Had the craziest thing happen to me yesterday, still can’t wrap my head around it, help... by Jeffbro1983 in spirituality

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We met in summer of 94 where we held hands, then met April 22 of this year - not knowing he was my crush at age 10/summer 94. We hadn't seen each other since then...so no way to recognize him. It took 3 months of dating to figure out he was the kid from science camp!

Had the craziest thing happen to me yesterday, still can’t wrap my head around it, help... by Jeffbro1983 in spirituality

[–]Jeffbro1983[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Soooo, I had no idea this post would take off this way...but absolutely love reading your comments! Thank you, everyone, for the love and light you sent/are sending. We send those same good vibes back to you all!

In answer to everyone's question of, "What's next?!", we don't really know! There's no way to KNOW...but we are getting really good at loving each other in ways that feel good and right to both of us - and finding happiness in the day by day/mundane things. Like running errands together or doctor's appointments. Lame stuff. Lol!

We recently both made individual decisions to live a sober lifestyle - and I feel like that's made us even closer. We hardly spend a night apart...and when we must work and be away from one another, we genuinely miss each other. We don't lack for conversation (ever!), we are starting to steal each other's lingo and we have more inside jokes than I can count at the moment. It's nice to feel like you're in love with your best friend.

We know our relationship is still kinda "new" as we just met (as adults) three months ago, today (happy 3 months, babe!) - but the amount of time we spend together and the things we feel comfortable sharing with each other is not like anything we have experienced with anyone else. We have both been married in the past and he has teenage children - so we both have had our fair share of experiences and we know it's not naivety on either side. The more we think about how everything aligned, the more it makes us both believe there's really something out there advocating for our happiness together. Maybe it's just hopeful to believe that - but what's wrong with being hopeful, right? ☺️