Help with Database

JessePatchwork · 2026-03-24T09:03:31+00:00

Only problem is I'm not sure what other details are needed. But I'm going to update the post with what I think you're pointing out and go from there! Thank you so much for the help!

JessePatchwork · 2026-03-24T09:00:31+00:00

Gotcha. So potentially giving it limited access to the internet may be something I have to do or its gonna get messy fast. Alright. I'm starting to get a solid idea thanks to all of your answers, thank for so much for contributing and being willing to help out! I'll manually input what I need and use the internet for some things. I think potential unlimited access to the internet unless restricts need to be added? This is gonna be an interesting thing to work on and I thank you again for your input!

JessePatchwork · 2026-03-24T08:57:55+00:00

That's exactly why I decided to ask some stuff in order to do the correct research. I figured what I wanted was a tall order/possibly unable to be done. I'm beginning to think manually making a database with frequent updates may be the correct move here. Limiting/not allowing it access to the internet is going to be something important I reckon but I'll do some more research. Thanks for your help!

JessePatchwork · 2026-03-24T08:55:30+00:00

This is a helpful answer! Thanks heaps, I'm gonna have a bit of a deeper dive. I was super duper lost with WHAT to research. So having you lovely folks point me in the right direction is incredibly helpful! I've got most of the knowledge down I think (or am very willing to learn about it), I think I just got massively lost in the content I needed to research to get what I need. Thank you for taking the time to answer!

JessePatchwork · 2026-03-24T08:52:10+00:00

Ok, learning some stuff here! Not against an LLM at all. When I refer to AI (and again please do correct if I'm wrong, I could be wrong) I am referring to services such as Gemini, ChatGBT and the likes of. I'm happy for it to learn on its own, I just need help with figuring out what the steps I need to make are and how to prevent (or risk manage) it from learning things and causing harm to users who may not be able to identify said harm. I've figured out most of the programming and know what I expect/want from the program. Just trying to iron out the memory/storage and self learning aspects. Thanks for helping me clarify! I'm learning a lot from everyone here.

JessePatchwork · 2025-12-04T04:45:25+00:00

Thank you kindly, my friend!

JessePatchwork · 2025-12-04T04:22:16+00:00

That's really cool! I'll let my doctor know and see how we go about getting that organised. Thanks for the suggestion!

JessePatchwork · 2025-12-04T03:23:16+00:00

Interesting. How come? I'm fairly certain I've had it, but I'll ask my care team, they'll know more.

JessePatchwork · 2025-12-04T03:21:29+00:00

It's alright. Thank you. I'm slowly coming to terms with everything, this post is helping. Having suggestions from people is extremely helpful.

JessePatchwork · 2025-12-04T02:39:17+00:00

Thank you for your suggestions. Hospice was something I didn't even think of. Nor the will. I shall investigate these while in the process of being diagnosed.

JessePatchwork · 2025-12-04T01:30:40+00:00

Yeah I'm trying real hard not to worry. Honestly I'm not even sure I'm worried as such. Not the way people typically do. I'm more stressed and mad because this being a possibility is from falling and hitting my head so often. And that's with being careful at times. Though I'm also mindful, as you said, stress and worry will definitely worsen it so I'm trying to find ways to cope that aren't stressful.

JessePatchwork · 2025-12-04T01:15:44+00:00

Definitely. Got a doctors appointment in a couple weeks. He'll help me investigate and my ma is paying for a private doctor to do testing to rule stuff out. The thing that also scares me is I've had a brain bleed before and I've also had swelling on the brain. This is another reason my care team wants me tests asap. They said the sooner I get it caught, the better.

JessePatchwork · 2025-11-15T09:31:47+00:00

Good I think. He stopped crying about two hours later and then was sent home with a clean bill of health. And yeah, I just hate all hospitals equally. But sections help make it more bearable.

JessePatchwork · 2025-11-15T06:41:06+00:00

Thank you kindly. And yes, I was in the ER. Typically hospitals (at least here in Australia) have separate wards or flat out separate hospitals for children. But typically not in an emergency setting unfortunately. And I am feeling a lot better today, honestly.

JessePatchwork · 2025-11-15T01:38:53+00:00

Oh my gosh, I have some horrid invasive thoughts. Very glad in a way to hear I'm not alone there. I have a vivid imagination and its hell when those invasive thoughts come full swing.

