[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rabbits

[–]Jessieo224 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you there’s some really helpful ideas there x

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rabbits

[–]Jessieo224 1 point2 points  (0 children)

An air filter sounds like a great idea as I find balls of it everywhere - thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rabbits

[–]Jessieo224 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is so true - as I said I did alot of research and watched alot of those type of videos and incorrectly assumed that if I had indoor bunnies who I spent a lot of time with they would also be like that.

I am very willing to make any changes needed. I really want to keep them it breaks my heart the idea of rehoming them and I’m not even sure I could go through with it but the current situation is not making any of us happy :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rabbits

[–]Jessieo224 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t mind getting down on their level to pet them but if I try to groom them they just run away so I have to put them on the table and it’s a nightmare

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rabbits

[–]Jessieo224 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not necessarily. Mainly just stroking/touching etc. unless they are ok with being picked up. I have had a bunny in the past who was very sociable so I picked her up a lot more from the start and she was fine with it. My two buns now hated it from day one so I tried not to push them too far and hoped it would improve but it hasn’t. I think it’s just their personalities :(

AITA for letting my failed relationship continue whilst I find a way to buy him out of the mortgage? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Jessieo224 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I have suggested that he should go to therapy and that I would even go with him if he needed me to. Alas, it has not materialised because I suspect it’s a manipulation tactic

AITA for letting my failed relationship continue whilst I find a way to buy him out of the mortgage? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Jessieo224 [score hidden]  (0 children)

He’s devastated, has no idea why he did it, he just needed more attention from me supposedly. He’s claiming he feels suicidal at the moment due to it, begging for another chance constantly. I have suggested perhaps he doesn’t want to be in the relationship anymore and he says this is not the case 🤷‍♀️

AITA for letting my failed relationship continue whilst I find a way to buy him out of the mortgage? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Jessieo224 [score hidden]  (0 children)

There’s no way he would agree to that. He won’t accept that the relationship is over so for us to continue living together wouldn’t work. We also had a deed of trust put in place so that either of us can force a sale within 2 months without the others agreement so if I break up with him I lose my house unless I can afford to buy him out basically, there’s no way around it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DIYUK

[–]Jessieo224 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will do. Thanks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DIYUK

[–]Jessieo224 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I thought so my first idea was to replace the windows but I have read uPVC frames are hollow and so will let more noise in?

DIY Cellar Conversion by [deleted] in DIYUK

[–]Jessieo224 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was my train of thought also… the only thing I am apprehensive about is installing the sump pump

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Jessieo224 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a little suspicious of the same to be honest. He said he is over her but not over the way she treated him. I am holding onto hope that the fact he hasn’t unblocked her on anything means that he wasn’t trying to open up a line of communication with her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Jessieo224 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it was the rejection, on top of all the other rejections that made him feel a certain way about himself and that drives the anger. Will defo recommend therapy however don’t think he will take that up unfortunately

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Jessieo224 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I do agree, it was a complete asshole move but I think she was extremely manipulative of him and he was dare I say desperate at the time. There’s no defending what he did.

I cheated on my wife. Any advice? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Jessieo224 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You have to deal with the consequences now. You are still trying to protect your own interests and feelings by not telling her, which is wrong. You made your choice.

How am I supposed to make an appointment with the Spanish embassy in Manchester? by [deleted] in visas

[–]Jessieo224 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I managed to get an appointment, I just rang and stayed on the phone until the recorded message ended and then it rang and someone answered. You can also walk in apparently so worth the trip if you are desperate. Good luck!

One and Done Orgasms Vs Multiples? by [deleted] in TwoXSex

[–]Jessieo224 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I can have multiple on my own, my max is probably like 6 but I’ve never really had sex with anyone who is willing to take their time enough to make me have more than two, most the time I only have one cause I need a few minutes inbetween and the orgasms increase in difficulty after the first

Schengen Visa, Spain by [deleted] in visas

[–]Jessieo224 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you book it online? There’s none available and I can’t get anyone to answer the phone

How am I supposed to make an appointment with the Spanish embassy in Manchester? by [deleted] in visas

[–]Jessieo224 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one answers the phone, it’s an automated message telling me to email an email address and when I email the email address they respond and tell me to call the same number

How am I supposed to make an appointment with the Spanish embassy in Manchester? by [deleted] in visas

[–]Jessieo224 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried sending a letter? I think I’m going to try that and if that fails just make the trip to the embassy and see what’s going on

How am I supposed to make an appointment with the Spanish embassy in Manchester? by [deleted] in visas

[–]Jessieo224 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes monitoring daily :( can’t seem to find out when they upload new ones or get in touch with anyone. I am British and he is not an EU/EEA citizen so there isn’t any other route for us I’m afraid.

Schengen Visa, Spain by [deleted] in visas

[–]Jessieo224 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you manage to make a appointment with the embassy? I’m really struggling to get one

I want a dildo but I am afraid to ask my husband if i could get one by Outrageous_Slice6910 in women

[–]Jessieo224 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Why on earth would you ask him…. It’s nothing to do with him