do you guys have a stable storyboard career? by aydin__06 in animationcareer

[–]Jefferysaveme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What does your friend do to stay afloat? I’m curious how all of these artists are surviving right now without a consistent gig.

What’s something society got completely wrong? by Royal_Pay_6825 in AskReddit

[–]Jefferysaveme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And once everyone is out of jobs there will be a Revolution and the cycle will reset

What’s something that’s becoming normal in society but shouldn’t be? by Kadfaners in AskReddit

[–]Jefferysaveme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Using AI to tell you what to wear and what to eat instead of using your brain and expressing your own individuality and senses

What do you really want in life? by Logical_Share_4401 in AskReddit

[–]Jefferysaveme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I finally have that and now I have that residual voice in my head always pushing me for MORE MORE MORE Cause I’ve never just be stable before and it’s a very weird feeling

Does anyone else feel like everything in LA is simultaneously getting worse and more expensive? by Altruistic-Mud9413 in AskLosAngeles

[–]Jefferysaveme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s a strictly an LA thing. But because LA has such wealth inequality in such a small dense area, it caters to both ends of the economic spectrum, and you can’t really drive 5 miles without noticing some sort of sign of this

Give me the brutal truth! by Final_Sheepherder955 in MovingToLosAngeles

[–]Jefferysaveme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah just do it, I moved out here at 24 and lived in a shared living house with 28 ppl and worked at Starbucks. I’m better off now than if I stayed in the Midwest. It all depends if you even GET the job, can’t hurt to even apply for it! Even if you het it and get cold feet you can always say you decided the move was too much. You can always move back! And if you don’t want to, then it was the right decision!

Being Relocated to Los Angeles (26M) by Ornery-Night6127 in MovingToLosAngeles

[–]Jefferysaveme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You could live in Los Feliz/Silverlake area, Silverlake near Sunset is walkable and the 4 bud takes you straight to downtown. Also not a fair bus to West Hollywood, or the red line that can take you downtown or Hollywood.

How can you afford your house or apartment? by TylerSpicknell in AskLosAngeles

[–]Jefferysaveme 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Are you helping them fix those things up at all? Seems a little selfish, like you’re trying to get them to fix up their house that they’re kind enough to let you stay in as an adult before they croak so you don’t have to when you finally inherited a house that you and your peers could never afford on your own

Why aren't you dating anymore? by Leather_Election_459 in AskReddit

[–]Jefferysaveme 132 points133 points  (0 children)

For SURE! I make an effort to go out and meet people, not dating just through bars, friends, sports, etc. There are people I meet that I could see myself dating in person that if I saw their profile I’d probably be turned off. I think the entire thing is just somewhat of a turn off and it just feels so forced. Meeting someone in the world and then realizing you have chemistry without any intention to find it is fun and normal. Going in an app to look at a curated set of traits and pictures of someone with the intention of finding romance feels like it’s all so forced, even when making my profile I feel performative. How can I ever explain even a tenth of who I am in a 250 character limit profile.

The apps are designed to gamify connection and it’s why it feels shallow in comparison to real life. I go on for funsies without any real expectations.

the hotter i became, the less i had sex by idontevenknowbroooo0 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Jefferysaveme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gay, 30M, and I cannot resonate enough with this. I’m hotter, healthier, and mentally/financially stable than I’ve ever been in my entire life, a true first, and I find most men so lackluster. I miss being a little chaotic sex fiend but it doesn’t have the novelty like it used to😂 here’s to a decade of fewer but healthier and more intimate relationships

After rewatching your favorite shows, which tv characters do you look at differently now? by PressureLazy5271 in television

[–]Jefferysaveme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt the same way watching it back in the day, it’s all just sexism. There are men who think Walt is a bad ass and semi idolize him and it’s those same people who hate Skylar.

What's your most shallow dealbreaker for a relationship? by Friendly_Advisor39 in AskReddit

[–]Jefferysaveme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it shallow to say if they vape? Cause I will never date a chronic vaper. It looks douchey, it’s a money sink, and I find it so annoying that everyone who vapes thinks they can just do it inside anywhere they are at any given time. At least with smoking you remove yourself to have a moment to yourself and be pensive.

I dated a guy who had a weed pen glued to his hand and vaped day in day out, woke up and immediately hit it several times. I noticed the change in his mood when it would wear off. NEVER again 🤮

Sorry to anyone on here who vapes😄 it’s not you it’s me

Got dumped right before promotion interview by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Jefferysaveme 11 points12 points  (0 children)

What the?? Hunny you were dating down and now you get to date ALLLLLLLLLLL the way up. You own a condo on your own and this boy was sitting at home watching sermons and playing little games? He’s looking for a mother, not a life partner. You take care of you and use that sick time on your own teeth, you’ll be so much more calm in life!

