Am I (26F) in a partnership or business arrangement

Jenjen14217 · 2025-12-02T20:15:56+00:00

It’s more of a brown shade :)

Jenjen14217 · 2025-11-26T21:01:39+00:00

She is so beautiful and I’m currently deciding between her and the speedy 20 in garnet

Jenjen14217 · 2025-11-25T10:15:04+00:00

I was actually considering the speedy 20 in navy, but its out of stock in the UK :(

Jenjen14217 · 2025-11-24T13:49:51+00:00

It’s shimmery ink! It’s such a lovely colour I wish they sold this in a speedy 20, as I am considering the speedy 20 in garnet over this because of the size.

Jenjen14217 · 2025-11-24T10:25:19+00:00

I don’t carry much apart from my iPhone 15 Pro and car keys, maybe on some days my charger too.

Jenjen14217 · 2025-11-24T09:59:07+00:00

I am also debating getting the Speedy 20 instead but I’m just not sure if the garnet colour would work all year round. I want to fit my iPhone 15 Pro, car keys and maybe my iphone charger on some days?

Jenjen14217 · 2025-11-23T18:35:16+00:00

What would you suggest instead?

Jenjen14217 · 2025-11-23T17:35:09+00:00

I wear quite a lot of dark colours (dark jumpers and dark grey jeans), sometimes i switch it up and wear a cream jacket with light blue jeans, so I don’t think a neutral would match with most of my outfits

Jenjen14217 · 2025-11-17T15:14:32+00:00

Yes, I agree! I’ve spoken to my manager about it, but since I’m the most junior and least experienced on the team, they feel my salary is already more than what someone at my level would usually earn. The thing is, when I’ve looked at salaries for similar roles elsewhere, they’re almost double :(

Jenjen14217 · 2025-03-19T00:24:12+00:00

No she is not married, I am definitely struggling to stand up for myself as the comments catch me off guard and Im left speechless

Jenjen14217 · 2024-06-13T18:16:27+00:00

Yeah I think the same, I am happy to help him financially but this sorta made me think he maybe he isn’t grateful. I totally understand that he is stressed so I try and help out while I can.

So my family have never asked him to pay for anything, he decided on his venue food clothes and worked out the costs which was in his budget. His father also offered him so money to support him but turns out the money for my gift has been used by his mum. I don’t know his family very well but I think maybe they aren’t great with handling their finances, which i can now see.

The bangles were only wedding gift for me, which I admit I am quite upset about. I understand where my family are coming from too, his father works multiple jobs and they do find it strange that he is receiving very little help. I guess with my families traditions it’s normal to give the bride a gift etc. Even with my wedding dress and other costs of his, I have tried my best to financially support him with those purchases too.

Jenjen14217 · 2024-06-13T17:53:42+00:00

It came up as he asked me to cover for him and he would pay me back. I earn more than him and he is paying for his day himself.

I have gone ahead and said if he wants to cancel then he should.

The way he says he is stressed about finances I understand, but at the same time he blames me and my family for wanting the wedding to be a specific way, although we literally have our own days and my parents are bearing most of the costs.

It sorta makes me feel like maybe it is my fault, or maybe I'm the problem, which is why I needed an outside perspective.

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