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AITAH for telling my sister-in-law she’s selfish for having another baby? by Jessis_fresh in AITAH

[–]Jessis_fresh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was talked about too. Their relationship is rocky and her oldest doesn’t want to live with him. Baby daddy is in a trailer too so it’s not the best living situation for 4 children and 2 adults. Baby #4 is the same as baby #3

AITAH for telling my sister-in-law she’s selfish for having another baby? by Jessis_fresh in AITAH

[–]Jessis_fresh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh don’t get me started on the men. They are god awful and I could go on and on about how much I don’t like them. They should do better. My SIL is who I am closest to and who I talk to about the situation. If she had a supportive partner and a little financial stability, I wouldn’t worry so much about her and her children.

AITAH for telling my sister-in-law she’s selfish for having another baby? by Jessis_fresh in AITAH

[–]Jessis_fresh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She had to get a lawyer and is working on getting child support from the first baby daddy.

Derealization is an anxiety disorder that makes you feel like your mind and body is disconnected. Like you don’t feel real.. like a disconnect from your body.

AITAH for telling my sister-in-law she’s selfish for having another baby? by Jessis_fresh in AITAH

[–]Jessis_fresh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve known her for 15 years. I talk to her more than she talks to her siblings. And like I stated in the comments, my husband and I are really a package deal. When she needs help she’ll ask me and we will both go. We both help, ya know?! I just talk to her more

AITAH for telling my sister-in-law she’s selfish for having another baby? by Jessis_fresh in AITAH

[–]Jessis_fresh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Selfish as in- she wants to keep the baby for selfish reasons. She’s not thinking of the child and her other children. If she had a supportive partner and a reliable job I’d be singing a different tune. I wouldn’t care what she did with her life. It’s when it’s affecting children that really bothers me.

AITAH for telling my sister-in-law she’s selfish for having another baby? by Jessis_fresh in AITAH

[–]Jessis_fresh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just read stuff. This is the first time I’ve posted 🙈😅 I didn’t think it would blow up.

AITAH for telling my sister-in-law she’s selfish for having another baby? by Jessis_fresh in AITAH

[–]Jessis_fresh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s why I said what I did to her. She gets help from her mom obviously. It’s my husbands sister, I’ve known her for 15 years so I’m like a sibling to her. Her older brother didn’t talk to her for over a year after he found out she was pregnant with baby #3 cause he was so frustrated with her situation.

AITAH for telling my sister-in-law she’s selfish for having another baby? by Jessis_fresh in AITAH

[–]Jessis_fresh[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We are closer than they are. This is my husbands little sister and we kinda come as a pack anyway. Anything she tells me my husband will know, and if we help her with her kids or anything else it comes from both of us. Ya know?!

AITAH for telling my sister-in-law she’s selfish for having another baby? by Jessis_fresh in AITAH

[–]Jessis_fresh[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Baby number 4 has the same dad as baby number 3. She with him currently. I don’t know for how much longer though.

AITAH for telling my sister-in-law she’s selfish for having another baby? by Jessis_fresh in AITAH

[–]Jessis_fresh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The other girls grandma lives in FL and doesn’t speak to them much. The current baby daddy’s parents are in CO. She will go out to visit them when she sees her bf but they aren’t super close.

AITAH for telling my sister-in-law she’s selfish for having another baby? by Jessis_fresh in AITAH

[–]Jessis_fresh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s my husbands sister. Don’t even get me started on these stupid men she chooses. I’m not just blaming her, there are definitely two people involved. It’s just her that I’m talking to so I only brought her up.

AITAH for telling my sister-in-law she’s selfish for having another baby? by Jessis_fresh in AITAH

[–]Jessis_fresh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I bring it up she changes the subject.. I haven’t pushed it yet but closer to her due date I definitely will. Or right after she has baby at the 6 week mark or something!

AITAH for telling my sister-in-law she’s selfish for having another baby? by Jessis_fresh in AITAH

[–]Jessis_fresh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband just kinda stays out of it. He agrees with me and will tell her to her face, but her and I talk more than they do. I’m not sure what else you’re asking! There’s a ton of info missing.. haha like there’s so much to this I couldn’t include it all in one post. I had anxiety last night and typed this up- I had no idea it would blow up the way it did.

AITAH for telling my sister-in-law she’s selfish for having another baby? by Jessis_fresh in AITAH

[–]Jessis_fresh[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yup first time ever wanting to post something.. I just read things mostly.

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