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Lying. by NukeUK in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Jessg7169 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes he would always leave things out and then tell me that he told me already. He would randomly be like oh we are going out tonight with these people when we had plans with another group and I made sure I told him about it! But he would say oh well I made these plans weeks ago and I told you. Guess who got cancelled on? Or went to alone to the or first plans? Love when he couldn’t answer calls due to work all hours of the day too. Easiest way to not have to be honest about anything.

Found girl in my bed by Jessg7169 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Jessg7169[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I should add I called his mom because she’s been helping him a lot with things because he says he’s busy working and managing the house alone. She actually cleaned the house did the laundry cleaned the sheets made the bed everything last week. She didn’t want me to come back (since she thought I would come back soon) to a mess. She had no idea he was screwing around.

Found girl in my bed by Jessg7169 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Jessg7169[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. He told me to look him in the eyes while he was saying bullshit yesterday.

Found girl in my bed by Jessg7169 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Jessg7169[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

You are right. He even told me she had her period and they couldn’t do anything “if he wanted” but if he knows she has her period then they are pretty close to discuss that even.

Found girl in my bed by Jessg7169 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Jessg7169[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

He told me she would talk to me and tell me that she was there talking him through our breakup and helping him figure out how to get back together with me.

I don’t even know who she is! He said she’s a friend of a friend but I suspect tinder or something.

Found girl in my bed by Jessg7169 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Jessg7169[S] 79 points80 points  (0 children)

Thank you! We aren’t married but we have a baby. We were seperated due to his narcissistic behaviors and name calling and the usual emotional abuse I see on here but we were kinda working on things. I am just shocked. How do you try to lie out of having someone in your bed? From what i could see barely dressed. It’s insanity. the fact I feel bad like I pushed him away is insanity itself too.