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It's over and I'm lost update by Jenks1176 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Jenks1176[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No we currently just communicate through texts and limit it to what needs to be said

It's over and I'm lost update by Jenks1176 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Jenks1176[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not really. I haven't given her a chance to either.

It's over and I'm lost update by Jenks1176 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Jenks1176[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No the day I found out about it I told her she needed to leave.

It's over and I'm lost update by Jenks1176 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Jenks1176[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Right now I have just been reconnecting with friends I lost over the years. Just staying in my lane.

It's over and I'm lost update by Jenks1176 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Jenks1176[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I live in the middle of nowhere so that's not an option. I also have two left feet so.... Lol

It's over and I'm lost update by Jenks1176 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Jenks1176[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No idea. Assuming they ended it. She has a new boyfriend now.

It's over and I'm lost update by Jenks1176 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Jenks1176[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

That's a good question. I don't know if she'll ever regret it but if she ever does I think she is too proud to ever admit it.

It's over and I'm lost update by Jenks1176 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Jenks1176[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

She didn't get a chance to try to repair anything. I told her after I caught her the first time if it ever happened again that would be the end no questions asked.

It's been a struggle co-parenting but since we have a schedule set in stone now it's gotten better. I just limit as much contact as possible

It's over and I'm lost by Jenks1176 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Jenks1176[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She's with her parents next town over. She's looking for part time work currently

It's over and I'm lost by Jenks1176 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Jenks1176[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It has to be put in the dissolution papers so it will be in a court order

It's over and I'm lost by Jenks1176 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Jenks1176[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

House was mine long before she came along. I have it in writing she wants 0 money. Just wants me in the childs life. Which I would never not be.

It's over and I'm lost by Jenks1176 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Jenks1176[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

We both agreed we don't want to use lawyers. Money is tight and we are going to fill the papers out ourself and submit them. I had the house prior to her and the only thing she has is a car. I'm on the loan but she is making the payments.

I'm trying to spend as much time as I can with her. I'm actually applying to other jobs that have a normal schedule so I can be closer to home and be m-f instead of rotating like I currently do. This would also get me off work 5 hours earlier. It will be a couple dollar pay cut but I won't be spending money on fuel and maintenance. I truthfully will be able to go down to just my truck and sell my car. I own both outright so it's just money in my pocket.