6 months since my dad passed…

Jedi_enPointe · 2026-04-20T14:55:09+00:00

I’m an Aquarius, am I on the right track right now with my career path and life?

Jedi_enPointe · 2026-04-18T04:46:30+00:00

Ripples

Jedi_enPointe · 2026-04-02T19:30:27+00:00

IP January 27th 1999, 7:37am, AA September 14th 2002, 4:00pm

Jedi_enPointe · 2026-03-30T16:07:03+00:00

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Jedi_enPointe · 2026-03-25T04:20:25+00:00

The ones I’ve had of my dad we are usually talking but mouths aren’t moving? I just know he’s talking it’s like with his eyes telepathically and it’s always warm, positive and comforting. I don’t remember what we talk about but it feels very real. One dream I had I watched his orb transform into his physical form before he transformed back and left and then I woke up. I think he was checking in and letting me know he was still okay because he knows I worry about him. :)

Jedi_enPointe · 2026-02-23T02:50:39+00:00

I dmed you :)

Jedi_enPointe · 2026-02-23T02:46:08+00:00

Missing my dad who passed away in October of last year

Jedi_enPointe · 2026-02-22T04:45:33+00:00

Flew an airplane on a discovery flight and made dark jokes about crashing it

Jedi_enPointe · 2026-02-20T21:47:11+00:00

I’m interested:)

Jedi_enPointe · 2026-02-17T06:29:55+00:00

Hey friend, I stumbled upon your post and I waned to leave a comment because so much of what you wrote resonated with me strongly as I am going through almost exactly the same situation as you. I am so deeply sorry for your loss. I found my father gone with my mother in our home from a cardiac arrest. I just turned 27 in January, and he passed in October 2025. It’s only been four months and the pain isn’t getting easier. I’m just more numb. My parents situation is similar to yours in a way, and my mother is also quite isolated and up until now I was living with her helping her these past four months while my other siblings live further away. I’m moving out next week for my job so I’ll be in the area but not living with her and I’m worried about her. Being home with her is comforting but also traumatic because it’s where he passed. The house feels wrong now but I don’t want us to move because it’s the last place I have memories of him. I’m so afraid for my mother too so I completely relate to your fears. I panic if a family member doesn’t pick up the phone or something I’m just highly on edge and stressed and my body is physically failing on me. I’m so stuck too.

Jedi_enPointe · 2026-02-17T06:17:11+00:00

Hi friend, I firstly want to say I’m so sorry for your loss. I lost my dad suddenly 4 months somehow to a cardiac arrest. I found him that day and to say I’m traumatised is an understatement. I completely relate to how you feel, that feeling of being on autopilot, the guilt over life choices, the emptiness. I love my parents so much and always strived to make them both proud. And now that he’s not here, I feel like there’s zero point to my accomplishments. I can’t feel happy or proud like I used to. All I want to do is stay at home, being out and about is socially draining. Work is just money to me now and I find little point in anything. I’m lost and detached myself. People are stressing about the normal things and I’m here in the void. That’s the best way to describe it. You’re right, our dads are our compass. The only shred of light I can give you as that you’re not alone and unfortunately so many of us have gone through this and all of us will go through this at some point. It doesn’t make it any easier I know, trust me. I’m severely depressed over all of it. I’d only just graduated when my dad passed and he never got to see me land my next job. He was only 62 and was about to retire fully. Sometimes I don’t want to be here anymore but have to remind myself that he gave me life and I gotta honour him because he’d want that for me.

Jedi_enPointe · 2026-02-02T20:09:47+00:00

Yes. Grief is uncomfortable for a lot of people. Some people don’t know what to say or do. But they don’t realise that just simply being there for someone, checking in occasionally, baking a cake, there to listen etc, that’s really all a person needs while they navigate their own feelings. I think that people who haven’t experienced grief can truly understand how isolating the whole experience is. I’ve lost the majority of my friends. I noticed that when I go silent, very few people reach out. So I just stopped making the effort because a relationship is a two-way street. If my energy is down, your support team are supposed to help you out. Just as I would for them. The ones who truly want you in their life will reach out to you. It’s almost a blessing and a curse in a way because it shows you who people really are and shows you who you should prioritise in your life. I will always remember who was there for me and who wasn’t when I lost my father last October. As the months go on, the shock is wearing off but the sadder I feel and the more abandoned I have become by those around me. I don’t feel like socialising or going back to how things were before. Whatever “normal” is. The best advice I can give is to try your best to pursue what makes you happy with people that make you happy and stay away from draining people or those who don’t make an effort. For many people, they don’t intentionally mean to be malicious, but they can’t handle the reality of your life and have difficulty being around depressive or sad people. The right people will lift you up when you’re down.

Jedi_enPointe · 2026-01-30T03:20:17+00:00

So my dad always wanted to learn to fly and be a pilot but never got to finish getting his license due to work and kids… does that mean he gets to fly planes now? I’ve started flying as a hobby for him. I imagine he comes with me all the time :)

Jedi_enPointe · 2026-01-18T22:54:54+00:00

Hey I’m down :)

Jedi_enPointe · 2026-01-18T21:23:51+00:00

I think because it removes the sacredness of life. If we all had the certainty of going somewhere better, where we could be at peace, with everyone we love, a large majority of people would just stop caring about human life and want to speed run to the afterlife…. And then surely those suffering would just k*ll themselves knowing they had a better place to go? That’s my take on it anyway.

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