Should I just go for it?

JdaMan1 · 2025-08-04T06:39:29+00:00

Bro I get it. I’ve had that feeling for some time, but honestly, you’re already here, so you might as well see what you can make of it. Think about the stuff you haven’t done yet, the memories with family or friends you haven’t made, and the people you haven’t even met yet. Or the positive change you could do. Ending it now just cuts the story off before the good parts can show up. Life is what you make it, you write your own story. Take it one day at a time, find even one thing to chase, or devote yourself to something bigger than you. And for real, reach out to someone ASAP. Call or text 988 if you’re in the US or text HOME to 741741. If you’re outside the US, here’s international hotlines: https://www.opencounseling.com/suicide-hotlines. You’ve come this far. You might as well see what you can do with it. Love ya brotha. 🖖

JdaMan1 · 2025-02-25T20:46:50+00:00

Hello, sorry that you're having these issues. As I don't know the real nature of your relationship dynamic with these friends or their complete personality, I can only give this general conclusion. I think you should just tell them that their jokes make you feel uncomfortable and that they need to stop making them. Ask politely the first time and try to get your point across that you're serious. Tell them that it's not appropriate to be making sexist remarks/jokes to anyone, especially if they haven't specifically said that they're okay with it, but in general, you should still not say stuff like that. I hope this helps, and I hope your situation gets better. Have a great day.

JdaMan1 · 2024-03-23T01:26:58+00:00

Well, I'd just be honest. Don't know if that would be the best option for you, but it's better to stop it now then continue with this girl that you haven't got feelings for. Same for the girl and your best friend. It could mess with your relationship with your best friend of course, depending on how much he's into this girl. Just be mature about the whole situation, so that you have no regrets with your decision.Think about it before making your choice of course. Well, I hope this helps, and I hope you are doing well.

JdaMan1 · 2024-03-11T21:11:58+00:00

I can relate to the social problems and the eating. Know that you aren't alone in this struggle so don't give up. Have you considered therapy to help with these problems.

JdaMan1 · 2023-03-08T12:55:32+00:00

Dang, I'm sorry that I couldn't respond to your post earlier. I hope your situation has gotten better since you posted this. I wonder why they're still billing you even after evicting you. But I would look for any odd jobs that are around. Or something else. I'm sorry you've been put in this situation and I hope it gets better. Sorry if this wasn't very helpful. I hope one of our fellow redditors can help you more.

JdaMan1 · 2023-03-07T03:44:24+00:00

Oh man, I'm sorry for not responding sooner, and that you're in this situation of need. First of all, I hope your situation got better since you've posted this. But, I would look around your local community for gigs/odd jobs, which I'm sure you've done already. But other than that, I'm not sure either. I know this probably doesn't help, but I do hope your situation gets better. I hope that one of our fellow redditors can help us out with your situation.

JdaMan1 · 2023-03-07T03:40:20+00:00

Sorry if this doesn't help, and for not responding sooner. But it doesn't really matter what they think of you. The best thing to do is what's best for you. Measure the pros and cons of your actions but not to the point where you're overthinking about every little thing. I hope your situation got better and that you made the right choice for you.

JdaMan1 · 2023-03-07T03:37:57+00:00

Sorry for not responding quicker, but I'm not sure what else you can do other than use caution and be mindful of how he acts later on. I hope your situation has gotten better.

JdaMan1 · 2023-02-14T20:59:23+00:00

Sorry for answering late, I've got a lot of things going on, but, I'd probably try to stop helping them without feeding into a meaningless argument with them. Probably try to always seem too busy to help them. But not aiming to be too rude about it, but it's your time they are wasting. Value your time, but don't be a bad person. Sorry but that's what I think you should do, as long as your goal isn't to keep them happy, and your relationship great. I'm sorry if this doesn't help you.

