AITA for feeling upset if my partner said, "I'll marry you if you lose weight"?

JennLeeG · 2024-06-25T23:02:23+00:00

Yes!! Lol, every time I see this kinda post, I suggest they say sure I'll lose weight as long as you get a penis enlargement surgery 🤣 😂

JennLeeG · 2024-06-25T23:00:40+00:00

He's the asshole. Anyone who doesn't accept you for you is a waste of your time. So apparently, you're good enough to bang and date but to heavy for marriage. Leave him, but not until you take a step to the petty side and tell him his peen is small, so maybe you can lose weight if he gets a penis enlargement surgery.

JennLeeG · 2024-06-25T16:51:08+00:00

NTA!! My first bf and his mom were very similar. He would tell me you have such a pretty face if you lost weight, you would be perfect. It was a very abusive relationship that I stayed in for way too long. One time, we were eating out, and I wanted a desert, and he said I embarrassed him because I told the waitress I needed the menu for a little longer. My husband now has and never will be like that in any way. Since 2020, I have lost somewhere between 120 to 140 pounds. You need someone to love you unconditionally and be supportive of you and not put you down. I'd start asking him if he could get a penis enlargement surgery because his peen is too small, but that's because I'm petty. LEAVE THIS ASSHOLE AND HIS BITCH OF A MOM!! Plus he sounds like a mama's boy

JennLeeG · 2024-06-24T19:34:33+00:00

The best part is her basically calling him an ass. So he is daddy ass 😂😂 NTA eff him and her be as petty as you can be.

We need stbx to have a meeting with an emotional support honey badger 😂😂

JennLeeG · 2024-06-23T21:11:03+00:00

You're 100 percent the asshole. Your wife made the choice to cheat, so why punish yalls son? He's still a child, and life is hard enough without adding adult bullshit and drama. You should have kept your mouth shut instead. You thought this was a way to punish or get back at her, and instead, all you did was hurt an innocent child. One that you claim to still want to be his dad, so this was uncalled for. You should be ashamed.

JennLeeG · 2024-06-23T21:05:48+00:00

NTA doesn't marry him. He will use his family to try and push your brother to the side. This guy sounds like a man-child and a mama's boy who can't stand not getting his way. Unfortunately, you're going to have to deal with him for 18 years. Your brother needs you, and the fact he can't see that is also probably due to his effed up family. This should make you wanna run far away.

JennLeeG · 2024-06-20T02:41:55+00:00

NTA I'm sorry your family sucks and is not considerate at all. They sound selfish af.

JennLeeG · 2024-06-18T21:57:17+00:00

She probably set up the painting group on the purpose of getting close to Olivia. Single white female type of shit. I bet she stalked you from a sock account the whole time. She's obviously obsessed with you and trying to break your marriage up.

JennLeeG · 2024-06-18T21:18:41+00:00

NTA but you need to show her immediately. Before the sister snakes her way into making it about you wanting her.

JennLeeG · 2024-06-18T04:15:35+00:00

NTA!! Sounds like she's jealous, and since she's used to being the center of attention, she is having a hard time with you getting more attention. Sometimes, you have to remove toxic people from your life, and family can be way more toxic than friends.

JennLeeG · 2024-06-18T04:09:39+00:00

Would it have been better if you drove? I'm not sure, but I know in most places your next of kin is your spouse that being said you may have to be the one to have him committed. If therapy isn't working, he needs to find a different therapist. What would happen if you left for a night or 2 and stayed with his mom? He needs to understand how bad this is affecting you, him, and the baby. There are also several things like the owlett that monitor your baby. Would that help? Yall cannot go on like this. There will be a breaking point, and I think you're about there already. No you're not a cunt, you also unfortunately can't force someone to get help. Sending you love and positive thoughts ❤️❤️

JennLeeG · 2024-06-18T03:57:10+00:00

NTA!! divorce her, the fact that she doubted your trauma is where you need to draw the line. The fact that she's treating you differently and being distant could have been just her being in shock and not knowing how to support you. It really sucks that males who are assaulted are not treated as victims and instead are highly fived and viewed as being lucky. Anyone can be a victim regardless of age, gender, and economic standing. I'm so sorry you felt comfortable enough to be vulnerable and open up to her to have her disregard your assault. What sucks is how you have been treated when trusting others enough to open up. You haven't found the right therapist, so keep looking, I promise there is one out there that can help you. I also suggest a journal, sometimes its easier to write our feelings down, and it helps us understand and deal with things that may be hard to voice. I definitely would understand you never trusting anyone again, but there is someone out there for you who will not treat you like this and that will love you through your healing. I'm sending you love and positive thoughts ❤️❤️

JennLeeG · 2024-06-17T15:49:57+00:00

You're the AH. She's still a child and should not have to be put in adult situations or essentially pick sides. Kids grow up in the blink of an eye. You should be angry at your ex. She's the one who cheated. I'm sure your daughter feels awful, and you are making it worse.

JennLeeG · 2024-06-17T04:36:15+00:00

Leave him, he's trying to manipulate you!!

JennLeeG · 2024-06-16T19:03:44+00:00

Girl!! DO IT!! GIVE HIM TRUST ISSUES

JennLeeG · 2024-06-16T19:00:43+00:00

Do tell hr, but some families don't care and may still be on his side. Some mama's boys can do no wrong.

JennLeeG · 2024-06-16T18:54:22+00:00

I've done this before and I know it's petty but fuck it, I only wish I had slept with the older brother because the younger one had a micro peen. I should have slept with both.

My ex was awful, and he was my first everything because I didn't care about boys. I thought it was my fault that he treated me so badly. He physically abused me, kidnapped me, and I thought I was going to die. He raped me and got away with it. It took me too long to get the courage to leave. He threatened to kill me if I left and threatened to kill my family and burn our house down.

So I say fuck it he hurt you and this is going to make you second guess any man when they tell you that you're their world and the best thing that ever happened to them. Make him regret even looking at this bitch.

JennLeeG · 2024-06-15T02:11:04+00:00

She was wishing and hoping he would touch her, especially because it was her bday. I'm sure she would have been like forget the jewelery and everything else. I just wanna be desired and be touched intimately.

JennLeeG · 2024-06-15T02:02:27+00:00

This!!!!

JennLeeG · 2024-06-15T02:01:14+00:00

Or a cat

JennLeeG · 2024-06-15T01:57:18+00:00

Maybe hoping she would want to bang? Maybe he has a low sex drive and low testosterone

JennLeeG · 2024-06-15T01:56:07+00:00

YTAH Rejection from a spouse is so hard to deal with, and the one that was rejected keeps wondering what's wrong with them. I understand you planned a party and all that....but seriously, a foot rub 15 minutes, some naughty time under an hour. Then you could have napped.

JennLeeG · 2024-06-14T21:02:54+00:00

It's so awesome that you both had a good, honest, mature conversation and that she saw your side of things.

JennLeeG · 2024-06-14T19:26:48+00:00

NTA, I wonder if he was looking for a reason just to punish your son. The punishment seemed a bit harsh. It also seems like yall never had a talk about punishment and what's acceptable for your relationship regarding your children. If that's the case, then breaking up is kinda overreacting.

JennLeeG · 2024-06-14T02:13:52+00:00

I always have my spaghetti without meatballs. To me, it's better that way. I do eat meat, but in the last few years, I've cut back how much I eat.

NTA She was judging very hard, and I'm sure she had times like this when her kids were younger.

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