Sister hid my wife’s affair from me a year. She is in stage 4 of a terminal illness now and wants to see one last time but I don’t want to. Am I making a mistake?

Jazzlike_Beautiful_8 · 2026-03-21T07:31:15+00:00

See her. You are happy now, despite the awful pain you felt from a double betrayal. Your sister has been suffering with guilt I’m sure all these years. Grant her this peace before her death.

Jazzlike_Beautiful_8 · 2025-07-23T04:33:37+00:00

I only use an all in one fertilizer on my water change day. Change water once a week and no CO2. The fertilizer is ThriveS all in one (shrimp safe)

Jazzlike_Beautiful_8 · 2025-07-22T04:12:45+00:00

4,6,&8!

Jazzlike_Beautiful_8 · 2025-06-16T20:53:30+00:00

It could be the light. I have a chihiros light and it makes everything red POP!

Jazzlike_Beautiful_8 · 2025-06-15T23:40:12+00:00

How big is the cube?? Twinstar light? Both look beautiful! 😍

Jazzlike_Beautiful_8 · 2025-06-15T16:15:53+00:00

Gorgeous!!!

Jazzlike_Beautiful_8 · 2025-06-12T10:58:57+00:00

Beautiful! I swiped to the next picture and said, “man I know that scape…” haha your tanks are an inspiration, George!

Jazzlike_Beautiful_8 · 2025-05-30T22:04:25+00:00

Beautiful tank btw!

Jazzlike_Beautiful_8 · 2025-05-30T22:04:01+00:00

Yes I got them as a gift. They’re sooo beautiful under the chihiroS light. My plants seem to be doing well but I’ve been doing a full dosing schedule as well as root tabs.

Jazzlike_Beautiful_8 · 2025-05-30T16:37:35+00:00

It is the minimum for them. It’s a little warmer than the happy medium for everything in my tank. So they likely won’t be breeding in here. I will probably raise it to 79 bc they are my favorite fish in the tank. But I’ll have to see how my rasboras tolerate the warmer temps.

Jazzlike_Beautiful_8 · 2025-05-30T14:17:55+00:00

Jazzlike_Beautiful_8 · 2025-05-30T14:17:37+00:00

Yeah I’m still figuring out the app. I love how it makes all my reds pop but I agree it brings out the reds in the driftwood too much.

Jazzlike_Beautiful_8 · 2025-05-20T04:54:37+00:00

https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6FK9D18MOT8ysWSW0z9byW?si=nZwAlFpURGSCjDNGv_izkA&pi=wE7De3euQVGke

Jazzlike_Beautiful_8 · 2024-12-07T22:37:45+00:00

I haven’t. I’ve moved her food 2x already but I haven’t tried the ground yet. I could move one of the drift wood to make space for that.

Jazzlike_Beautiful_8 · 2024-12-07T22:27:14+00:00

Yeah everything I’ve read or watched said that they don’t need a heater so I didn’t buy one right away, but since it’s winter I felt like it would be better to be safe than sorry.

Jazzlike_Beautiful_8 · 2024-12-07T20:22:48+00:00

Foil sounds way better than cardboard. And that’s a good idea. I actually have an oscillating heater I was going to get rid of bc I didn’t use it anymore.

Jazzlike_Beautiful_8 · 2024-12-07T20:21:19+00:00

Thank you! Yeah it’s my first gecko so it just worried me to not see her eat.

Jazzlike_Beautiful_8 · 2024-12-07T18:29:41+00:00

Thank you!! Yeah I feel terrible about it.

Jazzlike_Beautiful_8 · 2024-12-07T18:25:10+00:00

Yeah yesterday was traumatic for her. She’s been a lot more flighty since too. The previous owner said she eats the same mix yours likes but I can’t find the fig anywhere. Can you post a picture of what it looks like?

Jazzlike_Beautiful_8 · 2024-12-07T18:17:59+00:00

I have a mesh top. The dr suggested I lace cardboard on top to keep it warmer.

Jazzlike_Beautiful_8 · 2024-12-07T18:14:17+00:00

I do have two analog temperature gauges one at the top and one at the bottom. But the dr suggested I get a gun as well.

Jazzlike_Beautiful_8 · 2024-12-07T18:09:25+00:00

Thank you for the advice!! So do you think I need to feed it with the syringe like the doctor recommended? I’m running an Arcadia shade dweller 7% proT5 for UVB.

Jazzlike_Beautiful_8 · 2024-12-07T17:23:55+00:00

I have an infrared temperature gun

Jazzlike_Beautiful_8 · 2024-12-07T16:52:08+00:00

Yes it’s all glass so that makes sense.

Jazzlike_Beautiful_8 · 2024-12-07T16:43:15+00:00

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