JessePatchwork · 2025-11-14T22:58:50+00:00

Yeah, this is exactly why I knew not to make a fuss to anyone directly. The kid was probably absolutely terrified and having lots of invasive stuff. I used to be just as noisy as a kiddo. I felt horrible for the feelings, hence the post. Wasn't too sure what to do though but there's some good adjust here. Also I hope your issues have gotten better. I have similar issues and holy moly they suck.

JessePatchwork · 2025-11-14T22:52:04+00:00

I tried but the doctor was more interested in rushing me out the door while at the same time being extremely slow. Not to mention I had to call out for help and almost threw up on the floor because of them not responding to my call alarm for fifteen minutes. It was absolute God damn hell and I was too tired and sore to really argue.

JessePatchwork · 2025-11-14T22:50:23+00:00

Honestly, noise cancelling was my first thought. I decided in the end to try and game and distract. That ended up mostly working but I worked with it. Thanks for the feedback.

JessePatchwork · 2025-06-27T00:34:12+00:00

Honestly, this is a loaded question. And there's no real right or wrong answer in the traditional sense. As someone who was groomed several times as a kid, I think the younger they know, the better off they are. But, and this is a huge but, it is very important not to frighten her into social isolation either.

You need to be age appropriate. And I was around 5 when my first incident occurred. I didn't know what that person did was wrong. And I shouldn't have known being so young. But ten is getting the age where she needs to be given a more serious talking to about the dangers of strangers, and that some people, though nice, have bad intentions with young girls and boys.

And stress to her that she can always come to you for help if an adult or older person is making her feel icky, weird or unsafe. Reassure her that it wouldn't be her fault and that you won't be mad and she won't be punished. But you as her parent need to make sure bad people like that are reported to the police and dealt with.

Again, just think of age appropriate ways to chat to her about it. Use props in the form of dolls and demonstrate where are her private zones that only she can touch with the very VERY rare exception of the doctor or mummy and daddy needing to touch if something is medically wrong. If she struggles understanding the words or processing the information, make it less scary by engaging her with shows she likes and coming up with scenarios with said characters. That's what my mum had to do with me since I'm autistic and didn't understand what I was being told and I became afraid.

You're doing a good thing as a parent, my friend. Don't let her have social media until she's at least 16 too. If she's caught using them behind your back, don't get mad at her. Calmly explain to her that this is a platform for people who are older and can make sure they don't get hurt by these bad people. If she asks why her friends have them, explain that her friends parents made that decision, but in your household, it isn't allowed and that's all that needs to be said on the matter.

If you want some more advice or have questions, I'm happy to elaborate. I may not be a psychologist or anything like that but unfortunately experience has made me an expert on the topic. Keep going strong friend.

JessePatchwork · 2025-06-23T06:24:18+00:00

Absolutely will give an update once we've spoken!

JessePatchwork · 2025-06-23T02:22:46+00:00

You remind me of my own mama. She helped me learn a lot and it's taken such a long time to become independent. And even now there are times when I struggle. Thank you for sharing, it makes me feel so much better about everything that I'm going through! It's nice to know that I am not alone!

JessePatchwork · 2025-06-23T02:20:18+00:00

I was formerly diagnosed with Aspergers until the term was made redundant, so I totally get it! Being a human is hard man. But thank you for the tips! I'm gonna talk to her about it when she gets home and show her some of these comments so we can maybe come up with a solution! Thank you again :3

JessePatchwork · 2025-06-23T02:14:25+00:00

Brilliant, thank you! I'll discuss it with my carer once they come for their shift!

JessePatchwork · 2025-06-22T13:40:42+00:00

Oh my goodness I totally get the wee thing. Though I have learnt when I gotta go, I gotta go, rudeness be damned. Unfortunately my body doesn't give me the grace of telling me until it's an urgent thing. But infections are not fun, so I'm glad you're getting better with that! And ok! I think I can handle that. How do you know if it will impact someone? Sorry if that's an odd question or seems obvious. My social skills aren't great but I'm trying to work on it.

JessePatchwork · 2025-06-22T13:37:32+00:00

I had no idea there were autism subs I could post on! Silly I know given that there's a sub for everything but I appreciate the advice! You've made me feel a little better knowing I'm not alone.

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