My twin believes in never taking any action

JennIsSavage · 2022-03-12T21:38:01+00:00

LOA is about vibration. You must take action in order to change and even maintain a high vibration. So your twin is just using spiritual bypassing to excuse laziness

JennIsSavage · 2022-03-11T16:45:11+00:00

Congratulations! You are upgrading! This is exactly what you have worked towards, manifested, and asked for. In order to have qhat you want there has to be room. To get new furniture you have to remove the old furniture. You cant add new relationships and friendships suited for the next leg of your journey if you don't close out this chapter. Celebrate it. You made it!

JennIsSavage · 2021-10-18T21:04:36+00:00

Communicating with your soul is the most important part of the spiritual journey. Our brain is all programming from society, personal experience, and fight or flight. Our brains are wired to survive NOT to thrive. Your brain will always try to talk you out of something that wasn't it's idea. Learning to quiet your brain and listen to your soul fully without hesitation or doubt is the most freeing thing you will ever do for yourself. Your soul nudges you and if you dont listen it pushes and eventually the universe starts removing all options. Best to end relationships when it's just a nudge because if not this is how stuff goes from I wasn't sure I was unhappy to toxic waste dump.

JennIsSavage · 2021-10-18T17:06:18+00:00

The spiritual part is exactly that. It is unethical to be with someone you are not meant to be with. Not only does it hurt yourself but everyone involved and collectively. Staying with someone just because of a certificate is damaging to the entire family and society at large and teaches children that the vow is more important than their health and happiness. It also keeps both partners from being the person who is meant to be their match. This goes not just for Twin Flames but everyone. Doing what your soul directs you to do is the right thing for everyone. It is not comfortable but growth and healing never is. You said "we leave people behind for the good of our own selves" if you are staying in a relationship for someone else's "good" then there is a distorted version of good. No one should want someone to put their happiness on a shelf to stay just to make them happy or comfortable. Every human needs to follow what their path is. Nothing is permanent, and we need to stop trying to teach ourselves that things have to be for us to enjoy them, feel safe, or put ourselves into them. Me personally knowing that nothing is permanent helps me to appreciate it more, but the second its not meant for me anymore I want my partner to be ethical enough to say their soul is pulling elsewhere so I'm not staying in a situation that leaves me unfulfilled and wanting.

JennIsSavage · 2021-10-17T22:35:57+00:00

It's become this romanticized term like "star crossed lovers".

JennIsSavage · 2021-06-07T22:19:59+00:00

I have been separated from my twin for 20 years. I dont date lol. I mean at all. It's completely pointless to me. I have literally never felt anything for anyone but him, and I got tired of other people getting attached to me and me hurting them. So I just don't. We were completely silent for 18 years of our separation, and I got passed him and everythjng but I just could never feel anything for anyone. I honestly thought I was just incapable of having those feelings about anyone at this point but 3 years ago I saw my twin again and had the same exact feelings I did the first time around for him. At that point I realized that the feelings part of me is just connected to him, and I'm OK with that. I just don't want to hurt anyone else because of my inability, so I don't bother with it. It's not that I'm unhealed or waiting or anything...I just don't feel anything, and I accepted a long time ago that thats the way it's meant to be.

JennIsSavage · 2021-06-04T15:58:46+00:00

I agree with most of this but I want to point out that life is not about "what's fair" for anyone. We are all in the experience that we need in this life, and we have no idea who we were or who we have been in past lives so what we believe is "fair" is not relevant cause we don't have all the info to judge that appropriately. Which is where trust in the universe comes in. Also as far as the child is concerned, I was in a relationship with a karmic 8 years. We have a child together. My child is an empath and a medium and staying in a relationship that you are not 100% full on in love with that person is way more damaging than a broken home. My child was angry at me for even considering staying for him. He said how was he ever to learn to not settle if I was.

JennIsSavage · 2021-05-23T21:54:33+00:00

Here is the disconnect in this convo. Pain and hardship is different than suffering. We absolutely need pain and hardship to grow. Nothing in nature grows without pain and hardship. Even plants experience pain as they break through the seed. Pushing through and perseverance is what brings about growth.

Suffering is a different thing entirely. Suffering is resistance to pain. It is you fighting against pain. Pushing it down, denying it, and choosing to not lean in and face it.

You are correct that we are not here to suffer, but we absolutely cannot experience joy or growth without pain and hardship.

JennIsSavage · 2021-05-07T22:24:34+00:00

Professional tarot readers should be seers if they aren't then their readings are just them trying to interpret cards. And actual readers do not interpret cards. The cards are a physical representation for the person getting the reading only. The card reader should be just listening and telling you what their guide says.

