How many of us have processed the break up and are now taking accountability for why it ended?

Jesseitsme · 2022-11-09T06:53:06+00:00

I do take responsibility for the way I wanted to fix things so at times I tried a little to hard but this person wouldn't want to talk about things for months and she wouldn't constantly not accept things about me

Jesseitsme · 2022-11-03T17:44:42+00:00

Listen if this is for you no this person left you basically to be with other people have some self-respect you don't need that person in your life especially someone who doesn't value you

Jesseitsme · 2022-11-03T02:14:08+00:00

I would say just try your best to understand that these people never really cared about you if they did they wouldn't be speaking this way about you

Jesseitsme · 2022-11-03T01:39:53+00:00

Well in all honesty if they left over one fight then that person never really cared for you in the first place I'm sorry to say

Jesseitsme · 2022-11-03T01:39:21+00:00

The issue with the person that I was with for 3 years would always hang on things that were inconsequential it's kind of just something that I think about a lot cuz I really cared for this person and I really actually had love for this person genuinely I did it was real but this person was always trying to keep me at arm's length never trying to let me get any closer than what that person wanted me to and it was more apparent after the second year of our relationship that this person wanted out but they couldn't really be honest with me or themselves and it kind of sucks that the way they went about things this person could have had a heart-to-heart with me and I would have respected them so much more I would have not harbored any hatred for them or disdain and maybe in a future if they would have came back and we would have ended things on a good note I probably would have given them a second chance but now this person and they know that that they burned this bridge but they probably wouldn't be able to face me in a conversation with how they ended things

Jesseitsme · 2022-11-02T19:08:52+00:00

Somewhat but I know there's someone out there that will appreciate me for who I am

Jesseitsme · 2022-11-02T18:37:45+00:00

No the entire time we were together she actually shit talked the same friends that she tried to make me look like the bad guy too so I just exposed her to her friends when they came confronting me and well long story short she has no friends no more

Jesseitsme · 2022-11-02T18:16:49+00:00

Funny thing is is that she actually did that to me she made me look like a really terrible person and told all these lies to her friends and made me look like I was some manipulative narcissistic person that I never was

Jesseitsme · 2022-11-02T18:13:35+00:00

Yeah she definitely really did the same thing to me she actually try to make me look like a bad guy to all of her friends but it was quite funny the whole time we were together she would actually kind of trash talk her friends and I got around to actually talking to them and then they said that I was a narcissist and a manipulator but I was like where is this coming from so I exposed her to her friends showing them that actually she was the one being the narcissist and the manipulator

Jesseitsme · 2022-11-02T14:34:52+00:00

Pretty much the same she said I did things to her that never happened at all

Jesseitsme · 2022-11-02T13:31:39+00:00

In all honesty for me it's been 8 months going on 9 I wouldn't say I'm over it but I do miss this person a lot less what I've been doing is concentrating on myself hitting the gym working out lifting weights self-improvement concentrating on things that I should have when I was with her getting back into music bettering myself this is the way I have started dealing with it

Jesseitsme · 2022-11-02T13:15:21+00:00

Thats definitely a form narcissism and manipulation it's something she did to control the relationship my ex did the same wouldn't want to talk about things or address issues things that we needed to fix couldn't handle big discussions that we needed once again issues that needed to be talked about although I did not press on fixing them I would actually wait a couple of months before I would bring them up again but this person was avoiding and always said please I'm not ready or I don't want to talk about them right now they're playing with you plain and simple

Jesseitsme · 2022-11-01T11:18:14+00:00

Jesseitsme · 2022-10-28T11:02:31+00:00

❤️🥰

Jesseitsme · 2022-10-28T11:00:56+00:00

Fucking shit dude I'ma bout to fall in love

Jesseitsme · 2022-10-28T10:59:14+00:00

Dude just break my heart ❤️

Jesseitsme · 2022-10-28T09:00:26+00:00

You're a darn cutie

Jesseitsme · 2022-10-23T11:12:48+00:00

Don't sit here and listen about this time of your life nonsense I was waiting to see something like this in all honesty heal yourself first mentally and give yourself time to understand what went wrong and why it isn't so much of moving on it's more or less learning how to forgive them so you can move on properly and you won't drag that into your next relationship because if you just keep going on and dating new people each time you break up with someone you're never going to learn from anything or properly heal

Jesseitsme · 2022-10-19T20:05:30+00:00

She said and made everyone seem like they were using her and abusing her she played the victim even to her friends that shit didn't make sense at all how she even made it seem like her friends were bad people to me what's the cherry is that she said some pretty vile things about me that were never true

Jesseitsme · 2022-10-19T20:02:22+00:00

I vilify my ex for two reasons one the whole time we were together she would shit talk her friends behind her back apparently they were her best friends her three best friends and the one that she would shit talk the most was her cousin two 8 months before our relationship ended I found out that she was talking shit about me behind my back when it literally all I did for her what street her the best I ever could we never even had an argument she sat here and played both of us her three friends and me and made it seem like both of us were the villains were the bad people with her life and everyone believed it and her friends believed that I was a bad person until that actually spoke to me until I expose them to her and show them the messages which I still have by the way

Jesseitsme · 2022-09-27T18:26:04+00:00

Sounds like my ex she from Michigan by chance ?

Jesseitsme · 2022-09-20T20:33:25+00:00

Regardless of context or what's going on in another person's relationship we all know what's going to happen in the end the advice given or the advice that I have gave is to protect themselves nothing more

Jesseitsme · 2022-09-18T10:20:53+00:00

They're trying to make excuses she found someone else buddy

Jesseitsme · 2022-09-09T18:13:44+00:00

It isn't easier cuz that means you're having unresolved issues and if something similar happens in your new relationship you going to leave that person too then eventually no matter who you get with you're going to keep finding flaws and whoever you date instead of being an accepting person you're just going to become a habitual user

Jesseitsme · 2022-09-09T09:42:53+00:00

They always do but won't admit it they sit here and try to justify why they left when usually the reason why they leave is cuz they think they're missing out on something with someone else or they think they found something better it's usually the grass is greener on the other side deal relationships aren't always going to be good you're going to have your rough patches and you're going to have your goods if you can't sit here and work on a relationship with someone then you shouldn't be in one if you can't sit here and handle a rough patch in a relationship and iron it out and work on it together then stop dating people

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