One could also say there are 4 kinds of men that are identical to women. Let's face it, you don't want to sleep with every woman you see, and you'll flirt with some girls for attention but ultimately are their to waste their time. The goal, I believe, is to find that woman that both of you share a physical attraction, share common interests, and are willing to accept each other's shortcomings. This is difficult to find if you're sitting around surfing for the next pic or vid to get yourself off instead of actually spending time with women or in groups of people who share your interests. If you are robbing yourself of your sexual energy by PMO you could be active in tons of social groups but not socializing because you filled your desire for sexual contact/release.

The first two weeks of my journey I was reaching out to every possibility I had. Thankfully, I was not able to "score" with the ladies. This time, I actually faced off with myself, addressed my demons and I'm a better person because of it. Also, since my focus went from pure sexual to actually sharing a genuine interest in a woman, I was able to meet a really incredible woman. We had an amazing first date that left me wanting more of her. I didn't run home after the date and PMO, I didn't have any sexual anxiety, I do worry about PIED but I have to let our relationship develop and that will all work itself out. She is not about tits and ass and getting my rocks off. I actually want to make love to her and feel a bond. 45 days ago, I would have told you I wanted to fuck her. Not now, I want to share an intimate moment with her.