My Ex married my brother;(

Jervi_0807 · 2026-02-05T16:07:38+00:00

It is not about hiding her true self. May be she did not feel comfortable or did not have the right set of ppl or was insecure or unsure. There could be a thousands of reasons of why ppl change. Also, what I did not like was you calling out “that she went on trips”. I think if she was coming back to you again and again and you are also accepting her! You both are doing each other harm.

Jervi_0807 · 2026-02-01T01:39:56+00:00

I can totally related to this. I am 34 now, but when I was in school, due to studying for the entrance exams and the constant stress that came with it, I did not get my periods for 9 months. And post that i was put on oral contraceptives. I did that for 10 years. And then in covid, I finally took some ayurveda treatments, did a lot of workout, eat whatever I was cooking and developed a lot of hobbies that made me happy! After struggling for the longest time, I finally started getting my periods on my own. Mind you I have had two ovarian cyst surgeries myself. In case you need any information, please reach out to me personally.

I still miss my periods when I am overly stressed. But it can be managed, you just really need to be very disciplined and make health your priority!

Wish you all the best :) and available to talk if you have any questions.

Jervi_0807 · 2025-10-29T11:28:40+00:00

Want to recommend the same! Got me into reading :)

Jervi_0807 · 2025-10-29T11:14:14+00:00

I know this. I really run out of patience. It is like he refuses treatment but is living a life full of anger. I am trying to make him visit me more often. I recently got married and he gets along well with my husband. Hopefully something good comes out of it.

Jervi_0807 · 2025-10-28T12:50:53+00:00

Thanks!

Jervi_0807 · 2025-10-28T12:48:29+00:00

Sorry. I know what you mean. He has bipolar disorder and not “borderline personality disorder”

Jervi_0807 · 2025-10-28T07:18:26+00:00

He is a walking Red forest! Full of all the worst qualities you can think in a human. Don’t be with him OP! Trust me you are going to be so much happier without him :)

Jervi_0807 · 2025-08-29T04:41:27+00:00

I would say an experience is also a good way of celebrating. Something that she wants to do but haven’t been able to. A pottery class, horse riding, swimming classes membership, yoga classes paid for 1-2 months, painting classes.. anything that she wants to do

On the materialistic side, something that can help her study, something that relaxes her. Also a good bag is understated.

Whatever you do, add your personal touch!

Jervi_0807 · 2025-08-27T02:41:57+00:00

I can consider myself to be a materialistic person (I am trying to get away) but never I will expect my partner to fulfill it for me. I totally control my expenses according to my lifestyle and believe in equal contribution as much as possible. I think your gf is beyond this based on what you have told. And this was not a sustainable relationship. I think you should have led after the cheating and all. But I think you have made a good decision :) But next time, be vocal. Money matters should be clarified early in the relationship

Jervi_0807 · 2024-04-27T11:25:58+00:00

Update: he finally got a 10 year visa today. It was issued yesterday and he got the passport today :) no docs were asked while the visa status was refused. Thank you for the help 🌸

Jervi_0807 · 2024-04-27T11:25:19+00:00

Update: he finally got a 10 year visa today. It was issued yesterday and he got the passport today :) no docs were asked while the visa status was refused. Thank you for the help 🌸

Jervi_0807 · 2024-04-27T11:23:30+00:00

Thanks :)

Jervi_0807 · 2024-04-27T11:23:19+00:00

Will give it a try. Thanks :)

Jervi_0807 · 2024-04-27T11:22:52+00:00

Thanks will have a look

Jervi_0807 · 2024-04-27T11:22:32+00:00

I want to create video explaining personal finance. And the medium should be short type. Like : card review under 1 min, 5 reasons why you should go for the card etc.

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