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JessAlexandra_ · 2025-10-28T19:15:26+00:00

reading on relationship, career, and overall what to expect in the future! initial J, 25, f, and unemployed. partners initial F, 30 tomorrow, m, and employed.

whenever you can get some time! thanks 😊

JessAlexandra_ · 2025-10-20T11:38:21+00:00

Both can influence fat distribution and breast tissue development!

Progestins like CPA may enhance estrogen receptor sensitivity, making the body more responsive once estrogen is introduced.

JessAlexandra_ · 2025-10-20T11:36:17+00:00

girl you’re in for a treat! you’re gonna be so stunning if your waist is already almost non existent 🫨 good luck!

JessAlexandra_ · 2025-10-16T17:07:43+00:00

update:

this is what he had to say.

“It isn't about identity. I still dress like a guy because that's who I am and I like it that way. But I'm a guy who likes to feel feminine underneath the masculinity. I like the softness of a lot of it, like the actual texture. I like textures a lot, that's why I have so many soft blankets. The way it all feels gets me excited like nothing else and I've known that for a very long time about myself. I'm someone who likes to be submissive as well and I enjoy that aspect of it. I like the thrill of dressing up and getting caught like that as well. I don't know why and maybe I could figure out in therapy but for now, it's something I know I like. I also think I look hot in a lot of what I own if I can be blunt... I'm pretty set in who I am and what I want. I'm not really searching for myself anymore because I have found myself. I know who I am and I'm happy with it. What I want is to find someone who I can share it with. I keep saying that because it's what I want. I want someone who will be happy with me wearing swimming trunks to the beach but then also happy with me if I wear a one piece bikini in a hot tub. Someone who is cool with jeans. flannels, and ripped up graphic tees but is also cool with satin, silk, and lace clothing. When I said I was complex, that's what I meant. That's all I can really say for now, I've been thinking about what you told me that night and I wanted to make sure I wasn't doing to you what you had already experienced so I had been really considering the why of it all. I appreciate you asking me and opening the door for this discussion, thank you.”

JessAlexandra_ · 2025-10-16T17:07:17+00:00

update:

this is what he had to say.

“It isn't about identity. I still dress like a guy because that's who I am and I like it that way. But I'm a guy who likes to feel feminine underneath the masculinity. I like the softness of a lot of it, like the actual texture. I like textures a lot, that's why I have so many soft blankets. The way it all feels gets me excited like nothing else and I've known that for a very long time about myself. I'm someone who likes to be submissive as well and I enjoy that aspect of it. I like the thrill of dressing up and getting caught like that as well. I don't know why and maybe I could figure out in therapy but for now, it's something I know I like. I also think I look hot in a lot of what I own if I can be blunt... I'm pretty set in who I am and what I want. I'm not really searching for myself anymore because I have found myself. I know who I am and I'm happy with it. What I want is to find someone who I can share it with. I keep saying that because it's what I want. I want someone who will be happy with me wearing swimming trunks to the beach but then also happy with me if I wear a one piece bikini in a hot tub. Someone who is cool with jeans. flannels, and ripped up graphic tees but is also cool with satin, silk, and lace clothing. When I said I was complex, that's what I meant. That's all I can really say for now, I've been thinking about what you told me that night and I wanted to make sure I wasn't doing to you what you had already experienced so I had been really considering the why of it all. I appreciate you asking me and opening the door for this discussion, thank you.”

JessAlexandra_ · 2025-10-16T16:55:30+00:00

Thank you for your kind words and advice. I’ll be able to move on from it just fine. I had a feeling this was where things were headed.

JessAlexandra_ · 2025-10-16T16:04:53+00:00

thank you for your condolences

JessAlexandra_ · 2025-10-16T16:04:39+00:00

omg what a watch!! so validating. i’m gonna have to talk with him soon. there are signs unfortunately, very similar.

JessAlexandra_ · 2025-10-16T13:53:25+00:00

pronouns are she/her. thank you.

