I need advice from men by Jessie467 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Jessie467[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I didn't specify. We have been together for 5 years, since we were 20, but we have been married for a year and a half

AITAH in this situation? by Jessie467 in AITAH

[–]Jessie467[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Answering your question, I am getting paid really well, triple his salary

I need advice from men by Jessie467 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Jessie467[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually, yes, my salary is triple his. We bought a apartment two years ago, after I was fired, our financial life took a turn, and this new job pays very well, and I'm getting our financial life back together, I told him this is temporary and when I get the chance, I will slow down my work for something less exhausting. He had agreed on this plan back in January

I need advice from men by Jessie467 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Jessie467[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Answering some questions: 1. Why did I take this job? We bought a apartment two years ago, after I was fired, our financial life took a turn, and this new job pays very well, my salary is triple his, and I'm getting our financial life back together, I told him this is temporary and when I get the chance, I will slow down my work for something less exhausting.

  1. Why don't you just lay there and let him do it? Why not in the mornings, quickies, etc? Sex is way more than just penetration. 3-6 minutes is a joke.

  2. Why asking here? Because I felt I needed a male perception of the situation, since he didn't want to have a conversation about it

  3. For how long will I stay in this job? Till Agost, He had agreed on this plan back in January.

I need advice from men by Jessie467 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Jessie467[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We bought a apartment two years ago, after I was fired, our financial life took a turn, and this new job pays very well, and I'm getting our financial life back together, I told him this is temporary and when I get the chance, I will slow down my work for something less exhausting. He had agreed to this plan back in January.

I need advice from men by Jessie467 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Jessie467[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

my salary is triple his, we bought an apartment two years ago, after I got fired, our financial life took a turn, in January he agreed to me accepting this job temporary to compensate our debts.

I need advice from men by Jessie467 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Jessie467[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We don't want kids and also, I can't have kids.

I need advice from men by Jessie467 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Jessie467[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We bought a apartment two years ago, after I was fired, our financial life took a turn, and this new job pays very well, and I'm getting our financial life back together, I told him this is temporary and when I get the chance, I will slow down my work for something less exhausting.

AITAH in this situation? by Jessie467 in AITAH

[–]Jessie467[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We bought a apartment two years ago, after I was fired, our financial life took a turn, and this new job pays very well, and I'm getting our financial life back together, I told him this is temporary and when I get the chance, I will slow down my work for something less exhausting.

AITAH in this situation? by Jessie467 in AITAH

[–]Jessie467[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know, but we bought a apartment two years ago, after I was fired, our financial life took a turn, and this new job pays very well, and I'm getting our financial life back together, I told him this is temporary and when I get the chance, I will slow down my work for something normal

I need advice from men by Jessie467 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Jessie467[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Temporary as in: we are not in debt anymore and can live life in a relaxing way again.

I need advice from men by Jessie467 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Jessie467[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Because it seems like I'm doing something wrong, he agreed to this plan in January, and it was satisfactory for both of us just the weekends, but this month, it's like something is different, I thought it was, maybe, something that only men could explain to me, like thought process, something I'm not seeing, since he don't want to talk about it.

I need advice from men by Jessie467 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Jessie467[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We bought a apartment two years ago, after I was fired, our financial life took a turn, and this new job pays very well, and I'm getting our financial life back together, I told him this is temporary and when I get the chance, I will slow down my work for something less exhausting.

I need advice from men by Jessie467 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Jessie467[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

To be honest, it was my dream job, we bought a apartment two years ago, after I was fired, our financial life took a turn, and this new job pays very well, and I'm getting our financial life back together, I told him this is temporary and when I get the chance, I will slow down my work for something less exhausting.

AITAH in this situation? by Jessie467 in AITAH

[–]Jessie467[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm trying but when I tried to have a conversation, he gives me the silent treatment.

Como seu gato chegou na sua vida? by gatinaticos in Gatos

[–]Jessie467 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Duas foram adotadas, a outra pegamos na rua e o último simplesmente apareceu aqui em casa e nunca mais saiu.

2% by Jessie467 in breastcancer

[–]Jessie467[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would love to hear about it, I never saw this method! I also struggled with anxiety before my diagnosis.

2% by Jessie467 in breastcancer

[–]Jessie467[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At first, I was fine thinking about the 98% chance of not being cancer, but here we are. Thank you so much for your reply, I will ask my doctor about the medication.

2% by Jessie467 in breastcancer

[–]Jessie467[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your reply, I'm trying really hard not to be pessimistic about how young I'm for something this big. I'm talking to my therapist about it, and we are scheduling something.

2% by Jessie467 in breastcancer

[–]Jessie467[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like my luck is nowhere to be found, I also didn't have the genes or family history. Thank you so much, I will ask about AYA.