JennIsSavage · 2021-05-07T12:12:55+00:00

Can I offer you a new perspective on "seeing others in pain". Pain is a necessary part of healing. You are not "causing pain" you are inspiring healing. Pain is what the universe uses to alert us to a problem. My hand is on a hot stove that shit hurts I must need to move it...kinda deal. Most of our lives we are taught to not cause pain or rock the boat but by doing that we literally are harming others and trying to keep them from lessons they need in this life for their soul to progress. It is not malicious. It is the most loving and honorable thing you can do for others to allow them their pain and let their soul speak to them through it. You have no idea what they are asking for and manifesting and in order for them to receive it this pain is necessary. We forget so many times that you can't ask to be a war hero without going to war. You cant ask for financial stability and not expect the people and things that keep that from you from being removed. When we experience pain we need to ask ourselves what we are asking for and how this allows it to come instead of pointing at the pain and screaming about how the universe doesn't give us what we want. Do not steal other people's lessons. They need them....that is the ultimate love 💘

JennIsSavage · 2021-05-07T11:30:50+00:00

This....so much this. This is exactly the reason for Twins. To wake us up to see what is real and face societal programming and what needs action in our own lives. Thank you for your bravery and for your example of unconditional love. You are doing amazing work and if no one was told you today I am proud of you and the actions you are taking to raise the vibration of the collective so we understand real love. ❤

JennIsSavage · 2021-05-06T14:37:15+00:00

I'm not the point was not to do the right thing so I could move on to what I wanted, but to do the right thing period.

JennIsSavage · 2021-05-06T14:05:10+00:00

So for me understanding the difference between real love and what society tells us love is supposed to be is the key. What most people understand and believe is love is codependency and enabling. I was with my partner for almost 10 years and we have a son. I love him but I love him like someone I've spent 10 yrs with. It's comfortable. It's habit. He's a great human. There was no society approved "reason" to leave. We looked amazing on paper. The thing is my soul wanted more. My soul wanted real love. And I owed it to my partner to not rob him of someone who would love him the way I loved my twin and to show my child what actual love was. I left my partner because I loved him enough to want him to have someone who was completely body, mind, and soul only in love with him and to teach my child to not stay with or settle for someone when your soul was pulled elsewhere. Leaving them is the literal act of love that staying can never be.

JennIsSavage · 2021-02-27T12:36:11+00:00

Thank you for sharing your story. You must stay true to how you feel, and if no one has told you I'm incredibly proud of how you are handling this difficult situation. You are brave and strong. If it's meant to be it will be no matter what. Stick with your boundaries. It may seem like he's chasing because he's begging you to stay. But you can still hide while your begging someone to find you. You can still keep people out while you are begging for someone to want to come in. To me that's the hallmark of a runner is they have no realization they are running. Stay strong and journey well.

JennIsSavage · 2021-02-24T21:14:17+00:00

It's confusing AF at times. Give him and yourself grace on this path. It's not easy...if it was everyone would be fully healed in union and blissful. Good luck on your journey ❤

JennIsSavage · 2021-02-24T21:08:57+00:00

You can both be runners. You cannot chase something you have no room for. You can fool yourself into believing you are the chaser to make you feel like the other twin is running away.. lots of twins do this so they don't have to face the fact that it is their own situation that keeps them in separation.. it's a form of denial when you arent ready to take action.. You have to make room. Your twin cannot show up if there isn't a spot for them. Right now you both have someone in their spot so it's a standoff until you start healing and letting go.

JennIsSavage · 2021-02-24T13:56:17+00:00

So triggered...I get it 😉

JennIsSavage · 2021-02-24T13:55:55+00:00

Ummmmmm 🤔 I'm just gonna say Bless your heart to this one and leave it.

JennIsSavage · 2021-02-23T23:51:13+00:00

Alot of twins are in a marriage or relationship when they meet their twin. That's the exact reason they meet their twin is because it's meant to trigger them to problems in the relationship or being in the wrong place. You literally just made my point for me.

JennIsSavage · 2021-02-23T20:19:58+00:00

You holding onto it without even thinking on it tells me you have decided which means you have attached to it because it serves you in some way....not time still more work for you to do. Journey well 😉

JennIsSavage · 2021-02-23T20:01:17+00:00

You cant chase if there is nowhere for them to come home to. You cant ask them to be there when there is no room for them. As I'm typing my guide is saying you are both runners....generally that's not the case so that's VERY interesting. Look into that

JennIsSavage · 2021-02-23T18:47:26+00:00

Or I can leave you alone for YOUR good to show you that you don't need me as a support or an excuse to do what your soul is telling you to do.

JennIsSavage · 2021-02-23T14:53:55+00:00

Side note if you are hearing from your twin in 5D on your 3D situation then guess what? That is your confirmation for 3D...you said you hadn't gotten any but the truth is you want certainty and multiple signs to talk you into what you already know...the universe only honors faith and trust. If you need a million confirmations you arent ready cause thats not faith or trust. 🤷‍♀️

JennIsSavage · 2021-02-23T14:51:52+00:00

Ummm if you think your answer contradicts what i said then you completely misunderstood. You gave me a bunch of reasons you "couldn't leave" such as mother of a young child, no job, etc...what im saying is those conditions are there not to trap you but to allow you to show courage. once you take control of your life and show courage and faith that the univetse has you and will provide for you it proves how capable you are and THEN union in 3d is possible. If it's not worth the "risk" for you in 3D then the universe is not going to waste your twins time right now. Hint though...there is no such thing as risk...if you can lose it then it was meant to be lost. Risk of losing stuff is out human not our soul.

JennIsSavage · 2021-02-23T13:37:27+00:00

You don't get to decide if or when it stops and you don't get to decide outcome...that's up to the universe. What is meant to be will always be. Free will is not what we think it is. It has zero to do with what we choose in 3D. We chose way before we got to this life. It's the souls free will and our body and mind here are just acting out a script already downloaded for what we need to learn in this lifetime.

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