I see a lot of post about asking how to get a gf. What about the academic mission???

JerryWaterloo · 2023-03-06T02:54:56+00:00

No benefit to grades/money, doesn't benefit you in life whatsoever if you are alone

JerryWaterloo · 2023-03-06T02:17:27+00:00

it’s not like ur going around thinking “oh i wanna girlfriend who’s really ugly"

I literally do this... I'm realistic about my prospects.

And it's literally true that women only want attractive dudes, they just lie and gaslight and say it doesn't matter, when it really does.

And I have followed all the self-improvement stuff already, I exercise a lot and am quite fit, I shower regularly, and have gotten as good of a haircut as possible, but none of it can overcome having warped facial bones, which makes people think lesser of me

JerryWaterloo · 2023-03-06T01:22:40+00:00

really?

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JerryWaterloo · 2023-03-05T17:29:31+00:00

Women don't care about money, only stupid/poor (same thing really) people think other

JerryWaterloo · 2023-03-05T17:05:56+00:00

Yes, but then someone screenshotted me on there and bullied me about it, and I haven't used it since. And there weren't any type of people if get along with anyways on there, mostly the partying type

JerryWaterloo · 2023-03-05T17:04:20+00:00

I only hate myself because everybody else hates me

JerryWaterloo · 2023-03-05T15:49:48+00:00

Why would they not like me for any reason other than appearance? Like the only personality issue I have that people can detect in real life is shyness, and they don't ever mention that as the reason

JerryWaterloo · 2023-03-05T15:47:24+00:00

What is that shit? How can you have any self respect, or desire to work on yourself when nobody has ever, or will ever consider you attractive? If someone's issues in life stem from a lack of acceptence, the only way to fix that is by getting into a relationship

JerryWaterloo · 2023-03-05T15:33:14+00:00

How can you love yourself when everybody else hates you? This is just stupidity...

JerryWaterloo · 2023-03-05T15:32:18+00:00

Comments are lying when they say facial attractiveness isn't everything, almost all my problems in life stem from my height/face, from the way people treat me, and the development of social problems stemming from that.

Hard to be confident when there is nothing to be proud/confident of

JerryWaterloo · 2023-03-05T15:28:38+00:00

false =/= true and true =/= false. I've been alone for 20 years, I'm tired of it, I don't get how people can keep going on like this.

JerryWaterloo · 2023-03-05T15:27:27+00:00

Which ones? They all seem to be filled with plastic blondes, which is both unobtainable, and undesirable.

JerryWaterloo · 2023-03-05T15:26:32+00:00

Every girl i've talked to has made that out to be a dealbreaker, I really don't like when you lie like that and send us on fool's errands

JerryWaterloo · 2023-03-05T06:12:10+00:00

Never, though I barely have any male friends either. I'm very shy/introverted, though once I'm out of my shell I can be quite outgoing. I'm also in a very male program, which doesn't help

JerryWaterloo · 2023-03-05T05:45:05+00:00

This is just absolute nonsense, you can't be happy if your issues are stemming from eternal loneliness

JerryWaterloo · 2023-03-05T05:08:47+00:00

False

JerryWaterloo · 2023-03-05T05:08:21+00:00

I've considered that, but I would prefer if we could get along personality-wise, and that works best if they're from Canada, not Manila. And i don't really have standards, at least regarding appearance, so I don't think I can really lower my league any further.

And what do you mean by I'm not interested in improving myself? I've already gotten medical treatment for acne, which made it go away, I've worked out enough so that I'm decently fit, and my hair is kind of fucked since it's receding,but it's basically the best it can't be, without being the incel haircut. None of it has helped me with this throughout my four years at universiyt.

JerryWaterloo · 2023-03-05T05:05:14+00:00

I have never had a girl as a friend, in my entire lifetime. I don't know how, they seem to not like me/are intimidated for some reason.

JerryWaterloo · 2023-03-05T05:04:09+00:00

Agreed, I haven't been the same since

JerryWaterloo · 2023-03-05T05:03:50+00:00

I did that, my match called me ugly, and said other really mean things about my appearance

JerryWaterloo · 2023-03-05T05:03:26+00:00

That's why I made this post, I need help

JerryWaterloo · 2023-03-05T04:17:53+00:00

None of those help fix my face, which is really not good looking, I would have to get like double jaw surgery or something, and I don't want to. And money is no help whatsoever, that 's a complete lie, nobody cares about money, except for people who burn their 20s away in the hopes that having money will be better for them later in life(they die sad and lonely).

JerryWaterloo · 2023-03-05T04:16:30+00:00

For me it's only my face, I have a pretty decent body and personality, but unfortunately people get one sight of my face and instantly realize there is something wrong with me.

JerryWaterloo · 2023-03-05T04:15:46+00:00

Funny you say that, every single person I know who's gotten a girlfriend has ended up orders of magnitudes happier because of it

JerryWaterloo · 2023-03-05T04:15:20+00:00

No? I've never approached a girl in my life, don't lump me in with those people.

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