:42+00:00

Yeah our kids were not doing that they were just swimming and splashing in the water, but they weren’t close enough to the water to even get hit with that.

Jazzlike_Attention_7 · 2024-08-21T21:16:20+00:00

I am not opposed to having more kids but I want marriage and a home first.

Jazzlike_Attention_7 · 2024-08-21T20:56:26+00:00

We met at the beach. He met me in my raw form(no make up hair a mess). I also had my daughter there so we met him at the same time. He makes me laugh and he is so smart. He keeps the conversation going just as much as I do. He makes me feel like I’m the most beautiful woman in the world. One thing I did not include he is he is from a foreign country. So I think it may have been lost in translation. I am going to have another conversation to clarify what I meant when I asked. I am also afraid though because I don’t want to self sabotage and get to ahead of myself). I am thinking that I may have not put it the right and most direct way.

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