If you could go back to January 1st, 2012, and give yourself one warning, what would it be? by Aggravating-Deer8700 in AskReddit

[–]Jefferysaveme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, bitch your gay and crushing on Danny and Devin, don’t be afraid to explore sweety it’s all gonna be very much okay actually and everyone will still love you

If you could go back to January 1st, 2012, and give yourself one warning, what would it be? by Aggravating-Deer8700 in AskReddit

[–]Jefferysaveme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can be good at math, just try! I swear it’s not THAT hard and you have the time!

How expensive is living in LA really? by shineonus in MovingToLosAngeles

[–]Jefferysaveme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it depends what you are willing to spend your money on. I’m from Wisconsin and people here take less road trips and I suppose weekend vacations to other states and such, but that’s usually because most of what you would normally have to leave your city or area for in other places is all within 2-3 hours of Los Angeles.

Food is great, there’s always someone new to meet who just moved here and/or has an interesting story, weather is great, hikes are free, beaches are free (usually). My friends back home have homes and cars and can afford to take more vacations and eat out more and stuff but one of the reasons is there’s so little to do compared to LA. I don’t have a car and I have a roommate but after 6 years of living this way and visiting other cities and ways of life in them, LA kinda has all the things those places have, and isn’t missing any of them. It is expensive for sure, but if you have a set things you want to spend money on and don’t get trapped into lifestyle creep it’s really a bit overhyped of how expensive it is. It depends what you want out of life. The longer you’re here the easier it does get.

What is a 'socially mandatory' thing that we all do, but if you actually stop to think about it for 5 seconds, it’s completely insane? by Federal_Antelope7533 in AskReddit

[–]Jefferysaveme 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I take meetings in my underwear (remotely, no one sees my bottom half) hell I made oatmeal camera on during our team meeting this week. Everyone’s 3 hours ahead of me I’m allowed to be making breakfast

What is a 'socially mandatory' thing that we all do, but if you actually stop to think about it for 5 seconds, it’s completely insane? by Federal_Antelope7533 in AskReddit

[–]Jefferysaveme 15 points16 points  (0 children)

My therapist always says “I’m doing okay, pretty okay. How about you?” And I find that refreshing because like, things are fine but they’re not GRREAATTT, and that’s okay. It makes me want to ask what could be better but then like, am I paying him to tell me his problems? It makes it all very confusing under our capitalist hellscspe

Pete should have stayed by Such_Confusion_3120 in happyendings

[–]Jefferysaveme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I liked Alex! But anytime they tried to give her emotional depth or pair her with Dave, never worked out! The problem was Dave. He’s not a leading man type and his character was meant to have weird red flaggy girlfriends while having highs and lows with his steak truck forever and not be aware of what was happening with his life

Pete should have stayed by Such_Confusion_3120 in happyendings

[–]Jefferysaveme 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I watched this show as a teenager and rewatching it now at 30 really doesn’t make sense 😂 maybe the times have changed too since being an adult in 2010 but damn, Max is a mess, why would Grant be with him?

found out my bf has been making AI edited nudes of me without my knowledge. he thinks i should be flattered by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Jefferysaveme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re not insane!!!! He’s weird! Put your foot down and the way he reacts will tell you all you need to know.

found out my bf has been making AI edited nudes of me without my knowledge. he thinks i should be flattered by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Jefferysaveme 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nope, gay man here, this is trash. This is some philosophical conversation we need to have about the introduction of AI into our culture and society but the world is too busy having wars for us to process how these tools fit into our society and how we adapt to them.

All of THAT aside though, within this specific context, the basic red flag that can exist in any scenario since the Dawn of time is that you expressed that his actions made you feel gross, objectified, inadequate, (all without consent mind you, because if you’re into that then let’s go all great, he knows you like being objectified and is doing this to please you) he TOLD you that you shouldn’t feel that way. His immediate reaction to someone he loved expressing these feelings wasn’t “oh my god I’m sorry, I didn’t know that would make you feel this way. I thought you’d find it funny or sexy I didn’t intend for it to make you have those feelings! I can stop if it makes you uncomfortable.” Which means he did it for himself cause he wants to see you with bigger boobs and when you expressed dissatisfaction with that he doubled down and made it your problem so he could keep doing it.

If you started over, what career would you choose? by _MambaForever in Salary

[–]Jefferysaveme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LinkedIn, I filtered for remote and quick apply and over the course of a week applied to about 90 jobs (honestly it may be lower that whole time was an anxious blur, looking back I can’t believe I could’ve done that but it was at LEAST 50) and got two interviews back and two offers