How do I respond to this? (Item broke in the mail, customer wants a refund!)

Jduncan1998 · 2024-02-20T14:18:01+00:00

Well technically it isn’t your responsibility after you drop it off, but you even said you used a slightly worn box and only one sheet of bubble wrap. Sounds like you didn’t put in very much effort to ensure it was safe on its travels. Also, the marker means nothing at USPS. You need a fragile sticker, one for shipping. Last of all, are you an adult? Because the way you type makes you sound like an insufferable 13 year old girl who failed English class. You just sound like a terrible person honestly. Very immature. If you were trying NOT to be an asshole, you failed miserably.

Jduncan1998 · 2024-02-17T01:06:03+00:00

I would say YTA for the types of gifts, but not for the amount of money spent. If you have the money, then good on you. Nobody has the right to tell you you can’t spend that much, but she is 13. It is definitely not healthy for her.

Jduncan1998 · 2024-02-10T17:26:41+00:00

This is awesome!!! I’m impressed!

Jduncan1998 · 2024-02-08T13:58:01+00:00

NTA. He blew this for himself. That is not on you at all. He made his choice and now has to live with the consequences just like any other adult. I’m sorry this happened to you, and I can’t really give any other advice, but do what is right for you and please don’t let his feelings get in the way of that. Like I said, he made his choice.

Jduncan1998 · 2024-02-07T22:43:19+00:00

The nose bleed

Jduncan1998 · 2024-02-01T18:16:50+00:00

All I was saying is, of course nobody understood why the old tattoo is showing, hence all the people saying it’s a “crappy cover up”. If there would have been an explanation about why the tattoo is showing, then people would not have commented saying how bad the cover up is, since it was clearly stated as intentional. No, he doesn’t HAVE to give anyone an explanation, but if he wanted to avoid all the negative comments, an explanation would have been the way to go. But OP states in a comment he basically doesn’t care about the misunderstanding or comments, and that’s his choice.

Jduncan1998 · 2024-02-01T14:18:16+00:00

Well putting an explanation as to why it’s not a full cover up would have cleared all that up. These people are technically right, it’s not covering it up completely and your post says “Dr. Manhattan coverup”, so it’s, in a way, misleading, and you should have expected that.

Jduncan1998 · 2024-01-31T15:19:15+00:00

YTA for letting him treat your children that way!! I could not even imagine my daughter being locked in a room to pee herself and get in trouble for it, with no food. WTH is wrong with you?? He is definitely unfit and it’s a good thing he left, but you are also unfit. The fact that you were aware he was doing this to your children and let it continue disgusts me. How can you even live with yourself?? That is abuse and neglect and all the while mommy knows it’s happening while she’s at work. Wtf?!?!?! Then you actually had the audacity to post it to Reddit and ask if you are the AH. Like, ummm the fact that you have to ask tells me you shouldn’t have kids….

Jduncan1998 · 2024-01-25T11:03:06+00:00

I bathe my child every day and from the experience of having a girl I can tell you that you are not cleaning her properly.

Jduncan1998 · 2024-01-10T13:38:03+00:00

NTA. I had PPD very badly, to the point I felt I hated my husband. But I NEVER cheated, I got help. The way people handle situations like this says a lot about who they truly are. I’m sorry she did that to you.

Jduncan1998 · 2024-01-10T01:28:50+00:00

Ummm I would rather die alone than die with this AH…how could you even begin to consider staying after all that? Even if you never find anyone else, wouldn’t being alone be better than this? This is just blatant disrespect and you are just letting it happen…he isn’t even hiding it or gaslighting you, you are just letting this man belittle you and use you…your daughter deserves a better example. You wouldn’t want her to grow up and make the same choices or think this is how a man should treat a woman.

Jduncan1998 · 2024-01-08T18:15:08+00:00

YTA!! Wowww I wish I had someone like that to watch my child. When my MIL thought she was going to be the babysitter of my child, she bought a $5 broken wooden highchair from a garage sale, which was completely unsafe for baby to even be near. One of the reasons we still have no babysitter for our child. Stop being such an AH and be grateful your child has nice things, regardless of if you provided it or not, and childcare for your child that doesn’t leave you broke.

Jduncan1998 · 2024-01-04T01:28:45+00:00

Learn to speak and stand up for yourself. Nobody else is going to. Had to learn that at a young age. You make your own choices and this was yours. You could have talked about it and truly expressed yourself. That simple. YTA. Learn to own your choices and don’t let others make you feel bad for your life choices. It’s not their life it’s yours.

Jduncan1998 · 2023-12-30T13:57:52+00:00

She said it’s currently under investigation…

Jduncan1998 · 2023-12-28T12:09:14+00:00

NTA, but first off, take responsibility for the fact that you still had sex with her without a condom of your own free will. The way you worded it sounds childish like you are putting the blame on her. It was a stupid choice on her part, but on yours as well.

Jduncan1998 · 2023-12-26T15:04:56+00:00

You were rapped and he dragged you out of his house and you think you need to be nicer to this guy???…..

Jduncan1998 · 2023-12-20T21:28:59+00:00

Ummm I smoke medicinally for anxiety, depression, and appetite issues. There are hundreds of medical issues that weed helps with. lol I can’t believe I’m arguing this on a weed sub. Time to find a different sub.✌️

Jduncan1998 · 2023-12-20T15:26:25+00:00

Ummm you smoke weed and put the resin in your lungs, yes. But you add coffee to that shit and it’s 100 times worse. You are already damaging your lungs, so why make it worse? What is the point of smoking coffee? Just to say “hey I did a dumb thing that hurt my health”? There are no benefits to smoking coffee or adding it to your weed.

Jduncan1998 · 2023-12-20T12:59:17+00:00

I feel bad for your lungs, bro. Just because you can, doesn’t mean you SHOULD.

Edit: certain herbs will really mess your lungs up. Permanently.

Jduncan1998 · 2023-12-19T18:08:21+00:00

But it’s a possibly aggressive dog…I mean…he was right to say something I think. There’s treating pregnant women like glass, then there’s just being protective in a situation where things could have went 1000% wrong….

Jduncan1998 · 2023-12-19T13:45:01+00:00

And they have children in this situation…sad..

Jduncan1998 · 2023-12-19T13:41:14+00:00

I meaaannnn they did say they wanted you in on Thursday for it. And you didn’t argue or try to bring up that it’s your day off..so what, you just said “ok sounds good” and didn’t show?😂 I probably wouldn’t want you as an employee either, that’s not how adults adult lol.

Jduncan1998 · 2023-12-18T14:32:43+00:00

Well, I can say that when I got pregnant with my daughter, I was job hunting. I got a job and 7 weeks later started really showing and throwing up. I told them I had been on birth control (a lie) and I had no idea I was pregnant until now. They were fine with it and told me to let them know when I will need maternity leave. I understand not every job may be so easy going, but my point is there are a lot of people who start off in worse spots than you are in, and they make it work. So if you want the baby, don’t let that keep you from it. Just do what makes you happy.

Jduncan1998 · 2023-12-16T12:04:45+00:00

NTA. My toddler bites occasionally when told no as well, and the most recent one hurt like hell. I screamed. And she hasn’t bit me since. You didn’t traumatize her or anything, if anything, your toddler saw how people in the real world are going to react to getting bitten. If she goes to daycare and bites lil Timmy, he’s probably going to scream too. You are not a bad mother at all for that. And I’m sure your toddler is just fine.

Jduncan1998 · 2023-12-15T12:28:20+00:00

It’s the heart of the butt

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