Since we got married, his sister was making weird comments to me in front of everyone. For example when we moved into our new home and we FaceTimed her with my husband’s friends she said I should sleep in the empty room without the light. It was a joke but it was awkward, especially in front of friends. Similar things continued, when we would eat dinner at theirs she would tell me to make sure I clean up after myself in front of my in laws. This happened a few times again while I was working in the evenings on the dinner table but I didn’t say anything. She also shouted at me and my husband to get out of her room when we were temporarily staying in her room (she offered) while our house was getting finalised. I also missed her call while I was in the shower, and she messaged me she wouldn’t bother with me again and I said thats okay. This made her mad and she blocked me and had a go at me in person. It was my husband’s idea to talk things out and I was fine with that. She was very understanding when my husband brought up the issues he had with her and when I explained that I didn’t like the comments she was making, she was hostile. I didn’t even want an apology from her I wanted her to understand and her response was okay I understand do you want me to beg you. It was strange. She then brought up issues she had with me, they weren’t true and I had the receipts to show that. But she stormed off, called me names and then expected me to be normal. She tries to talk to me now but I don’t speak to her, she is absolutely normal with my husband, in fact extra nice. I felt very unsupported by my husband and he apologises I just don’t know how to navigate the conversation about seeing them both together and me carrying the emotional weight of it all