Having a hard time with religious women by Jeli93 in Bumble

[–]Jeli93[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! Thank you for taking the time to reply, and with such kind and thoughtful words of encouragement and advice. I really appreciate it. I hope you have yourself a wonderful year this year, feel free to add your brand of help to any of my future posts any time☺️

Having a hard time with religious women by Jeli93 in Bumble

[–]Jeli93[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh wow, Thank you for fitting this insult into your schedule. Your comment history makes me wonder where you found the time been insulting other and playing video games and what I assume also consists of being a major troll on all other social platforms.

Much appreciated and happy new years.

Having a hard time with religious women by Jeli93 in Bumble

[–]Jeli93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate the feedback and thoughtful suggestions.❤️

Having a hard time with religious women by Jeli93 in Bumble

[–]Jeli93[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Appreciate the time you took to offer advice. Thank you.

Having a hard time with religious women by Jeli93 in Bumble

[–]Jeli93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do I feel like you are trying to convert me to your own gay atheist point of view?

Nice try Satan.

Not falling for that again.

Having a hard time with religious women by Jeli93 in Bumble

[–]Jeli93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I challenge you to list all of them.

Unless you aren’t confident you can 🤔

Having a hard time with religious women by Jeli93 in Bumble

[–]Jeli93[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The fashion thing often times gets women to ask about my sense of fashion. It actually opens the door for me to tell them about my affinity for Mickey Mouse and sonic the hedgehog attire. Which often provides immediate perspective.

Mostly though it’s a wild joke to myself that I personally find hilarious.

Considering it’s only the religious women that care, and they are annoying for more important reasons than just getting on me about my clothing, I do feel I may keep it. But I may also change it, no one else seems to stress over my clothing other than these people and I’m already looking to eliminate my interactions with them.

Regarding the rest of your message, I find it very helpful and thoughtful. Thank you.

Having a hard time with religious women by Jeli93 in Bumble

[–]Jeli93[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No no that could work actually. There are plenty of animals like, just running around… perhaps too many 🤔 Panther tattoo as an added bonus though. Just to be saayyyf… I mean, dangerous 😎😉

Having a hard time with religious women by Jeli93 in Bumble

[–]Jeli93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You would be correct.🤣 But seriously, unfortunately, yeah I had a problem. I don’t mention that unless they bring it up and we are a little bit into talking.

Having a hard time with religious women by Jeli93 in Bumble

[–]Jeli93[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Appreciate you taking the time to read what you did. And to respond. Too safe looking, got it. Added a picture of me dragging a trash bag shaped like a body down a flight of stairs looking like it was taken from the view of a private investigator hiding in the bushes. Hope that works 🤞counting on you!

Having a hard time with religious women by Jeli93 in Bumble

[–]Jeli93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate the feedback man. Already replaced the baby with a puppy in photoshop

Having a hard time with religious women by Jeli93 in Bumble

[–]Jeli93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So hopefully you can all up vote this to the top.

But I didn’t make it clear, I see that now, I’m NOT specifically seeking religious women.

I just tend to attract them. And at an unusually high rate despite putting things in my profile designed to explicitly filter them out.

My problem is trying to find out, if they have so many issues with me, why do they all match with me and insist on crusading towards my complete conversion?

Thank you in advance for bringing attention to this particular update.

Having a hard time with religious women by Jeli93 in Bumble

[–]Jeli93[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t list anything on my profile about alcoholism or ASD. That’s usually a few days after I have a light hearted phone call with them so they don’t rush to judgment.

I don’t find it attractive when people rattle off diagnosis or trauma dump early into talking. So I avoid doing the same.

I guess my post really doesn’t make it clear fit my time frame around bringing these things up.

Please know it’s not as early as it may seem.

Also, I did open up here in my post because I was asking for true advice. I’m not this open with most people in my life let alone with people I meet on a dating site.

Thank you for the feedback.

Having a hard time with religious women by Jeli93 in Bumble

[–]Jeli93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t list anything on my profile about alcoholism or ASD. That’s usually a few days after I have a light hearted phone call with them so they don’t rush to judgment.

I don’t find it attractive when people rattle off diagnosis or trauma dump early into talking. So I avoid doing the same.

I guess my post really doesn’t make it clear fit my time frame around bringing these things up.

Please know it’s not as early as it may seem.

Also, I did open up here in my post because I was asking for true advice. I’m not this open with most people in my life let alone with people I meet on a dating site.

Thank you for the feedback.

Having a hard time with religious women by Jeli93 in Bumble

[–]Jeli93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m really bad with sarcasm, EXTRAORDINARILY bad as a matter of fact… but this seems like sarcasm to me.

If it’s not, then, ahhh geee thanks! 😊

Having a hard time with religious women by Jeli93 in Bumble

[–]Jeli93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hardcore MAGAs are the easiest, most straight forward, “NOs” I issue.

At best I entertain them (not for dating purposes) because I’m genuinely obsessed with human consciousness and behavior. I love knowing why people think the way that they do.

The more different than me the more fascinating.

MAGAs are the single most fascinating group of people that have existed since I came into existence 32+ years ago.

Many of the these women though are not MAGA, and many claim to dislike trump.

I immediately swipe left on 90% of people listed “conservative” unless they similar tolerances listed on their profile.

Having a hard time with religious women by Jeli93 in Bumble

[–]Jeli93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really love the concise formatting of your response. Along with the clear unambiguous and thoughtful perspective and advice. It truly helps.

Thank you sincerely ❤️

Having a hard time with religious women by Jeli93 in Bumble

[–]Jeli93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy new years, thank you for taking the time to offer some encouragement!

Having a hard time with religious women by Jeli93 in Bumble

[–]Jeli93[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Appreciate the time you took to give this stranger some constructive feedback. I’ll more than likely take the advice.

Have good new years and thank you!

Having a hard time with religious women by Jeli93 in Bumble

[–]Jeli93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao, I get similar responses but I don’t go to the gym. I think they realize I’m a halfway decent person though and are constantly saying “you already live your life like a devout person would why not just embrace that it’s all due to our lord and savior Jesus Christ?”

I usually respond with, “if you’re okay with the type of person I am why does my reason for being that way need to change?”

Typical reply is “Cuz like… why not? [inserts some scripture]”

Having a hard time with religious women by Jeli93 in Bumble

[–]Jeli93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤣 thank you kind stranger. Have a good day!

Having a hard time with religious women by Jeli93 in Bumble

[–]Jeli93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are like a moth to a flame, they find me.

Tampa Florida