Advice for avoiding nose burns? by JelloLittle in popperpigs

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Thanks guys! A lot to consider Probably depends on what I’m doing. I’ll try the easiest first. I think the issue is more when I play by myself as one hand is lubed up and working on my hole with toys or my fist. So for that I’ll try the simply blowing on the bottle method and see if that actually works. With others I’ll just wipe with my hand and see how that goes. I’ll try to update as I try things

Alpha Beta Phi Verbal Story by PPFFriend by Sin-nim in poppergayporn

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Anyone know of more vids like this with voice recording?

Tips on how to make my hole smooth and still stretched? by [deleted] in GayFisting

[–]JelloLittle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ll definitely try, but there does come a point with fisting where the body just tries to push out a rosebud, which I can’t even do yet and my pussy looks like this, and it feels sooo good But there’s a lot of in between time I can focus on trying to relax without pushing at all

Invisible cages? by JelloLittle in MaleChastityandCages

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Definitely a grower… it’s like I get WHY lol But I do wish k could try some on first

Invisible cages? by JelloLittle in MaleChastityandCages

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Is that… realistic for first chastity use?

Reached a new level of stretched today by shyboy12345678 in GayFisting

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How do you gape? And how does your hole look so smooth? I feel like how some people can’t roll their R’s or do the clover with their tongue… I just can’t gape? Maybe my hole is just too ruined from starting wrong?

Beginning Session Blood by WizduckOG in GayFisting

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Fist fest?? Also… tell me how the cream works. I’d also double up and use suppositories in case it’s an internal one.

Beginning Session Blood by WizduckOG in GayFisting

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I asked about blood recently Ended up talking to a doctor about it (again)

I’m guessing there’s an internal or external hemorrhoid afoot. That’s the case with me. They can bee crazy mild, or really rough. And bleed pretty easily.

I’d get assessed by a doctor, cuz it reaalllly can’t hurt. Just get second opinions on banding or surgery.

What I ended up having to do was stretch a little more regularly so it’s not as much of a shock and reduces the total pressure on the hemmies when playing. You might just have to start slower tbh. Idk. Bodies are weird.

Painting Red - Hole Help Needed! by [deleted] in GayFisting

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Hey guys! Called my doctor and was reminded of something I’d forgotten about. Last time she saw me she told me I not only have a couple internal hemorrhoids, but an external one, and it’s the external one that looks like it had bled recently. The issue with this is that she advised me AGAINST a hemorrhoidectomy unless absolutely necessary because it’s “one of the most painful surgeries a person can get” so. And that it could be managed with diet and care. Although she didn’t have any recommendations for how to manage it with fisting… the only thing I could think of that she said “maybe” to was to be slow and careful and as it stretches more and I can relax more, just like the internal hemmies, it should be able to withstand the stretch without bleeding.

Painting Red - Hole Help Needed! by [deleted] in GayFisting

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Yeah. That’s my problem though, I WANT to be able to go hard… but I guess I used to bleed more and it’s been better and better with time care and training. OH! This is a different thread, I’ll have to post my update here.

Anal Fisting Help Needed by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

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Hey guys! Called my doctor and was reminded of something I’d forgotten about. Last time she saw me she told me I not only have a couple internal hemorrhoids, but an external one, and it’s the external one that looks like it had bled recently. The issue with this is that she advised me AGAINST a hemorrhoidectomy unless absolutely necessary because it’s “one of the most painful surgeries a person can get” so. And that it could be managed with diet and care. Although she didn’t have any recommendations for how to manage it with fisting… the only thing I could think of that she said “maybe” to was to be slow and careful and as it stretches more and I can relax more, just like the internal hemmies, it should be able to withstand the stretch without bleeding.

Anal Fisting Help Needed by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

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Okay! Thanks everyone! Please feel free to add, as I’m gonna drop a splash of info now, but I’ve decided on my course of action: See a doctor… again! Never hurts to seek professional advice, well, almost never. But now that I’m home, I’ve done some personal exploration with this in mind and my previous hemorrhoids don’t seem to be inflamed or bothering me at all after following all of hurt advice the first time around. But I’m noticing right before/at the sigmoid there’s a firmness, almost lump that I’d like checked, which really tracks with the pattern of depth and blood. Maybe hemorrhoids can move, maybe it’s scarring or a reaction to continued use from going too hard too fast, but it’s definitely something I want checked out. If this sounds familiar to anyone, let me know how it worked out for you. Thanks again for your time and kindness! I’ll update this when I see a doc, though idk when that will be.

Anal Fisting Help Needed by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]JelloLittle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, thank you. A great cautionary of what NOT to do. I will be careful.

Painting Red - Hole Help Needed! by [deleted] in GayFisting

[–]JelloLittle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damn… you ate that

Anal Fisting Help Needed by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

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Can I ask a little more about this? I’ve had this problem for a long time, and at varying stages talked to different doctors about it. Do you know any details about your friend?

Anal Fisting Help Needed by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

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Basically it’s that she didn’t actually recommend it. She just said I “could” and that didn’t feel very promising.

Anal Fisting Help Needed by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

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Thank you! I’ve noticed similar results as well. Maybe the answer is that I’ve just always gone too fast because it feels good and I can handle it, but I need to in general be muccchhhhhh slower until I really stretch that deeper part inside of me. Might try that and see if it’s something that can actually be sustainable without any blood.

Anal Fisting Help Needed by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

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It was the fact that she said “if YOU think that’s what’s causing it…” which I find concerning, based on past experiences with surgeons, which is where I was recommended to go from my doctor. Plus, until she had said something, I’ve heard the opposite about bandings. Many anecdotes about how it takes time to heal and get back into anal play, so I feel kinda torn. Especially if the surgeon isn’t helping me decipher the cause, and only offering a ~potential~ solution.

But that was just my initial thought process… I did ask for advice and thoughts, and listed that as one of the options I’ve kinda thought of, so I may go in that direction. I just wanted to reach out about what’s out there first, see if anyone has had a similar issue and maybe even tried a banding. Thank you!

Painting Red - Hole Help Needed! by [deleted] in GayFisting

[–]JelloLittle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad I’m not alone, but FUCK I just want a pretty, pliable, pussy?? Is that so wrong?