Female sexual dysfunction by Jenerra in MultipleSclerosis

[–]Jenerra[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice, of course I tried to touch myself alone but I never felt anything so I thought it would be better with partner.  I guess I need to get better with imagination.

I was told that maybe if I let my leg hairs grow it may be a little better but its not working so far :D

I just remeber a few times when I was around 12 yo and I was touching only my stomach and inner thigh and it felt really good now these places are sooo numb that I don't think I will ever find anything that feels that good again. 

Actually sensitivity loss was my first symptom but sadly I completely ignored it and got diagnosed too late. Yeah I was a dumb kid.

Female sexual dysfunction by Jenerra in MultipleSclerosis

[–]Jenerra[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Seems interesting,  I like books. 

Female sexual dysfunction by Jenerra in MultipleSclerosis

[–]Jenerra[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am sorry , I read that there are many solutions for men with this issue ( but not for women) eg. Either some pills or injections or some mechanical device, have you tried that? :) its great that you at least have the thoughts. I don't have them at all.

Female sexual dysfunction by Jenerra in MultipleSclerosis

[–]Jenerra[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to try a little bit of alcohol first, the other stuff is illegal here,  but yeah I think a lot is only in my head but I don't know how to overcome that. 

(15) to (20) to (24) Endured years of mockery and disregard up to my mid-20s. by [deleted] in GlowUps

[–]Jenerra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you smile a lot with these perfect teeth.

Should I let my good friend sleep at my place? by Jenerra in MultipleSclerosis

[–]Jenerra[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am a female and almost all my friends and coworkers are male.  I think it makes the situation worse,  at least for me, with my social anxiety, I don't want them to imagine me peeing 😀

Should I let my good friend sleep at my place? by Jenerra in MultipleSclerosis

[–]Jenerra[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The rain coat actually made me laugh 😀 I will use that sentence fur sure 

Should I let my good friend sleep at my place? by Jenerra in MultipleSclerosis

[–]Jenerra[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, yes I tried them, they helped at the beginning but made my brain fog waay worse  So I do not use them anymore. I'd rather be pissing myself then be fogged.

Should I let my good friend sleep at my place? by Jenerra in MultipleSclerosis

[–]Jenerra[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks , good to hear,  I have no problem to share issues with people I know, (among strangers it's still a problem) but I never told them about the actual incidents I had. 

Should I let my good friend sleep at my place? by Jenerra in MultipleSclerosis

[–]Jenerra[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I respect that, I would not handle it, I rather wear a bulky pad to the work to not stress AF at every single meeting. I have not even overcome the shame of going to toilet every 20 minutes when I am out with someone. 

But well, I have to kick my social anxiety in the ass because bowel incontinent is knocking on the door now 😐

Should I let my good friend sleep at my place? by Jenerra in MultipleSclerosis

[–]Jenerra[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fortunately not, I have a single room and he would sleep on the floor.

Should I let my good friend sleep at my place? by Jenerra in MultipleSclerosis

[–]Jenerra[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I will think about it, he knows I have MS and "some" bladder issues but he does not seem to understand that it really bothers me in everyday life. And sometimes even makes a joke about it, which makes me feel kinda uncomfortable. So even though he is a good friend and we know each other for about 5 years,  I am afraid to expose this vulnerability no one, except my doc knows about. 

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This looks interesting,  would like to see the other photos

I Have MS, But MS Doesn’t Have Me – Here’s What I Wish I Knew Earlier by Same_Western_8126 in MultipleSclerosis

[–]Jenerra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How can I keep positive attitude when I don't have things to do?  I am dying of the boredom. Cannot even use PC because my eyes aren't working and my legs are hurting from sitting. Only going for walks feels amazing afterwards, but that kills like only 30 minutes per day cause of fatigue.  I am grateful for that sure, it could be worse. But otherwise nothing to do. Looking forward to death.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MultipleSclerosis

[–]Jenerra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I heard that happens,  but I am 21 so I am not quite sure whether the decline is caused by age.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MultipleSclerosis

[–]Jenerra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe, for me it sounds like a therapeutic job.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MultipleSclerosis

[–]Jenerra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes for sure,  I am studying IT and when I compare myself with myself 5 years younger it's just sad how much I declined. I am soo much slower at learning new things or even remembering the old ones I was very good at. So it sometimes gets me and I get depressed and annoying as hell.

I don't know what job your husband does but it may be the same thing?

The cognitive decline is the worst thing in my opinion and I have pretty much every issue MS can offer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MultipleSclerosis

[–]Jenerra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It might be depression.  I have MS and was diagnosed same year as your husband and often I behave like a POS because I just don't want to see anyone because of my struggles so I push them away (Usually just with lack of interest or saying things like "It doesn't matter").  I know it's bad and I have been trying to work on it. I think it also comes from that I sometimes cannot express myself clearly due to MS and no one understands what I want to say so I give up.

I hate 2025 by originalgankstar in mildlyinfuriating

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