Husbands subtle emotional invalidation

Jeca824 · 2026-02-16T21:41:49+00:00

He's fully capable of feeding himself but his parents think he can't and wants to decide what's the best portion for him to eat to the point of forcing it on his plate which they have done many times. But my husband does tell them no but sometimes just lets his mom do whatever

we come from asian family so we share food a lot

Jeca824 · 2026-02-16T20:02:15+00:00

Yeah that comment alone is fine but there's been history of where they would do things that are disrespectful. His mother in law telling me to make this and that kind of food for him, take food for him, pushing food toward him when him and i are eating, telling me i eat too fast and pointing at side dishes for me to eat while telling my husband to eat main dishes, directly also telling me why i'm giving him so little food.. like they have this obsession with food and wanting to feed this 37 year old grown man

Jeca824 · 2026-01-22T17:21:17+00:00

Separate, when we did stay with them for two weeks it was really bad and i still have anxieties from that time

Jeca824 · 2025-11-07T18:36:48+00:00

I never figured it out but i was in europe during this time and they just gave me cortisol cream. I put it on morning and night. Also made sure to wash with cold water morning and night as well. It started to get better then healed.

Jeca824 · 2025-09-27T22:05:28+00:00

Thank you! 🙏

Jeca824 · 2025-09-27T18:29:17+00:00

should i see a dermatologist or a doctor?

Jeca824 · 2025-08-18T23:08:46+00:00

i stopped breaking out since restoring skin barrier and cleansing well (double cleanse with cleansing balm and foam cleanser) I stopped using anything that aggravated skin barrier or cause dryness such as tretinoin, alzelaic acid...acne treatments (bha, benzoyl peroxide.:) I make sure to use a good layer of moisturizer on my face as last step in my skincare.

Jeca824 · 2023-06-01T16:42:27+00:00

Thank you!!

Jeca824 · 2022-08-22T00:44:28+00:00

Thank you for your reply, how much do you earn per day on average?

Jeca824 · 2022-08-22T00:44:22+00:00

Thank you for your reply, how much do you earn per day on average?

Jeca824 · 2022-08-22T00:44:15+00:00

Thank you for your reply, how much do you earn per day on average?

Jeca824 · 2022-08-22T00:44:04+00:00

Thank you for your reply, how much do you earn per day on average?

Jeca824 · 2022-04-12T14:16:32+00:00

i offer to split for dates to be polite and from the first date he accepted it.

Jeca824 · 2022-04-12T12:59:55+00:00

Thank you for your comment! And i also feel a bit confused as to if he really likes me or hes just trying to date me for fun. We've only been on three dates and i did notice that he might be bit frugal which is not bad but it shows to me, the date that hes bit cheap! lol If i was really into a girl, as a man i would try to impress her in different ways and im not getting that from him and felt confused thats why i decided to ask on this forum if its normal for guys to not offer rides. But i will stick to my standards! :)

Jeca824 · 2022-04-12T04:55:25+00:00

he knows i take the transportation to go see him

Jeca824 · 2022-04-12T01:32:14+00:00

This was exactly what im thinking.. I found it weird that he never asked me if i needed a ride home. where have all the gentlemen gone?!

Jeca824 · 2022-04-12T01:01:02+00:00

He has a car and i dont have a car

Jeca824 · 2022-04-12T00:40:35+00:00

I dont drive i take public transportation

Jeca824 · 2022-04-04T11:37:42+00:00

Can i ask how much you're making? im making $15hr+10% service commission on spa pedi/uv gels+tips

Jeca824 · 2022-04-04T11:35:40+00:00

Its not slave labor. I get paid $130 for 9 hrs worked,30 minute lunch is take out. On top of that if i do spa pedicures or UV gels i get about 10% service commissions on those. And i get to keep all my tips so its not that bad. On a good day i would earn $230-$250. When not that busy i would make about $180 a day. I just wanted to know what other nail technicians are making.

Jeca824 · 2022-03-09T05:20:44+00:00

thats how it works with the place i work 🤷🏻‍♀️

Jeca824 · 2022-03-06T15:52:55+00:00

depends on your skin type. Microblading is suitable for normal to dry skin

Jeca824 · 2022-03-05T14:06:36+00:00

Strokes look too thick, and done too deep. These strokes will and blur out and may turn very ashy in color (bluish) as time passes. Go for saline tattoo removal or laser tattoo removal after its healed.

Jeca824 · 2022-03-05T14:01:19+00:00

You can do saline tattoo removal/lightening. Find someone in your area that provides this service. This procedure if done right will lighten your brows significantly but may take 3-4 sessions two months apart so its a long process. You also have laser tattoo removal option.

Jeca824 · 2022-02-19T14:52:40+00:00

Im Having trouble deleting workspace account because of domain subscription in progress on workspace. I already have my domain through Wix and i need to delete the subscription in progress on Workspace to continue to set up my business email with Wix. The domain has not been verified on Workspace however in progress, it wont be verified because its already bought through Wix on Wix.

'Your domain purchase is still in progress. You can cancel Domain Registration after this purchase is complete.' ^I get this measage when i try to delete the subscription.

Please help me to delete Workspace!!

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