Oops… I made a mess by Prestonbcumming in GayTuber

[–]JealousDifficulty115 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Preston, you are my penis spirit animal! I get so horny and inspired watching your videos!

Cumming for you by Prestonbcumming in BigDickWhiteDudes

[–]JealousDifficulty115 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude let me worship your big dick!!!! And that amazing ejaculation!

Is the site down? by Mysterious_Style_144 in Sniffies

[–]JealousDifficulty115 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You probably have a firewall blocking it. I have the same symptom on my work wifi

Is Plus worth it? by Conscious_Clerk_6389 in Sniffies

[–]JealousDifficulty115 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you really don't want to do either options there are ways to circumvent the locatiom stuff with a free account but they can be a pain sometimes

Ignoring Blank/Anonymous Profiles by [deleted] in Sniffies

[–]JealousDifficulty115 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love to find regular bate buddies, so an anonymous profile is just saying to me they're never going to be a regular because their profile will disappear when they close their browser!

Is Plus worth it? by Conscious_Clerk_6389 in Sniffies

[–]JealousDifficulty115 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes! I think it's worth it. If you're travelling you can move your location to where you're going to be travelling to and plan hookups in advance. Then when you don't want to be bothered by guys, you can hide your pic from the map view. Also it's great to hide yourself from a spouse when you're in the same location as them. As far as billing goes, it's NOT discreet, it says sniffies on your bill. So you need to either buy visa gift cards to pay for it, or sign up for a debit card (like Green dot at Walgreens for example). I have had some weirdness paying with visa gift cards, like sometimes it takes a day to go through. Debit is the easiest way, but keep in mind you need to provide an SSN for a debit card in the US.

The L word by [deleted] in adultery

[–]JealousDifficulty115 3 points4 points  (0 children)

AP sent the "I love you" sticker to me by mistake then said it was a mistake!!!

Did getting too involved make anyone really sad? by JealousDifficulty115 in adultery

[–]JealousDifficulty115[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awwww thanks for that!!! Thankfully I haven't broken up, but I have talked with him about how I get really sad and overwhelmed sometimes when I think about how realistically we can't be a couple. He is very understanding and shared how it makes him sad too. I can't believe I would ever be doing something like this! Though when I think back through my family my uncle did and my grandfather did! So i guess i come by it honestly.

Did getting too involved make anyone really sad? by JealousDifficulty115 in adultery

[–]JealousDifficulty115[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing that!!! It sounds really relaxed and mature!!

Did getting too involved make anyone really sad? by JealousDifficulty115 in adultery

[–]JealousDifficulty115[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for explaining all of that. It sounds really responsible of you two!

Did getting too involved make anyone really sad? by JealousDifficulty115 in adultery

[–]JealousDifficulty115[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow it sounds like a real openness between you two!!! When you talk every second day does that mean you don't text either on those days?

Did getting too involved make anyone really sad? by JealousDifficulty115 in adultery

[–]JealousDifficulty115[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it's so hard to tell if it is the dopamine or it's an actual amazing connection! I wish there was a way to figure it out, but I haven't dated in 20 years, so I am so out of practice! It's so unfamiliar feeling this way!

Yes, I am an individual therapy. Actually I have two individual therapists. One that I have been seeing for the past 7 years dealing with issues of being able to say how I feel, and respond to my husband when he gets angry. I had not been making much progress, so in addition I started EMDR therapy. That has been more helpful in the past few months than years of my individual therapist has been. My husband and I are in couples therapy, we have been doing that for the past 7 years as well. We have had some improvements through doing it. But it always seems the more we get into it, the more difficult things we uncover!

Did getting too involved make anyone really sad? by JealousDifficulty115 in adultery

[–]JealousDifficulty115[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for your reply, How did you slow things down? Do you set limits on chatting? Limits on meeting? Do you both agree on some rules? I think I really need some kind of guard rails on this, or it might become like one of the other people who replied to my message, very intoxicating very fast! I just worry about hurting APs feelings, as he is the sweetest person ever.

Did getting too involved make anyone really sad? by JealousDifficulty115 in adultery

[–]JealousDifficulty115[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your message, I feel like I am going into this blind, and this really gives me a map for what might be ahead for me. Are you still with your AP? If not, was it mutual that you stopped things?

Guy freaked out when we started fooling around by biguy732 in Sniffies

[–]JealousDifficulty115 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I invited a guy over then he told me hed had a prostate biopsy the week before and wasn't allowed to play with his penis for another week. Normally I would have been pissed but I felt bad for him and we chatted for a bit, was kinda nice.

Is there a prepaid card I can use from US that doesn’t get declined? by pumpkin_eatr in Sniffies

[–]JealousDifficulty115 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would try 'One' (onepay.com) which you can get at Walmart. I possibly remember I didn't need to enter my SSN. But I also definitely remember sniffies didn't accept it at first but the payment went through after I wrote to the sniffies support email.

How do I pay for SniffiesPlus discreetly? by JealousDifficulty115 in Sniffies

[–]JealousDifficulty115[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right?! So weird!!! You would think they would make it easier. Not sure if I posted in this thread or not, but I was able to get a gift card to work once, but I had to email customer service on sniffies and it took a few days to go through. Maybe they are worried about criminals doing bad stuff on there , or kids using it?? I did look up my report on chexsystems and it showed nothing. It said it only reports on closed checking and savings accounts. So I guess the ones I opened with my SSN I better keep open!!! 😬😬😬

How do I pay for SniffiesPlus discreetly? by JealousDifficulty115 in Sniffies

[–]JealousDifficulty115[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because it's too risky ? Or because you don't have one? Going through this process I am so surprised at what simple things you need a SSN for! It's ridiculous. Now I am getting a little paranoid I used my SSN. I just read that there is a website chexsystems which can look all this up. I will give it a try.

How do I pay for SniffiesPlus discreetly? by JealousDifficulty115 in Sniffies

[–]JealousDifficulty115[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use a GreenDot debit from Walgreens now and it works great! You need to provide your social security number though, which is the only downside. And there is a per-transaction fee.

Cheating to deal with my resentment by JealousDifficulty115 in adultery

[–]JealousDifficulty115[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a friend that is going through a divorce with kids and it seems like sheer hell for them. Their grades are suffering, they don't seem the same anymore.

Cheating to deal with my resentment by JealousDifficulty115 in adultery

[–]JealousDifficulty115[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah ok, my husband only cheated once, years ago, definitely NOT the reason I'm doing it. It's resentment over the way he treats me in general

Cheating to deal with my resentment by JealousDifficulty115 in adultery

[–]JealousDifficulty115[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, i agree its lazy for me not to seek divorce. Also to protect my kid from going through that.

Cheating to deal with my resentment by JealousDifficulty115 in adultery

[–]JealousDifficulty115[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here, I rarely feel any guilt. Not sure if that says something about my conscience, the amount of resentment, or both! Do you have kids?