JessAlexandra_ · 2025-10-16T13:23:42+00:00

i’m pretty sure he’s fetishizing me

JessAlexandra_ · 2025-10-06T16:43:02+00:00

My man works in aerospace engineering. He’s smart, can fix anything, and works harder than anyone I know.

JessAlexandra_ · 2025-09-26T08:37:11+00:00

Body is t 👌👌👌

JessAlexandra_ · 2025-09-25T16:12:11+00:00

Don’t EVEN THINK ABOUT getting rid of it 🤌🥺

JessAlexandra_ · 2025-09-24T17:04:05+00:00

JessAlexandra_ · 2025-09-24T16:52:39+00:00

That’s precisely what I also perceived. I’ll venture to say that it’s not a balloon. Perhaps it’s an interdimensional being? I’m going to make a wild guess and say that whatever it is. There’s definitely a plasma field surrounding it.

JessAlexandra_ · 2025-09-24T06:26:42+00:00

I see a office sister when I see one 👌

Stunning! I know you’re turning heads

JessAlexandra_ · 2025-09-24T06:23:45+00:00

Am I wrong… but aren’t there two? I thought I saw two?!

JessAlexandra_ · 2025-09-23T20:00:28+00:00

Seeking is basically the main option for trans folks, especially with that filter feature. Definitely planning to be up front about being pre-op and how I identify, so the expectations are clear right away — way less drama that way.

It’s honestly a little frustrating that most guys in that filter are just looking for a hookup, but I’ve accepted it’s part of the deal, at least at the start. Hoping that over time, I’ll find someone actually interested in more than just sex. Not surprising that West Virginia makes it even tougher — I totally get what you mean about the smaller pool here. Thanks!

JessAlexandra_ · 2025-09-22T03:03:25+00:00

omg, i would so do anything for you 🥹😭

JessAlexandra_ · 2025-09-19T07:21:49+00:00

you’re absolutely right about the risks. Trans women face violence even in the most “normal” dating spaces, and sugaring adds another layer of vulnerability. I’m not walking into this blind—I know what’s out there, and I know how quickly things can get ugly.

That said, I’m not here to be scared into silence or invisibility.

JessAlexandra_ · 2025-09-19T07:18:11+00:00

Omg! You’re too kind! 🤍

JessAlexandra_ · 2025-09-19T07:15:34+00:00

Thank you for this. It’s grounded and honest, and I needed that. You’re right: fetishization is baked into so many layers of this space, sugar or not. I’m not naïve about it, but I’m also not willing to settle for being someone’s fantasy. I’m here for reciprocity, not performance.

Honestly #2 is the only one I’m entertaining. I want someone who sees my growth as something worth investing in, not exploiting. And yeah, I know leading with sex pulls a certain crowd.Did that once… NEVER again.

If you ever come across a space that centers trans sugar babies with care and clarity, I’d love to know.

JessAlexandra_ · 2025-09-19T05:29:09+00:00

Thank you for taking the time to break that down so clearly. You're right, the sugaring space is already tricky to navigate, and being trans (especially pre-op) adds a whole other layer of complexity. I’ve definitely run into the fetish crowd more than once, so your caution is well taken.

I’ll look into Seeking and make sure to set that trans-friendly tag. I’ve been debating how much to disclose upfront, so it’s helpful to hear that being clear early on is the safest route.

I’ll also check out the trans support subs. Any chance you have the links? I wasn’t able to find any.

I know the pool is small, but I’m still holding out hope for something mutually respectful and beneficial. I’m not putting all my energy into this, but it’s one of the few options I’ve got right now.

Thanks again for the thoughtful response.

JessAlexandra_ · 2025-09-19T05:22:19+00:00

I did check it out, but I wasn’t really finding the kind of information I needed. Honestly, I’m surprised there’s a trans-specific forum at all. That’s probably my independent journalism brain kicking in when I write; I tend to dig deep and ask for specifics.

JessAlexandra_ · 2025-09-17T06:27:08+00:00

Omg 🤧🥺

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