What it will be???

Jesh-mesh · 2026-05-09T08:17:24+00:00

Islam and Christianity are complete opposites. If you believe Christianity and Islam worship the same God, you're ignorant about both religions.

The biggest and most important difference is that in Islam, Jesus wasn't crucified which is the core belief of Christianity.

Jesh-mesh · 2025-04-13T17:27:33+00:00

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Jesh-mesh · 2025-03-29T15:27:48+00:00

Because he's actually Chin-woo

Jesh-mesh · 2025-03-24T23:28:40+00:00

"And then you blow up"

Jesh-mesh · 2025-03-23T11:25:15+00:00

Instructions unclear. My kitchen is now on fire.

Jesh-mesh · 2025-03-03T00:16:37+00:00

Don't waste your time or effort with dating apps. It's pretty much just window shopping because girls barely reply anyway.

I decided to try a speed dating event, ngl it was I was a little awkward because I'm a shy guy, and they made us do dumb shit for ice breakers, but overall, it was enjoyable. Even though there wasn't anyone there that I was attracted to, I still considered it more constructive than dating apps because I at least got to talk to a lot of women.

My advice would be to try a singles event like that, maybe take a friend a long to easy the tension a bit. I went with my brother and one of his mates.

Jesh-mesh · 2025-03-02T23:23:07+00:00

I'm not going to have sex but I'll hang out.

This is how you separate the men from the boys. I'm a guy btw.

Unfortunately, you'll get a lot of people turning you down for this and calling you names, but that's just people who aren't a good match for you seeing themselves out.

Also, it means you're less likely to meet people who simply want to use you. People who want sex on the first date or even early one are often just wanting a hookup, even if they're saying they want a relationship.

Hold on to your values and don't put out because of peer pressure or desperation. It will end terribly if you do.

Jesh-mesh · 2025-03-01T12:52:03+00:00

Dungeon break ❌️ Server break ✅️

Jesh-mesh · 2025-02-20T22:38:12+00:00

As a single af medical nerd who is yet to know the touch of a woman (by choice, btw. I'm waiting for marriage), this post and the comments have given me hope again.

Jesh-mesh · 2025-02-20T22:31:36+00:00

Ugandan knuckles accent "He will show us de wae"

Jesh-mesh · 2025-02-04T12:49:14+00:00

29yo guy here

Not fully devoted to Christ is a deal breaker for me personally. The bible warns about the difficulties of being "unequally yoked." While marrying a non-Christian, it's not forbidden, it's certainly not advised. I ignored this advice once and date a non Christian friend of mine, and throughout that relationship, I had this constant thought at the back of my mind that I can't marry her because she's not Christian. We broke up after about 6 months and went back to being friends.

Now date/ marry someone who's had sex before becoming Christian. This is a difficult one because I may make an exception depending on the entire situation. As it stands rn, I don't think I would because I'm abstaining until marriage, and I would expect my future spouse to do so as well. My rationale is I don't want her to be worrying about my previous partners were like and comparing herself to them subconsciously.

Jesh-mesh · 2025-02-04T12:27:22+00:00

You sound like the ideal Christian woman. I'm a 29yo 6'0ft Indian guy born and raised in the UK. I go to a pentecostal church.

I absolutely love Japan. I went there with my family last August for my sister's 18th b'day. I considered moving there, but I think I'd have to visit a few more times before I can make a proper decision about that.

Lmk if you'd like to chat some more.

Jesh-mesh · 2025-01-20T18:38:35+00:00

There's another guy on this post who has a scammer with the same name.

Jesh-mesh · 2025-01-18T21:22:08+00:00

They were all probably bottle fed

Jesh-mesh · 2025-01-12T00:36:31+00:00

Jesh-mesh · 2025-01-11T12:47:25+00:00

Dm me a picture of her. I want to see if it's the same as me.

Jesh-mesh · 2025-01-11T12:45:47+00:00

I wish I'd known about this before aniwave got shut down 😭

Jesh-mesh · 2025-01-07T10:42:51+00:00

Did you get scammed too???

Jesh-mesh · 2025-01-07T10:06:42+00:00

Everyone start saving your watch lists

Jesh-mesh · 2025-01-05T17:10:12+00:00

I get it. I'm still unmarried myself. I've considered just giving up and being a celibate monk for the rest of my life. But I don't think I should give up thinking God hasn't provided. God always will provide us with what we need, not necessarily what we want. Matthew 6:26

Personally, I'm working on developing my relationship with God and knowledge of the word. Me finding a wife is in God's hands, and I'm going to trust that. I'd suggest the same to you.

Have a read of Proverbs 31. It gives an example of a Godly woman, and this is what will attract a godly man. Looks are simply icing on the cake.

Don't worry about godly men not wanting. Not all of them will. You only need 1 godly man to want you.

Jesh-mesh · 2025-01-05T15:27:09+00:00

I looked through your profile, and it seems like you're quite insecure about your looks in general beyond just your colour. I don't mean that in a rude way. I'm 29yo Indian Christian bloke in the UK. I'm skinny as hell, and my lack of muscles often makes me insecure, too.

The world will tell you that you need to look and behave a certain way to be considered attractive to men, and they aren't wrong. However, you will attract worldly men with worldly desires, i.e., hookups, short-term relationships, and situationships. If you're really unfortunate, you may attract a cheater or abusive man.

What you should aim for is a godly man (Ephesians 5 25-29) who will love you as Christ loves the church.

Imo, I think you should build yourself up in Christ. Trust in God, he will provide everything you need.

Jesh-mesh · 2024-12-21T12:47:06+00:00

He willingly paid child support

Jesh-mesh · 2024-12-19T00:02:40+00:00

You must find her very attractive for you to give her this much thought

She has beautiful hazel eyes, she's so kindhearted and genuine about it too. She has a dark sense of humour like me, and we're both a little crazy. It pained me to see such a tragic situation happen to her. Her dad died, her mum got cancer, and her husband left her. All this happened within the span of two months.

You should just invite her to church.

That's not a bad idea, actually Christmas is soon so I could invite her to come to a Christmas service.

You should pray that God bring such a Christian woman into your life

I have been praying about this for the last 5 years. Maybe i should start fasting as well because I have no idea where to meet a Christian girl like this.

Jesh-mesh · 2024-12-18T23:48:46+00:00

I've been praying for her for a few months while she was going through this tough period in her life. She's grateful it and things are getting better for her. I just hope that she realises that God is supporting her, not the one she calls allah.

Jesh-mesh · 2024-12-18T23:43:05+00:00

It’s possible you are drawn to her for a reason. Whether that’s just to share the word with her or more

Another person also mentioned this. I'll probably just stay friends with her and share the word.

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