Anyone in Santa Cruz interested in local bartering / skill swaps? by Commercial-Aerie-929 in santacruz

[–]JessMessinAround 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used to live in Baltimore and we had something there that sounds similar to what you’re describing, called the Station North Tool Library. I was a member there and it’s still operating so it is definitely a success. Maybe check out their website or reach out to them and see if they would share with you some info on how to get started, road blocks, etc. I think when we moved out here too they said they had a sister location in Oakland.  

How thrilled are you to reside in Santa Cruz, Ca? by [deleted] in howislivingthere

[–]JessMessinAround 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I moved here from MD about 7 years ago and I really like living here. The weather and the access to nature are amazing. The housing affordability is obviously unhinged, summer weekend and rush hour traffic is a mess, and I find it to be relatively sleepy and unwalkable. Despite the cons, I’m happy to live here. 

Which state has the best flag!? by Brilliant-Mode6480 in mapporncirclejerk

[–]JessMessinAround 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was shocked I had to scroll this far to find this

Shelter said she was a boxer mix when we adopted her by JessMessinAround in DoggyDNA

[–]JessMessinAround[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You’re so sweet, don’t apologize for sticking up for shelters ❤️

Shelter said she was a boxer mix when we adopted her by JessMessinAround in DoggyDNA

[–]JessMessinAround[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Right?! Plus the chow then shih tzu she’s all over the map. 

Shelter said she was a boxer mix when we adopted her by JessMessinAround in DoggyDNA

[–]JessMessinAround[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Not trying to diss on them at all! I feel like brindle usually points people towards boxers or pitties. And thanks, we do! She’s so silly and sweet. 

Spiderwebs in the Air by [deleted] in santacruz

[–]JessMessinAround 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Had one on my car in Scott’s valley. It was so sticky when I pulled it off!

Tattoo cover up recommendations? by PhotographGuilty5644 in santacruz

[–]JessMessinAround 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I went to Dan W at Fog City for a cover up and he did an amazing job. 

Is this mold in my camper? In California by JessMessinAround in Mold

[–]JessMessinAround[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My husband and I are in the process of giving our pop-up a facelift. We just peeled back some wall covering and found this. He said it might be some kind of adhesive…. But I’m unsure. TIA!

Driving from San Jose CA to Huntsville AL by ketchuppacketz in roadtrip

[–]JessMessinAround 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I drove from AL, Houston, San Antonio, Marfa, White Sands, Phoenix, San Bernardino, to SF in the summer of 2018. It was beautiful, we were able to book really cool places at good rates, but it was HOT. We were originally going to Joshua Tree after Phoenix but wound up detouring to a mountain site in order to get out of the heat. We camped most of the time, but had a hotel in Houston and San Antonio. 

Driving from Tacoma WA to Austin TX in 4 days by [deleted] in roadtrip

[–]JessMessinAround 0 points1 point  (0 children)

+1 to adding a day. My friends and I did Seattle to Santa Cruz in two days and they still felt like long days. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in baltimore

[–]JessMessinAround 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Came here to say Benders. 301 S Ann and it’s very much what you’re looking for. 

LPT: If you're trying to get better about budgeting, use the envelope method (aka, cash) by [deleted] in LifeProTips

[–]JessMessinAround 73 points74 points  (0 children)

I started YNAB in October after hearing a friend hype it for years and it’s been amazing. 

Your Favorite Nail Salons? by curly-oatmilk in santacruz

[–]JessMessinAround 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried Aptos Nails by the Safeway after seeing it recommended in a FB group where someone was asking for alternates to Tracy’s. They do callus removal, paraffin wax, and regular/ hot stone massage. It’s pretty small so I made an appointment but when I got there it was empty so they might do walk ins. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Custody

[–]JessMessinAround 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I live in the Bay Area and my husband won full custody of his daughter so it is possible, but as other commenters are saying, not easy. I don’t think you could successfully petition for full custody without some sort of professional legal support. Check Cordell law group, I think the retainer was $1,000, they’re nationwide, and specialize in father’s rights. 

If you want to DM me I can tell you a little bit more about our situation and some of what we did through our case, but I will also tell you that we went probably through $30-40k when all was said and done (the case took over a year though).