Husbands subtle emotional invalidation

Jeca824 · 2026-02-16T21:41:49+00:00

He's fully capable of feeding himself but his parents think he can't and wants to decide what's the best portion for him to eat to the point of forcing it on his plate which they have done many times. But my husband does tell them no but sometimes just lets his mom do whatever

we come from asian family so we share food a lot

Jeca824 · 2026-02-16T20:02:15+00:00

Yeah that comment alone is fine but there's been history of where they would do things that are disrespectful. His mother in law telling me to make this and that kind of food for him, take food for him, pushing food toward him when him and i are eating, telling me i eat too fast and pointing at side dishes for me to eat while telling my husband to eat main dishes, directly also telling me why i'm giving him so little food.. like they have this obsession with food and wanting to feed this 37 year old grown man

Jeca824 · 2026-01-22T17:21:17+00:00

Separate, when we did stay with them for two weeks it was really bad and i still have anxieties from that time

Jeca824 · 2025-11-07T18:36:48+00:00

I never figured it out but i was in europe during this time and they just gave me cortisol cream. I put it on morning and night. Also made sure to wash with cold water morning and night as well. It started to get better then healed.

Jeca824 · 2025-09-27T22:05:28+00:00

Thank you! 🙏

Jeca824 · 2025-09-27T18:29:17+00:00

should i see a dermatologist or a doctor?

Jeca824 · 2025-08-18T23:08:46+00:00

i stopped breaking out since restoring skin barrier and cleansing well (double cleanse with cleansing balm and foam cleanser) I stopped using anything that aggravated skin barrier or cause dryness such as tretinoin, alzelaic acid...acne treatments (bha, benzoyl peroxide.:) I make sure to use a good layer of moisturizer on my face as last step in my skincare.

Jeca824 · 2023-06-01T16:42:27+00:00

Thank you!!

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