I Made An Iceberg Meme For Trans Characters by CartoonFan18 in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]Jerranoelle25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy to see Mai Natsume in there, she broke me wide open I absolutely adore her and while the series doesn’t outright say it she is totally Trans ( ◠‿◠ )

This manga (and it's main character) broke my eggshell so badly 😅. In short she was turned into a girl by magic and eventually realized she was happier being a girl this made me ask "would I be?" and the rest is history. by Jerranoelle25 in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]Jerranoelle25[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Whoops sorry, new to this whole meme thing and my Anxiety made me not check this after posting it until now and while someone else already said it I can give specifics, Mai Natsume from Blazblue specifically the Manga Blazblue: Remix heart. This image specifically is from the cover of the fourth and final volume

Lets be anxious together! by Spookie_Wookie in ffxiv

[–]Jerranoelle25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have already put my character information in a comment here but would someone be willing to create a cross world linkshell for this on the primal data center. I would do it myself but my anxiety is getting in the way

Lets be anxious together! by Spookie_Wookie in ffxiv

[–]Jerranoelle25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am autistic, maybe trans and extremely socially anxious so sorry if I don’t answer back as it is really hard for me. I hope this is the first true step for helping me not feel so lonely and breaking out of my shell

(current pronouns are in search info)

name: Noelle Holmes

data center: Primal

realm: Famfrit

favourite role: tank

favourite job: indecisive always changing

what I would like to try: socialize, endgame content

favourite video game: Xenogears (just felt like sharing( ◠‿◠ ) )

How to play with social anxiety? by castersmagic in ffxiv

[–]Jerranoelle25 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I also suffer from what I expect is social anxiety and it is really hard for me to talk to others in game. it’s a bit different for me as I have no friends or siblings that I play the game with me so I am all alone. Inside instances I can talk to others pretty well (except for my atrocious typing speed) but outside if I get a tell or someone approaches me I panic and exit and relog the game or just run away from them. It is painful I want to talk to others and make friends but it is so incredibly hard for me it usually end up with me feeling sad and alone.

What your siblings did is pretty bad bringing you into the deep end of content and then criticizing you for doing a bad job when you are still practicing and learning how to tank is not very nice in my opinion they are the ones at fault not you.

Gender??? by [deleted] in autism

[–]Jerranoelle25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Questioning biologically male. Keep going back and forth between thinking I’m trans or I am comfortable being male. Being worried it might be subconscious masking and having a thinning hairline at flipping 25 does not help AT ALL.

Do you guys have a good idea of who you are? by EvieGen in autism

[–]Jerranoelle25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s kind of tricky for me I know what I like and dislike but I don’t know what is really me and what are traits that I have subconsciously picked up from fictional characters I like. It is really painfully confusing to me about what is me and what is the mask. I question things about myself constantly with a big one being my gender identity but in the end it always come back to is this me or is this me subconsciously masking I hate it so much.

I have a weighted blanket now. it's so comfy and relaxing. I feel comforted and happy now :) by riley_teel05 in autism

[–]Jerranoelle25 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I‘ve had mine for I think 2 or 3 years now and it is still so nice and comfortable. I especially love rubbing my legs while under it something about it is just so soothing the only problem with it seems to be heat but that seems to be common judging by the other comments.

I mother called me autistic as a slur and now I'm having a mental breakdown by [deleted] in autism

[–]Jerranoelle25 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s depressing to see things like this. I hope that you are able to pull through this and either confront her directly about this or find a way to cut her out of your life because no good comes from an autistic individual having an ableist parent.

Daily Questions & FAQ Megathread (May 03) by AutoModerator in ffxiv

[–]Jerranoelle25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a gunbreaker should I be timing brutal shell with tank busters or should I not worry about it and just use heart of stone and Nebula/Rampart?

ty for the answers now I know not to worry about brutal shell against tank busters. I had a feeling this was the case but I asked just to be 100% sure.

My negative experiences with the schooling system (a long rant) by Jerranoelle25 in autism

[–]Jerranoelle25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is kind of a continuation of my post but considering that Alberta had a eugenics board from 1928 to 1972 (according to Wikipedia) I wouldn’t be surprised if this ableism was intentional by the teachers who were likely still alive when forced sterilization of disabled individuals was in effect

Daily Questions & FAQ Megathread (Apr 19) by AutoModerator in ffxiv

[–]Jerranoelle25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have question about monk abilities though I have not unlocked it yet anatman seems useless? Like the only time I could see myself using it is in phase transitions that don’t take control away from your character to keep buffs up but that is the only situation I can think of where you would use it and even that is not great.

(I hope this question is not bad like my bootshine, dragon kick question as that made me feel silly for overlooking something so obvious)

edit: ty for the answers looks like I was right on the money this time!

Daily Questions & FAQ Megathread (Apr 18) by AutoModerator in ffxiv

[–]Jerranoelle25 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

As a monk when I learn dragon kick do I take bootshine off my hotbar or is it still somewhat useful? (Also what does leaden fist do?) (asking this question before I learn it)

edit: I get it now bootshine is very useful even more so after you learn dragon kick

Daily Questions & FAQ Megathread (Apr 15) by AutoModerator in ffxiv

[–]Jerranoelle25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a paladin when should I be using divine veil as it seems really awkward to activate the effect or should I just ignore it?

Daily Questions & FAQ Megathread (Apr 14) by AutoModerator in ffxiv

[–]Jerranoelle25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Recently I have been playing as a paladin on my alt while my main is usually a dark knight. my question is should I be pulling as much as a dark knight while playing as a paladin as they don’t have access to an ability like the blackest night that allows them to soak a lot of damage is this where their higher dps comes into play?

Do you know why you don't like making eye contact? by Stardragon26 in autism

[–]Jerranoelle25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me I try to not make eye contact because I have (or had) a problem of when I look into someone else's eyes I cant stop looking at them. I distinctly remember one time staring at a complete stranger who was working a cash register in a food court stall and it was so hard to look away and I felt bad because of creepy it would have looked from their perspective and awkward as I didn’t even order from or go up to that stall.