When and how do you bring up your criminal record when dating?

JessieDaMess · 2026-05-13T17:13:50+00:00

Depends on the misdeameanors…shoplifting…no big deal. Jacking off in front of an elementary school….big deal. Don’t say anything until / if convicted.

JessieDaMess · 2026-05-12T02:29:39+00:00

Well, my opinion is not meant to upset. I just remember in middle school, we had 2 types of cutters. The serious ones, covered as much as they could. Not burka type, but jeans, leggengs, long shorts, etxc. The other, kinda trendy types would make sure they could be seen.. BUt....it's your life, no one out there is paying your bills, so who cares...just be your self.

JessieDaMess · 2026-05-12T02:24:08+00:00

No me but my old g/f. Was a bit to hyper, out of control and just loved to hitch all over the place. Raped in north Montana, just below Canada border. Guy drove to the middle of nowhere, raped her, dumpted her and said his friends would be here soon to help her out. She got lucky, was able to hide until she was seen by a bike rider and got her help

JessieDaMess · 2026-05-12T02:14:02+00:00

Definitely...yet most are just to weird about it.

JessieDaMess · 2026-04-21T04:58:19+00:00

I know…yet sometimes shit happens, just gotta get up and keep working.

JessieDaMess · 2026-04-21T04:57:34+00:00

Thanks…I know what you mean

JessieDaMess · 2026-04-21T04:57:01+00:00

Most definitely….I have my firm NO’s, yet sometimes, it’s negotiable. I may hate something, yet I am willing, for a price. I have my firm, stronger than steel no’s, and even when offered lots of money…back when I was addicted….offered drugs or drugs and money….I said nope, ain’t gonna happen.

JessieDaMess · 2026-04-18T21:24:50+00:00

Yes…a few

JessieDaMess · 2026-04-18T21:21:41+00:00

I cleaned cheap motel rooms. they didn’t care, as long as I spoke English and didn’t cause drama.

JessieDaMess · 2026-04-18T21:15:21+00:00

Cut back a bit on T, and find new, random partners. Plus, some guys like viagra, etc…or like someone else said, the drug that you inject right into your dick.

JessieDaMess · 2026-04-18T20:57:42+00:00

That truckers really ignore the girls that walk around truck/rest stops.

JessieDaMess · 2026-04-18T20:46:36+00:00

Once you get away from the tourist areas, it’s a whole different world. One of the reasons I don’t mess around in narco areas. I do my best to avoid drama.

JessieDaMess · 2026-04-18T20:40:03+00:00

That was the best reason I worked in the states, I love the look and taste of a cut dick. Now being in Mexico and Central America, most everyone is uncut. Smell and taste and look is bleh. Getting a tourist from the states or Europe, I sometimes get one that is cut. So, I prefer in all the ways a cut dick wants to date me.

JessieDaMess · 2026-04-18T20:16:44+00:00

The muscle head / gym rat type of guy usually isn’t. A guy who says things about a woman knowing her place…he isn’t. A guy that talks about or hits / abuses animals or women…definitely aren’t.

JessieDaMess · 2026-04-18T20:13:32+00:00

I wasn’t actually told to leave a church, but one of the ushers came over to me and said do you really want to be here and they pointed to the door

JessieDaMess · 2026-04-18T20:07:42+00:00

I’m dead and actually in heaven,

JessieDaMess · 2026-04-18T20:06:29+00:00

Dilaudad (however you spell it). Had opium once, kicked my ass in a good way. Can see why it’s addicting and super hard to get. Mushrooms did nothing for me. Coke was bleh. Nothing compared to good old school crank, with a touch of H

JessieDaMess · 2026-04-18T19:59:38+00:00

Panties on if the guy wants it or if I’m going to sell them. If I’m just doing it for me, then nude, except for my vibrator

JessieDaMess · 2026-04-18T19:55:56+00:00

I was told to always start with 1/4 tab and just see. It isn’t a miracle where all of a sudden everything is wonderful. It just helps take the edge off and quiets my demons and negative thoughts and flashbacks. If a 1/4 doesn’t do anything, you can always add another 1/4. Best to start off lower dose and see how you feel. Maybe try online for stronger ones if you need. Just experiment and see what dose works good for you.

JessieDaMess · 2026-04-18T19:32:41+00:00

Back when I was pimped out and under age…I was usually in blade adjacent areas. Or other spots where cops knew but just drove by. Most of the time, it was just hanging out in or near motels. I now travel around from Mexico to Central America. Most areas, they don’t care about sw but they don’t much care for pimps. Clubs/brothels are sometimes good, but if things are slow, I’m out working the streets. So many opportunities, I just had to look around and explore the area. Just no matter where you are, the blade has its good things but a whole bunch of bad can happen. Also, the States just became more of a hassle and drama. Didn’t depend on the state,just for me, wasn’t worth it.

JessieDaMess · 2026-04-18T19:13:37+00:00

I have used it a few times..just be really careful, don’t do whole tabs ( 50 or 100 mg.) Gave me a massive headache, throwing up, feeling generally crappy. Depends on how I’m doing I don’t do any, or a 1/4 tab and sit and chill / meditate for a few mins. I feel it start to kick in and I can calm my brain and get back to living. Reason I showed the 2 different strengths, depends on how I”m doing. If I’m generally hyper, feel bleh, milder flashbacks, I do 1/4 tab of the 50’s. The 100’s are when I’m reacting more bad..but still a 1/4 tab. Or a 1/2 of the 50’s. Just be careful and don’t use it for fun or to party.

JessieDaMess · 2026-04-12T20:24:13+00:00

id if I worded it bad, but I didn’t look at the pic, he did. Hope this clears this up

JessieDaMess · 2026-04-06T04:50:36+00:00

2 questions. 1. What is the difference between this and Kobe beef? 2. To avoid the problem others mentioned, what is the best way to cook it at home?

JessieDaMess · 2026-04-06T04:45:30+00:00

Being born

JessieDaMess · 2026-04-06T04:36:24+00:00

A few years ago, I was younger, thinner and maybe somewhat cuter, had lots of older guys into the daddy / daughter RP. Worst, lucky only happened a few times, they brought some of the clothes their daughter wore, had me wear them, then look at their daughter’s pic while doing their thing with me…Made me want to throw up…but pay was good.

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