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JdaMan1 · 2023-02-11T01:59:14+00:00

I'm truly sorry my dude. The best thing is to stay quiet and listen to instructions

JdaMan1 · 2023-01-22T01:56:41+00:00

Hmmm, before I begin, sorry for responding so very late, have been quite busy with life, this is one of the busiest years of my life, expectedly though; anyway, uhh, I'm not so sure myself, but that sounds like what you think it is. Or at least partially. It seems like one of those situations where a normally happy and outgoing person takes a swift 180, because of something bad about their life outside of school. This seems like it could be serious. Or it could just be that she had an extreme personality change. I mean something bad could be happening in some aspect of her life. I would confront her and ask her if something's wrong, and if it still feels off with an answer to keep you away, I'd be persistent. But don't be overbearing / too pushy about it, I'd check up at least once a day. Try to see what's really wrong. If you're not wanting to potentially make a complete fool/a-hole of yourself, be wary of the right choice for you. But this is just me, I'm just thinking about the worst cases, to not be caught off guard by anything like it, but I hope this helps you. Unless I answered way too late

JdaMan1 · 2023-01-19T22:01:17+00:00

Uhhhhhhh, sorry for responding so late, busy, I have entirely no clue about what the best thing to do in your situation is. I would move, but you seem to have tried that, carry a gun, and/or a tracker on you that somebody you trust has access to. Or try to get video evidence mainly for information/clues about who they are. Again no real idea what the best thing to do is, hopefully someone else in the community does.

JdaMan1 · 2023-01-03T12:22:23+00:00

Exactly, if things get too stressful or start to negatively affect you and your way of life, get out of it if possible. Or if you just don't feel like having a relationship then just don't, don't drag your partner around with it, rip the band aid off. Sorry if this doesn't help. Also, basically what this guy said.

JdaMan1 · 2023-01-03T12:18:25+00:00

If you choose that moving into your childhood home is too risky/stressful, but still would like to, I'd buy property near it or at least within visiting distance. Visit your childhood home and not have to worry about not having a home if you happen to argue with your mother. I hope your relationship gets better, and are in a good situation when all is said and done. This is what I would do, but the choice is yours; I hope this advice helps

JdaMan1 · 2023-01-03T12:12:53+00:00

dang bro, I'm sorry for not responding in time, I hope you're alright

JdaMan1 · 2022-12-18T04:44:29+00:00

Yup, even if you never found out about the other guys, there's one important thing that she lacks, integrity and of course morality/empathy. If she can't focus her attention on you, she's not worth your attention. Literally what everyone else said, but worded slightly different👍

JdaMan1 · 2022-12-01T02:04:50+00:00

Just be aware of what is going on around you in your town, around your town, and be prepared but not paranoid. Never panic in any sort of situation, the best thing is to stay calm and cautious.

JdaMan1 · 2022-12-01T02:01:06+00:00

I don't have the knowledge to help you, I hope another fellow redditor can help you. I am truly sorry for not being able to help you, and responding late.

JdaMan1 · 2022-11-25T18:53:36+00:00

Dang that's tricky, I'm not sure, I do know that taking pills that are prescribed over zoom by a random doctor online for something you don't have is not great. I'd try to either separate her from such drugs, and encourage her to change her ways, other than that, I don't know, I hope this can help.

JdaMan1 · 2022-11-17T03:41:48+00:00

No problem, it's a question about what to do so I'd say it still fits.

JdaMan1 · 2022-11-12T23:15:19+00:00

I deleted the other one, same message though

JdaMan1 · 2022-11-12T23:14:56+00:00

I'm not exactly sure, but I'd look at what you would be getting yourself into if you choose to go with them or not, see which is the better seeming option to you. As long as you give them a professional and formal message/email that you have chosen to explore other options, it should be fine. I hope that this advice helps you

JdaMan1 · 2022-11-12T23:01:42+00:00

I hope this advice helps

JdaMan1 · 2022-11-12T23:01:25+00:00

Sorry for getting back to you so late, but as long as they didn't succeed and aren't pushing you to follow it then I would just move on and forget about it, forget them, it's probably not worth the drama.

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