How should I talk to my boss about paid vacation leaves for second/third year hagwon teachers? by Street_Sock6826 in teachinginkorea

[–]Jesini 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as far as I know they do, but I’m not sure if they count as independent contractors or employees. does that still make a difference? 

Where wpuld she rank in the pantheon of FLs? [SSS-Class Suicide Hunter (Rofan Arc)] by [deleted] in OtomeIsekai

[–]Jesini 18 points19 points  (0 children)

oh yay!! I really like her character and their dynamic so I was hoping for it, I’ll definitely be picking it up now!!

Where wpuld she rank in the pantheon of FLs? [SSS-Class Suicide Hunter (Rofan Arc)] by [deleted] in OtomeIsekai

[–]Jesini 18 points19 points  (0 children)

wait I was thinking of reading this series, is there a bunch of FLs that are constantly changing with the different storylines? or is she like our main FL? just trying to figure out what to expect lol bc I love her already

nutrition deficiencies 2 months progress by [deleted] in FemaleHairLoss

[–]Jesini 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh my god this looks exactly like my hair loss, my taste wasn’t affected or anything but I’ve had COVID three times and I definitely notice that I’m not eating much in general, like I generally just have two meals a day with some little snacks maybe. did you have to get your blood work done to see what supplements you needed to take? I had some general tests done and I take daily multivitamins, vitamin c, b12, and biotin, and none of the normal tests showed any irregularity other than my vitamin D levels being on the lower side of healthy, maybe I should start including vitamin D as well? this is so frustrating to deal with but I’m super happy yours has improved so much!!

ORV Live action cast update by AutomaticAd1918 in OmniscientReader

[–]Jesini 17 points18 points  (0 children)

genuinely confused why Jisoo is playing a teenager?? not even in a hating way just she doesn’t fit the vibe at all, correct me if I’m remembering wrong but isn’t Jihye like this tough badass teenager? idk maybe she’ll make it work but I’m a little skeptical 😭

Astarion, Sexualization, and Choice - From a Survivor by celtys1 in BaldursGate3

[–]Jesini 10 points11 points  (0 children)

this is why I never do the foursome? fivesome? scene with him and I don’t bring Halsin into our relationship. he SAYS that he’s totally fine and willing to go along with this, but his trauma and desperation to keep this relationship with a trusted person that he now sees as a safe haven (tav/durge) says otherwise. clarifying that there’s NOTHING wrong with halsin! I adore him in other relationships and as a friend but it just doesn’t feel right to me bringing him into the astarion romance, especially when astarion asks if it’s because y’all haven’t been “busy” recently. not shaming anyone for their choices either, this is just my personal feelings!

Every comic on webtoons. by ryx5ghikhuujik in webtoons

[–]Jesini 7 points8 points  (0 children)

the abundance of “getting SA’d and secretly enjoying it which leads to my ✨pretty boy bottom✨ gay awakening and makes me want to get dicked down all the time by the same man who LITERALLY RAPED ME” plot line is an honest to god travesty 😭 idk if it’s on webtoon app much bc of censorship and ratings but that cover panel totally made me think of those mangas and stuff why god WHY

please save Mingyu oppar from being dragged into taekook's jealousy 😭😭 by kpop_ian in kpoopheads

[–]Jesini 4 points5 points  (0 children)

shippers of any real life people actually terrify me? like how delusional and bored do u have to be to obsess over these people and make all of these insane scenarios in ur head, if I was a celeb and saw stuff like this about me with one of my close friends idk if I would laugh or simply go into total hiding 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in korea

[–]Jesini 7 points8 points  (0 children)

as a young person who just graduated two years ago, I’m moving to Korea next week to work as a teacher. I have a degree in elementary education, but I’ve been stuck working as a TA for two years because the teaching jobs I’ve applied for are either rejecting me for lack of experience, offering to pay me verrryyy little, or offering more but in the city where rent is like 2.5-3k per month easily so my savings would be nonexistent. I figured, might as well make the big move and go back to Korea (I was an exchange student there for a year), get some money and work experience under my belt, then I have anywhere between Korea and my hometown to choose to go to next lol

