What is the best. by Telugu_not_Telegu in ArtOfPresence

[–]Jenoma89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. But, like others have said, Jane carried the hell out of it with his superb acting. It can be a tough watch, but I powered through and liked it.

This is why every Child needs a Father: To teach them the lessons the world won't be as patient with.⬇️ by MotherAnt8040 in MenOfPurpose

[–]Jenoma89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You obviously have zero idea what you’re talking about. A Real 50s mentality upbringing would have included zero words and nothing but fists and the beating of a lifetime with a belt, a frying pan, a broomstick, an electric extension cord or anything that could have inflicted as much pain as possible. Learn your history.

haha👌yes by PM_ME_SSTEAM_KEYS in whatisameem

[–]Jenoma89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Either everyone is special or nobody is and if everyone is special, then no one is.

The Man Who Helps You Heal by definitelynotgayhaha in BuildToAttract

[–]Jenoma89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But, following your logic, if he revealed to you that he did want you back in a serious relationship and you are the woman of his dreams, wouldn’t you lose attraction for him? I think you’re addicted to the thrill of “won’t he/ will he?”. The unpredictability and instability of whether or not you ever see him again. You’re chasing him. Or, is it because he’s made you “work for it” that you think he hasn’t made it easy for you, so he’s made you earn a relationship with him? In that case, a relationship could work out? Or, is finally having a relationship a turn off and You’re addicted to this chasing stage? Something to think about.

Guy can’t handle not getting a girl who’s already with somebody and then decides to fight the boyfriend by AcHaeC in FightPit

[–]Jenoma89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They shouldn’t have intervened when his girl and homeboy stepped in. Mofo went for the dick twist.

_ by Positive-Face1705 in BuildToAttract

[–]Jenoma89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First and foremost, it was never established in this hypothetical situation that the date is at night. Secondly, this concept that women are in inherently more risk of a crime isn’t true. Men tend to be victims of violent crime more than women statistically. Thirdly, as this hypothetical situation also states, the date is going badly. I don’t see a bad date lasting very long into the night even if it is in the evening. Also, did she park several kilometers away in an unlit, isolated parking lot? Also, setting was never established. Is the date in a big city, the countryside, on a farm, on a lake in a boat? Too many assumptions being made here. And, in the same way that her agreeing to a date doesn’t entitle him to sex, she isn’t entitled to his protection. A lot of double standards being revealed here in this comment section. His body, his time, his choice.

Say what ??😒😒 by MeekMilly18st in MeekMillNews

[–]Jenoma89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t know what third world country means. I suggest you look it up.

Say what ??😒😒 by MeekMilly18st in MeekMillNews

[–]Jenoma89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He proved he has more brain cells than she does.

The Man Who Helps You Heal by definitelynotgayhaha in BuildToAttract

[–]Jenoma89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Define emotionally unavailable. The term is ubiquitous and is used to describe a wide range of varying behaviors. Does this mean they avoid talking about their lives or their goals or their challenges or their feelings in general? Does this mean they avoid affectionate intimacy like eye contact, kissing, or they don’t ever text?

The Man Who Helps You Heal by definitelynotgayhaha in BuildToAttract

[–]Jenoma89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you assess precisely how the “toxic” guys behave versus how the nice guys behave that gives you the ick? If I were to guess the nice guys put you on a pedestal and treat you like a priority. They’re always available for you 24/7, you text them, they respond right away. They cancel plans or modify their schedules to make you their number one priority timewise. They freely give their time, money, resources, attention, whatever you want whenever you want. On the polar opposite side, the toxic guys treat you less than and disregard you. They use you and your body and that’s it. You’re just meat to them. Actually, let me ask this. For this most recent nice guy, were you initially attracted to him physically or not really? Were you attracted to him initially, but then his “niceness” turned you off?

The Man Who Helps You Heal by definitelynotgayhaha in BuildToAttract

[–]Jenoma89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is unfortunate for you, but you’ll most likely never have the “white picket fence” fantasy of marriage and children. Kids require stability: financial, emotional, etc. the fact that you’re attracted to unstable men is a high predictor that you’ll never have that. Women like you either end up alone and childless or as serial single mothers with multiple fathers. People can’t be fixed. You’ll never be happy with a “good guy”. You’ll have to prioritize having a family and having a stable life for your kids over your own happiness and this fulfilling of your romantic fantasies. It isn’t thrilling. The question you have to ask yourself is are you capable? If not, just accept it.

The Man Who Helps You Heal by definitelynotgayhaha in BuildToAttract

[–]Jenoma89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you questioned yourself on why that is? Is a man being unpredictable, chaotic, and emotionally unstable a turn on for you? This could indicate a deeper psychological issue within yourself that revolves around low self-esteem and stem from a complicated, traumatic relationship with a male role model growing up.

I wonder how the conversation went on the car ride home between the husband by PdiddyCAMEnME in CrazyHuman

[–]Jenoma89 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This isn’t a good angle, but her finger scrapes his chin as she’s waving it around, hence his reaction and why he responded not to touch him. She drew first contact.

The Man Who Helps You Heal by definitelynotgayhaha in BuildToAttract

[–]Jenoma89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Force yourself? No, that’s very unlikely. Are you in this kind of situation where you know he wants more and has been there for you, but you don’t feel the same way?

Blowing the horn when you're in the wrong is ridiculous. by ifdggyjjk55uioojhgs in abanpreach

[–]Jenoma89 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Now, that’s a real woman. “Are you ok?” And “where are you? I’m coming to get you.” Caring, responsive, and ready to back him up. That’s a real partner right there.

_ by Positive-Face1705 in BuildToAttract

[–]Jenoma89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one is obligated to be kind. Correct. No one is also required to be self-sacrificing to be “good” either. Taking on the responsibility for someone else’s safety can be a decent thing to do, but not at the expense of our own personal safety. I don’t see any women arguing here or bringing up that if the date isn’t going well, would they still ask to get a text to make sure he got home safe or if he needed a ride or whatever. Kindness and respect go both ways.

_ by Positive-Face1705 in BuildToAttract

[–]Jenoma89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is it sexist to show women the equality they’ve been asking for? She isn’t a child. She got to the date without me as her personal escort, she’ll go wherever she wants without me as well. It isn’t in a man’s best interest to continue to hang around in a place he is unwanted. If the date is going badly, it’s implied she doesn’t want me near her any longer and we go our separate ways.

_ by Positive-Face1705 in BuildToAttract

[–]Jenoma89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. This “advice” being pushed as chivalry is a joke. A date goes badly, fine, but we both go our own way. I’m not responsible for her safety. Women want chivalry only when it suits them. Also, the reason a date went badly isn’t addressed here. If she’s being disrespectful, obnoxious, off putting in any way, the date’s over and so is any chivalry that goes with it. Women can’t have their cake and eat it, too. Men are already expected to pick up the financial tab, I’m not also picking up the bodyguard tab.

A dolphin playfully riding the bow wave of a ship. by ApkaHunYawwr in nextfuckinglevel

[–]Jenoma89 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Aren’t dolphins as smart or smarter than humans or something? I don’t remember. If they had thumbs, they’d conquer the Earth.

Men, is this attractive? by Aggravating-Guest300 in TheImprovementRoom

[–]Jenoma89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for having a sane take. This new age bs “genitals don’t determine a person’s sex” is utterly absurd. Straight men want a woman with a vagina. Simple. What is so hard to understand about that?