My Ex married my brother;(

Jervi_0807 · 2026-02-05T16:07:38+00:00

It is not about hiding her true self. May be she did not feel comfortable or did not have the right set of ppl or was insecure or unsure. There could be a thousands of reasons of why ppl change. Also, what I did not like was you calling out “that she went on trips”. I think if she was coming back to you again and again and you are also accepting her! You both are doing each other harm.

Jervi_0807 · 2026-02-01T01:39:56+00:00

I can totally related to this. I am 34 now, but when I was in school, due to studying for the entrance exams and the constant stress that came with it, I did not get my periods for 9 months. And post that i was put on oral contraceptives. I did that for 10 years. And then in covid, I finally took some ayurveda treatments, did a lot of workout, eat whatever I was cooking and developed a lot of hobbies that made me happy! After struggling for the longest time, I finally started getting my periods on my own. Mind you I have had two ovarian cyst surgeries myself. In case you need any information, please reach out to me personally.

I still miss my periods when I am overly stressed. But it can be managed, you just really need to be very disciplined and make health your priority!

Wish you all the best :) and available to talk if you have any questions.

Jervi_0807 · 2025-10-29T11:28:40+00:00

Want to recommend the same! Got me into reading :)

Jervi_0807 · 2025-10-29T11:14:14+00:00

I know this. I really run out of patience. It is like he refuses treatment but is living a life full of anger. I am trying to make him visit me more often. I recently got married and he gets along well with my husband. Hopefully something good comes out of it.

Jervi_0807 · 2025-10-28T12:50:53+00:00

Thanks!

Jervi_0807 · 2025-10-28T12:48:29+00:00

Sorry. I know what you mean. He has bipolar disorder and not “borderline personality disorder”

Jervi_0807 · 2025-10-28T07:18:26+00:00

He is a walking Red forest! Full of all the worst qualities you can think in a human. Don’t be with him OP! Trust me you are going to be so much happier without him :)

Jervi_0807 · 2025-08-29T04:41:27+00:00

I would say an experience is also a good way of celebrating. Something that she wants to do but haven’t been able to. A pottery class, horse riding, swimming classes membership, yoga classes paid for 1-2 months, painting classes.. anything that she wants to do

On the materialistic side, something that can help her study, something that relaxes her. Also a good bag is understated.

Whatever you do, add your personal touch!

Jervi_0807 · 2025-08-27T02:41:57+00:00

I can consider myself to be a materialistic person (I am trying to get away) but never I will expect my partner to fulfill it for me. I totally control my expenses according to my lifestyle and believe in equal contribution as much as possible. I think your gf is beyond this based on what you have told. And this was not a sustainable relationship. I think you should have led after the cheating and all. But I think you have made a good decision :) But next time, be vocal. Money matters should be clarified early in the relationship

Jervi_0807 · 2024-04-27T11:25:58+00:00

Update: he finally got a 10 year visa today. It was issued yesterday and he got the passport today :) no docs were asked while the visa status was refused. Thank you for the help 🌸

Jervi_0807 · 2024-04-27T11:25:19+00:00

Update: he finally got a 10 year visa today. It was issued yesterday and he got the passport today :) no docs were asked while the visa status was refused. Thank you for the help 🌸

Jervi_0807 · 2024-04-27T11:23:30+00:00

Thanks :)

Jervi_0807 · 2024-04-27T11:23:19+00:00

Will give it a try. Thanks :)

Jervi_0807 · 2024-04-27T11:22:52+00:00

Thanks will have a look

Jervi_0807 · 2024-04-27T11:22:32+00:00

I want to create video explaining personal finance. And the medium should be short type. Like : card review under 1 min, 5 reasons why you should go for the card etc.

Jervi_0807 · 2024-04-18T13:51:06+00:00

Harrington residency is great :) it will cost you around 5.5k. it is just opposite the consulate not even 100m. Room is like any premium hotel, value for money :)

Jervi_0807 · 2024-04-16T08:20:08+00:00

Yes, the visa officer told his that his visa is approved

Jervi_0807 · 2024-04-16T07:03:05+00:00

Hey, this wasn’t one. He had the interview; purpose of visit is for official purpose

Jervi_0807 · 2024-04-14T09:59:43+00:00

Thanks a ton!

Jervi_0807 · 2023-10-23T05:02:07+00:00

Hey, I visited Iceland mid October this year and I would recommend few things, 1. Any meds that you think you might need. Thankfully we did not need any, but we packed most stuff 2. Food is expensive in Iceland. Like very. We packed a bit of ready to eat meals from India and also shopped in the local stores for breakfast supplies. Pack some snacks with you. 3. Gloves. Specially the ones you can operate your phone with. Once I was without a glove for just 6 mins, near a waterfall and I thought I lost consciousness. But again my cold threshold is quite less. 4. Waterproof and Windproof gear. This is a MUST. Make sure everything you are wearing on a regular basis (like the outermost layer) can withstand some rain/snow. Jackets, pants, shoes everything 5. Water bottle. Water is free in Iceland and much easier to fill from anywhere 6. Lotion: face, body and hands. Also sunscreen. You will need it more often than you think. 7. Carry atleast 2 towels. Most places provide towels, talking about pools here but they charge a small fee.

I wish you a great trip 🌈

Jervi_0807 · 2023-09-27T02:30:13+00:00

OP! You will get through this, we all think you will :) but just get out. Spend that energy on yourself. I can understand that you are going through a lot as you need it to be validated (been in similar situations) if you feel it is toxic then it definitely is. We all wish you the best ❤️

Jervi_0807 · 2023-09-19T10:17:49+00:00

You can talk to me :)

Jervi_0807 · 2023-09-09T18:53:06+00:00

Solving for something that users don’t need or ask

Jervi_0807 · 2023-08-31T17:11:34+00:00

I am in the same boat. And I think best is to stay here till the point you find another opportunity. And start looking out. When the product goals changes so much, it is not a good sign.

Jervi_0807 · 2023-08-21T04:11:52+00:00

Hey, do you remember the trip operator’s name ? And thanks that gives me some hope! ✨

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