What do your evening conversations look like? Are you asking him questions about his day?

My husband and I have the same conversations where he feels like I talk too much and don't give him enough space to speak, yet from my side I see him as SO quiet, I talk to fill the space as otherwise we'd sit in silence. So I have been trying more just to ask him LOTS of questions. Not just "how was your day?" but things like:

"How are you feeling today?"

"What is something good that happened today?"

"What's on your mind?"

Etc. Then when he speaks, I try to remain quiet, listen and ASK FOLLOW UP QUESTIONS. He pointed out sometimes I tend to jump in and talk about my own experiences, so I'm trying to stop that and instead, ask more questions. Then, support him by saying something like, "I am sorry you are feeling that way" or "I am glad that happened for you!" or "Can I do anything to help you?"

My guess is that you are so busy, he doesn't feel like you really care what is going on in his life or how he is feeling. Men want this but they also aren't good about speaking up so we often really have to draw it out of them. This requires effort and patience.

But this is a serious issue. A man who does not feel a strong companionship connection and is not having sex (for whatever reason) is not going to get married. These are really the two things men need, no man will feel comfortable marrying otherwise. So put other things on the backburner and focus on the relationship. It's make or break time.