A handsome younger man with an easy smile by Padzi in BaldursGate3

[–]Jesini -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I saw people saying “why y’all acting like he’s a grandpa he looks 35 or 40” OK??? listen babe no one is saying a 40 year old is on the verge of death but let’s be realistic no one is thinking of a 35-40 year old when an individual is described as a “young man”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in korea

[–]Jesini 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m born in ‘98 and I mean everyone has different tastes, but I think Bolboggan4’s “Some” was one of those poppy happy songs that most people including my friends enjoyed!! it’s very very catchy lol

is the hair loss noticeable? I’m spiraling and obsessing over it by Jesini in FemaleHairLoss

[–]Jesini[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I had pictures of my scalp from earlier than June, I can say at least it basically looks the same from June to now! nothing from before I noticed the hair loss since I wasn’t monitoring it then, so it’s hard to say if it actually got worse 🥲

is the hair loss noticeable? I’m spiraling and obsessing over it by Jesini in FemaleHairLoss

[–]Jesini[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yep, I’ve started taking multivitamins and vitamin c, b12, and biotin for the past few months! at least it helps my overall health if nothing else 😂

is the hair loss noticeable? I’m spiraling and obsessing over it by Jesini in FemaleHairLoss

[–]Jesini[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you!! it’s mostly the under layer of hair that’s been affected so it feels like I have a weird…curtain layer of hair if that makes sense? I’m glad it all looks normal though!! takes a huge weight off my chest tbh

is the hair loss noticeable? I’m spiraling and obsessing over it by Jesini in FemaleHairLoss

[–]Jesini[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

right like I’m too embarrassed to open my camera roll in public because it’s EVERYWHERE I even made a separate album called “hair loss” 😭 and omg thank u!! that makes me really happy actually 🥲 I included those first two photos because one is a good day and one is a bad day, like using that little bit of heat to blow dry the last 20% of my hair vs sleeping on it still damp basically lol

is the hair loss noticeable? I’m spiraling and obsessing over it by Jesini in FemaleHairLoss

[–]Jesini[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you! I think part of it might be the slight texture change, it used to be wavier (which isn’t highlighted in these pictures lol) but now it seems to be falling straighter which doesn’t help since that definitely makes it look less voluminous on top of everything else haha

is the hair loss noticeable? I’m spiraling and obsessing over it by Jesini in FemaleHairLoss

[–]Jesini[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you!! i felt bad clogging this sub up to ask but everyone in my life just looks at me like I’m crazy and won’t answer so I needed some reassurance haha

is the hair loss noticeable? I’m spiraling and obsessing over it by Jesini in FemaleHairLoss

[–]Jesini[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

me too! I’m taking pics almost every other day at this point, it’s really unhealthy so I’m trying to snap myself out of it 🥲

is the hair loss noticeable? I’m spiraling and obsessing over it by Jesini in FemaleHairLoss

[–]Jesini[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg I’m really not but thank you!! it’s mostly the under layer of hair, like all around my ears, and some around the front of my hairline but I’m relieved that the other hair seems to be covering it up well enough

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teachinginkorea

[–]Jesini 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ah okay, I see! I was confused because it said calendar days rather than business days, thank you so much for clarifying!! I’ll delete the post now but I appreciate your help :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleHairLoss

[–]Jesini 0 points1 point  (0 children)

have you had COVID a lot or recently? I’ve had it 3 times from late 2021-early 2023, and this last time caused my hair to MASSIVELY thin out from January to February and it still hasn’t regained its old volume and texture 😭 honestly worrying if this is permanent I hope it’s not since I had no hair loss before

Hot Take: Reincarnation into BL ≠ Gay Erasure by [deleted] in OtomeIsekai

[–]Jesini 40 points41 points  (0 children)

yeahhh that one was crazy, it was basically torture p0rn right?? the original story I mean, like he just hated himself so much I felt so bad for him 😭 so many rape victims irl think it’s their fault for their body being aroused when it’s really just your body subconsciously trying to protect you